Actually, friendship comes from Japan, which is called "Hehe" in Japanese. It means that men and women who don't know each other in advance organize parties to play together to promote relations, and the purpose is often to find male and female friends.
Friendship is a very common and normal communication activity in Japan. College students, working people and other ordinary people will participate in different social activities in different forms. Besides having dinner together, different people also have various friendship associations. For example, the "puzzle-solving fellowship" is the fellowship between men and women in solving puzzles, and people who like reasoning may enjoy this fellowship.
Or "otaku-specific friendship" is a limited friendship for otaku who likes animation, games and COSPLAY.
In fact, there are deep-seated reasons behind the emergence of friendship culture. The fast pace of life and work in Japanese metropolises often leads to a smaller circle of Japanese friends, and there is no time or channel to meet new members of the opposite sex. Friendship has played the role of providing a channel for making friends, expanding the circle of friends through the equal number of men and women eating and gathering together, and at the same time, one-on-one friendship has also increased the closer communication between the opposite sex, which has become a major channel to solve the marriage problem between men and women.
Friendship, friendship and connections can all be established by asking for each other's email address at the fraternity. It can be said that reaching the address is half the battle, so friendship is usually in a place similar to a cocktail party or salon.
In China, the problem of marriage and love is usually solved through one's own network or through blind date, just like Japanese friends. For example, several couples are dating at the same time, because the same sex is familiar, there will be no great contradictions and embarrassment. However, many people have commented that friendship has also established a dating channel. Through the description of the relationship between men and women in Haruki Murakami's Norwegian Forest, friendship is likely to become this channel, and this extremely open and closed culture is also a major feature of Japanese culture. For example, the values that "Love Story in Tokyo" and "Love of Sages" can survive this conflict are also a major feature of Japanese culture.
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