The second question: the child's behavior is opposed by parents, parents have parents' reasons, children have children's reasons, and children are in a weak position. Of course, we must be forced to obey, but the child's psychology is gone and hurt, so the feelings between the child and his parents will be affected.
On the right and wrong, what parents cherish is antelope woodcarving, which is an education for children's life truth, while "I" cherish pure friendship, which leads to contradictions. It should be said that parents lacked and did not explain "valuable" in advance. "I" is also lacking I gave the antelope away, I didn't know it had "value", and I didn't discuss it with adults. If we had been more considerate, such pleasant things would not have happened.
Children are brought up by their parents. Parents are dominant, and parents are responsible for their children's shortcomings. It is better to blame yourself for not making it clear in advance than to blame the children for making their own decisions. The author's tendency is mainly to educate children. If we look at it from the perspective of "I", we can learn from it. After all, it is necessary to discuss with adults what to do when I was a child.
This contradiction is the contradiction between family and friendship. In the final analysis, it is still a "generation gap" problem. Due to the changes of the times and different knowledge backgrounds, there are bound to be differences between the two generations in life, ideals, affection, friendship and values, which will inevitably be manifested in many families.
The antelope woodcarving shows two inner worlds: "I" cherish friendship and give the antelope woodcarving to Wan Fang; What parents cherish in their hearts is antelope woodcarving, and what they educate is "I". Forced "I" to get the antelope carving back, so there was a conflict. It should be said that parents are lacking and "I" is also lacking. If we understand each other, such unpleasant things will not happen. As a middle school student, on the one hand, we should learn to think and have our own opinions; On the other hand, it is wrong to do things after consulting with adults. Is self-righteous, self-assertion. Of course, don't rush away from home to solve the problem. We should learn to think very rationally. If you learn to communicate in life, let your parents and others understand you, and try your best to understand them, you can try your best to avoid conflicts in the text. By extension, discussing things more can avoid many contradictions.