Today, Feekr recommended a maverick cat to "be a person who doesn't ask much of himself". Never make excuses for your laziness, be a person who demands a little from yourself!
I have a male colleague, 35 years old, single and virgo. On weekdays, he always wears a suit and tie, and his white shirt always looks like he just bought it from the store. Although our company also requires to wear professional clothes to work, it is really rare for Cheng Zheng to be such a big brother. In our industry, we often have to stay up late to write plans and go to the proposal early the next morning. Once, we finished writing the plan at four o'clock in the morning and went home to sleep one after another. When we gathered at the client company at nine o'clock in the morning, we all looked sleepy while drinking coffee. Big brother has a suit and tie, a white shirt and sparkling eyes. He also sprayed something he didn't know was hair gel or wax. It feels like the style he just made, very stylish. We all knelt in front of our eldest brother and asked him sadly, "Emma, didn't you go home to sleep?" "No, I went home to iron my shirt, then took a shower, brushed my teeth, shaved my hair and had a cup of coffee." "Eldest brother, aren't you sleepy? Wouldn't you be blind if you lost? " "Gee, I am a man who has requirements for himself. Even if I lose the lawsuit, I have to lose, but I can't lose. "
Many friends around me are pregnant and have children this year, and the circle of friends is full of posts in which postpartum mothers complain about not losing weight and not recovering. As a person with professional fitness experience, although he has no experience, he knows that although postpartum efforts and breastfeeding will greatly reduce his weight, whether he enters the gym 3-6 months after delivery or climbs the stairs every day, he still needs to rely on fitness to completely restore his prenatal state and get a fashionable and wealthy figure. In order to prevent myself from being lazy after childbirth, I booked postpartum recovery training in the gym and hired a professional coach. I want to share this method with a complaining friend, but without exception, I always hear: "I am too busy with my children to exercise." "Just let it go. Anyway, I gave birth to my husband and he can't abandon me. " "Is there any way to keep fit without working hard? You see, I can't go on a diet while breastfeeding. " In this respect, although I don't have any say for the time being, I thought of the story of Wendy Wang, the handsome girl who is very popular on Douban. As we all know, handsome girls began to lose weight on the 36th day after delivery, and recovered their prenatal figure on 100, which was sought after on the Internet. Many people pursue her slimming action and her daily diet, thinking that they can be as beautiful and thin as her, but many people forget her high self-control and self-discipline spirit. As a postpartum mother, isn't it hard for her to have children? Don't her children have to be breastfed every two hours? Is there 10 nanny around her house who takes her out of body to the gym? Although I don't know her, I believe that she is as hard and busy as all mothers, and even has anxiety and anxiety about her new life. But unlike many mothers, she wanted to do it, and she really overcame all difficulties to do it. Today, as the mother of a two-year-old child, she has become the new editor-in-chief of fashion COSMO magazine with her graceful figure and exquisite makeup, and she often travels in the forefront of fashion all over the world. Many people envy her, saying that she is lucky and that she must have married a good husband, but no matter what you say about her, as long as you can't learn her harshness and requirements, you can only envy her forever.
When I was young, I always felt that life should be happy-go-lucky, as long as I was reliable in big things, and I didn't need to care too much about small things. For example, whether the floor at home is swept once every three days or once every five days, reading casually or 30 pages a day, studying for an hour at night or watching TV first, and whether the clothes should be ironed, anyway, you won't meet your ex-boyfriend when you go out to take out the garbage. But when I grow up, I find that those who are careless about the little things in life are not serious about the big things at all. For example, I will still be habitually late for important exams, and I will be uncomfortable when I wear my senior uniform and play badly during project reporting. In daily life, I have become accustomed to my freedom and indulgence, and have long lost the concept of self-discipline. When you want to be nervous, you find that everything about yourself is like the bed when you just woke up, messy and you can't find anything. In fact, there is nothing important in life, but every little thing is gathered together and shaped into a person. If you want to achieve something, what you are most afraid of is not bad luck, no money and no fun, but that you have no requirements for yourself from the beginning. A person who has no demands on himself is not qualified to have any demands on the world.
Every time I pass by the kindergarten in front of my house and see a group of chubby mothers scratching their hair unkempt, I always secretly make up my mind never to be such a mother. That big brother got married last year and found someone who has the same high requirements for life. He comes to work spotless every day, blinding everyone around him. In fact, life doesn't need chicken blood all the time, but people and things around us who are better than you and me are the objects we need to seriously think about; There are not many great events in life, but a little demand for every little thing makes it look the best.