I am a sister paper that is not very good-looking. I used to be fat. Dieting to lose weight, admitted to graduate school this year. Boyfriend has always been the kind of struggling person who especially wants to make money, and he has proved that he has the potential to make money through his own actions (I am sure of him). Nothing happened when we were together. I was very happy every day and I could feel his love for me. Sadly, it has been a long-distance relationship since graduation. I also quarreled from time to time when I was a telecom employee. The only content of the quarrel is that I am too busy to care about me. Fortunately, he didn't work very hard at that time, and he worked for others, so he had plenty of time. Occasionally, shopping and dating are also wonderful. Since he went to the most prosperous place in WH to start a business, he has been recruiting people one after another. As a small boss, there are more and more things to care about and deal with, and problems follow one after another: we can take a week off, which means we can't date; There are also fewer phones, mainly WeChat chat every day; I said I miss me and want to be with me, but I can't figure out why I can't spare one day a week, or I have two days off this week to go home, but I don't want to be alone with me. Always calmer than me. I was looking for a job recently, and he said, "It doesn't matter if you can't rest." . I don't know what he really means. What are the boys thinking? I also complain a little that he always wants me to cater to his time. He said that when he was resting, he felt behind the times. Does he care more about high-yield things (companies where he can make money) than I do? I have been thinking about this question for half a year, and there is really no answer. What should I do if I ask Zhihu netizens for help? I hope you can wake me up and call me stupid. I accept it humbly. I used to think I was worth a lot. I died many times, and he forgave me. I didn't dare to die recently, but expressed my dissatisfaction euphemistically. Is he bargaining? It means you just have to stay with me. If you don't want to stay together, get out. Is that what you mean?

I think you should be a girl with a happy life, without too much pressure in life, so emotional needs are particularly prominent in this case.

Personally, I think there is no answer to the question of feelings except 1. Let me tell you a 250, oh no ~? It is 2.5.

1, you admire his enterprising spirit, which is also his advantage, but the other side of this advantage is his shortcoming. Don't underestimate enterprising workaholics, they can really do some work-related things day and night. I quite understand you, but I hope you can understand the existence of such people. If you can't understand, you have to accept it, because such people really exist in this world.

2. There are fewer calls, mainly WeChat chat every day; I said I miss me and want to be with me, but I can't figure out why I can't spare one day a week, or I have two days off this week to go home, but I don't want to be alone with me. This is enough to prove that he is really a person who can work but can't fall in love!

He said that he can have a rest if he wants, which makes him feel out of date. Explain that this is a person who is used to being single, or that he never knows how to fall in love seriously, and thinks more about his own feelings and ignores yours. But it really doesn't mean that he doesn't like you! ! It can only show that he likes himself best (don't misinterpret this sentence, everyone likes himself, but he values his feelings more) ~ general

4. I used to feel that I was of high value. I died many times, and he forgave me. Recently, I dare not die. I just expressed my dissatisfaction euphemistically. Is he bargaining? Why should a girl belittle herself when she encounters a little emotional setback? However, personally, I don't agree with the statement that you die because you think you are valuable. I think you died because he didn't care enough about you and didn't understand what you wanted.

I can look at his mobile phone at will, and I also have his credit card, so I don't think there is a mistress problem. I want to know what I can do to make him care more about me. Now that you know everything, you can just look at his mobile phone and swipe his credit card, which means that he is in your place and there is nothing to hide.