1, the mother's thoughts are not conservative, and the child's personal affairs should be decided by himself as far as possible, instead of arranging democracy and enlightenment, so that the child's mind can be at ease and his thinking can be more active, sensitive and creative.

2. The mother respects the child's decision, understands the child's mood at this moment, has the ability of * * *, and does not laugh at the child's naivety. Although the process of maturity is a bit painful, it is irreplaceable by anyone.