Hong Kong actors Cherrie Ying and Jordan chan have a 5-year-old son Jasper, and the family of three sometimes share their daily parent-child life in variety shows. Cherrie Ying's consistent decisive and principled parenting style has also won the support of many netizens. Recently, Mr. Lu invited Cherrie Ying, Anita Yuen and other star mothers to talk about parenting. On the program, the two used the two most common NG behaviors to "eat", which brought out the basic principle of refusing the elders to spoil their children.
Cherrie Ying said that she didn't like to bring her children to her parents, because there was always "doting on her grandchildren". She rolled her eyes and gave an example. Her father always gives priority to his grandson's opinion when cooking. He will ask Jasper first whether he wants noodles or rice. Jasper immediately cooked what he wanted to eat, which made Cherrie Ying very angry. He didn't want to talk.
Later, Cherrie Ying was furious and said, "This is not a restaurant. Have something to eat! " Anita Yuen also agrees very much. She said that children will go to other people's homes for dinner in the future. A long time ago, she told her son, "You can eat anything people make. Why do people ask what you want to eat? 」
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Cherrie Ying gave another example. Family members eat mixed vegetables, and some parents will directly transfer the vegetables to their children and let them eat first. But Cherrie Ying said that "children can't start eating before their elders start", and even if there is the last dish left on the table today, it should not be "given" to children.
The host asked Cherrie Ying, does he usually make many rules for Jasper? Cherrie Ying replied in surprise, "These are basic manners, even if they are very strict, they must be done! However, perhaps because of this, Jasper gives everyone the impression of being very polite and is often praised for his good family education.
In fact, this is not the first time that Anita Yuen and Cherrie Ying mentioned that doting is unacceptable. Before, an amateur child "Wu Ye" appeared in the program, and the toys in his room were scattered all over the floor. After Anita Yuen saw it, he directly criticized "Wu Ye has too many toys! Wu Ye's father is the father of a super typical pet. He admits that when children want to buy toys, they "have no choice but to buy them".
The host asked, what would you do if your child asked you for help in life? Wu Ye's father replied without thinking: "Just help!" If you can, why not help? Cherrie Ying said half-jokingly that if he met such a husband, he would "kill him".
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Anita Yuen asked Wu Ye's father, "How many years can you follow him?" She shared her childhood experience. Anita Yuen's father was very protective of her daughter, which made her realize that she couldn't do many things when she grew up. She felt "useless" and blamed her father. The father of Yuzryha Dance realized that caring too much about children may be a kind of harm, and said that he would adjust his parenting style next. "I was wrong, I will be a good father. 」