First, although the only important task in life has become a child, you can't give up your efforts and learn new knowledge, so even if you don't go to work, you won't be out of touch with society. As long as it is not out of touch with society, re-entering the workplace will save a lot of psychological adjustment and preparation. Second, stay-at-home mothers had better have a helper, or they won't have much time to enrich themselves, even if they have a hard-working heart. It's best for this helper to be his mother or nanny, or his mother-in-law, but I'm afraid of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which will not only save me time, but also increase my trouble. Third, it's better to find someone to recommend you when looking for a job, which is much more effective than sending resumes everywhere. Fourth, you must find a good position for yourself when you re-enter the workplace, and you can't jump ship like you did when you were young. For women, the older they get, the more they can't stand frequent choices. If you choose to go, you can't stand all kinds of restrictions and disappointments in the workplace. It is very important to be a full-time mother. Finding a good position means finding a platform that you like relatively, overcoming all difficulties, trying to polish yourself on this platform, accumulating experience and going out until one day you leave briefly and come back. Fifth, I believe that any woman who can be a full-time mother can become a capable woman in the workplace. They choose to be full-time mothers, but they really can't have both. The whole world underestimates the ability of stay-at-home mothers, and always thinks that taking care of children depends only on women's instinct. If you don't make money, you are doomed to have no status. In fact, being a good stay-at-home mother involves as much ability as any professional. Therefore, every full-time mother should have confidence in herself, be a good mother first, and don't be swayed by considerations of gain and loss. One moment she is worried about the poor care of her children, and the other moment she is worried that she will have no place if she doesn't work. I want to stand on my own feet and prove to the world that I am good and excellent.