[Professor Wang Shunzhen]: There are too many cases of this problem, and most of my students have encountered this situation. My advice to him is to put his own goals and direction first and his parents' opinions and arrangements second. For this netizen, he feels that he is not suitable to be a teacher, but on one condition, you must find out what you are suitable for, want to do or can do. You know you are not fit to be a teacher, so you must explore and analyze what you are fit to do, what you want to do and what you can do. Then analyze the strengths, weaknesses, opportunities and threats according to your own situation, that is, let him do a SWOT, which is the best. Then analyze what kind of professional anchor he belongs to. [Snake]: Hello, Teacher Wang! I am an undergraduate girl, I should have graduated in 2006, majoring in polymer materials and engineering. But because I don't want to go to college, I can't graduate until 1 year. Because of this knot in my heart, I have been reluctant to face the reality of finding a job. It took me three months to get an interview and successfully enter a private enterprise. I worked until I resigned in June this year. The reason is that the wages and benefits of this unit are very poor and there is no room for improvement. It took 1 month to attend IELTS class after returning to China, but the results were little. My parents have been urging me to go to work again, but I lack confidence. I have made no achievements in my major, and I have no interest and enthusiasm in learning, and my English is poor. The most serious problem is that I don't know what kind of job I should look for, what I am suitable for and what I can do. Every time I open the recruitment website, job seekers feel at a loss. Because of my previous work unit, I also lack trust in private enterprises now, and I have never stepped on the door when I want to enter a big enterprise. My family conditions are very general, and my parents hope that I can have a good job and live a carefree life in the future. It's hard for me to stay at home all the time, but the deserted university life has caused me to have little enthusiasm, no goal and no fighting spirit for learning. Excuse me, what should I do now? Thank you [Professor Wang Shunzhen]: This problem is also a common phenomenon among young people now. He wants to live a superior life again, but his efforts are difficult to implement. My suggestion is that you only have one more place to work, work hard, experience, think and sum up, and then after a period of time, I think you will find some advantages and disadvantages of yourself. If you want to enter a big enterprise, start from a small one, and don't take the immediate interests too seriously. Another suggestion is that there are many such graduates. If your family conditions are average, I think you have to build your own goals and confidence to fight for it. This is not the same as having a superior family. The student still has to forget the past and look forward to the future. Because of your own situation and conditions, you must have confidence and work hard. There is no other way out. If your family conditions are good, there may be another way out. But if your family conditions are good, you must do this and forget all the disadvantages in the past, because it doesn't matter if you start from scratch young. [Dream and Reality]: Hello, Miss Wang! I am a junior college student in Grade 08, majoring in computer graphic design. But for a girl who just turned 19, I dare say that my abilities in all aspects have surpassed those of some students who graduated in the same period. In the past few years in school, I (the cadres of the two committees of the hospital, the radio host, the press corps, the TV host and the class cadre) have the same excellent professional achievements: scholarships for the first, second and third years of the hospital, students in the third year of the province, outstanding graduates, and only a few national advertising designers have passed the certification in one class! I started social practice in 2007 10. So far, I have done event hosting, graphic design and mobile customer service. Every job has never stopped for a day from resignation, interview and appointment. Resignation is not because of my ability and salary, but because I have mastered the main points of work and hate boring, comfortable and tired work content. No amount of generous treatment can make me comfortable with the status quo. At present, I am engaged in copywriting planning in a well-known domestic software company. The salary is not very high, but the benefits are good. It is a company that everyone wants to come in, but it also involves marketing! I hate that hypocritical scene, but I still have to treat each other with a warm face. I really want to give up, but I can't bear it! Meditation: What kind of job am I suitable for? Personal characteristics: good eloquence, strong learning ability, lively and cheerful, more careless, too subjective, do not like sales. [Professor Wang Shunzhen]: This problem is also the problem of excellent students. For this netizen, his current company is good, but what he faces is that he doesn't like the sales job he is engaged in now. Judging from the characteristics of this netizen, he should be challenging or creative, so I suggest that he continue to do it and not resign easily, but it won't last long. You just need to accumulate experience and learn various skills here, and then start your own business or find a partner. This is my advice to this netizen. For some excellent graduates, these people should pay attention to a problem. Before college, they were always excellent in many aspects, not only academically, but also in other aspects. These people will have great difficulties in choosing jobs in the future. I suggest they learn to be willing. Often they think they are excellent and don't want to give up in all aspects, but this may miss some opportunities. [Moderator]: Due to time constraints, our current workplace forum ends here. Thanks to Professor Wang Shunzhen's wonderful answer, and thanks to the enthusiastic participation of netizens!

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