When we hear the word "grapefruit ant", it is natural to think that it is an ant that feeds on grapefruit or has a special relationship with grapefruit. But there is actually no such specific kind. Generally speaking, ants will feed on all kinds of fruits, including grapefruit. But this does not mean that they eat grapefruit exclusively, nor that they are so-called "grapefruit ants".
Generally speaking, "grapefruit ant" is not a technical term in biology, and there is no corresponding ant species. If someone uses this word, it may be out of informal, colloquial or creative description, rather than referring to a specific ant species.