During the epidemic, I have been depressed at home for a long time. How to correctly handle family conflicts? I have been at home since the outbreak, almost five months. It is easy to get upset over time, and this kind of irritability is also related to several aspects. Accustomed to a busy life, you will be flustered when you are idle. For students, online courses are occasionally not understood by their parents, and then they are eager to start school. All kinds of pressures and loans come to mind, resulting in a tired and anxious mentality. You are not allowed to go out during the epidemic, and the whole family holds a place. If there are many people, there will be contradictions. For these contradictions, my view is this: "I think no matter what contradictions, we must first learn to communicate and understand." This is not easy for everyone. We can find ways together instead of intensifying them and affecting our feelings. "

Secondly, for students who attend classes at home, don't blindly use online classes as an excuse to avoid work. It's not easy for parents. They should understand and understand each other, help more when they are not in class, and ask questions and contradictions in time. The two sides discuss with each other, which is not only conducive to maintaining feelings, but also can come up with a better solution. I have a friend whose family conflicts are particularly serious. My husband is very busy at work and doesn't have much time to rest at home. This epidemic can only be done at home. They have been in the same room for a long time, and neither of them is pleasing to the eye. You call me lazy. I think you have too much to do, so I have to quarrel with each other. In the worst case, when the epidemic is over, they will divorce.

I think this is all caused by idleness. They came to me and let me judge. I criticized them for giving them advice to go out and find something to do, so maybe they wouldn't fight. Suddenly one day, they called me and said that your idea was really good. Now that we are volunteers in the community, we have no time to quarrel. It turned out that there were too few community workers and they needed volunteers, so they signed up. One is responsible for community registration, and the other is responsible for managing community express delivery. Busy work, no time to quarrel, harmonious life, quiet life back to the past. So I feel too free to go out and find something to do, which can not only contribute to society, but also solve family conflicts. Why not?