They always feel that their talents and beauty should not be disappointing, and men should pay more value for them, such as RV and money.
To this end, I especially want to ask the woman who said this: "How expensive are you? Is Pan Jinlian expensive? "
You know, Miss Pan, who has been notorious for a long time, was really expensive among good women at that time, worth thirty taels of silver! According to the current price, it is worth about 30 thousand, but don't feel low. This was the world situation at that time. You know, the third heroine Pang in the book is a dozen taels of silver, and many other supporting maids are worth several taels of silver. Her price is sky-high among a good woman.
Of course, it is expensive for a reason. This Miss Pan, regardless of her appearance or talent, is a lever.
Look at the appearance first. Whether it's a female diva trained by the government, an imperial concubine maid who makes Lao Zhang's family salivate or even risk their lives, or a young woman who makes Simon's official stunned, they are trying to prove the fact that this woman has a very beautiful face.
Moon Niang is also a woman. Pan Jinlian in her eyes is still stunning, and she has the idea that "I can't blame my strongman for loving her". It can be seen that this Miss Pan is not an ordinary beauty. Today, she is estimated to be comparable to those who rely on their faces to eat in the entertainment circle.
Then look at talent. Growing up in an official family, a female queen trained by a serious scholar will naturally not lack talent. Playing and singing is the basic function. What's more, she can read and write, but thanks to this skill, she can write a love letter to Ximen Qing and coax the man who is particularly easy to change his mind back.
Is it awesome? You know, almost all the women in this book are illiterate, including Ximen Qing. It is estimated that they can read a few words and are particularly scarce talents. In Qian Zhongshu's Fortress Besieged, the new women at that time also took "university diploma (with ebony frame) and bachelor's hat photo (16 inch colored ebony frame with gold paint)" as the representative of dowry culture!
What's more, in the Ming Dynasty, when only men had the right to education, Miss Pan could read and write, which was really a skill that could improve social status!
What's more, people also play the pipa well. After the death of Wu Da for the sixth time, when Ximen Qing and Pan Jinlian were hanging out together, she was asked to play a piece of music. After Miss Pan "relaxed the jade bamboo shoots and played the ice strings", Ximen Qing was "so happy that he lost his feet" and boasted: "Even if a villain sings at the intersection of Jianshezhu Third Street and Liangxiang, it is not as good as your hand!"
It's just a pity that Miss Pan is worth thirty taels of silver even if she is superior in sex. Of course, this is when she was a daughter of Huanghua. Later, she became a widow. Ximen Qing gave the cunning Wang Po three taels of silver and carried her home with "four lanterns in a car".
At that time, no matter how talented women were, they could not be immune to it, which was determined by the political and economic environment at that time. Men cling to women's survival throats, and women have no resistance. After the death of Meng Yulou's ex-husband, if Ximen Qing doesn't marry her as the third wife, all her property will be taken care of by her brother-in-law and mother-in-law.
So in the society at that time, even if a woman had many talents, it was often difficult to bring them into play. They are deprived of their dignity and rights as human beings by the times, and they are victims of the patriarchal society.
Therefore, because of the special social environment, their value is determined by men. Their beauty, talent and movies are all priced in the market, so they will be as expensive as commodities.
Master Simon's back room, Pan Jinlian, as his beloved concubine room, doesn't even have a fur coat to keep out the cold on a cold snowy night. For this, she felt very ashamed.
But what's the use of shame? Ximen Qing naturally won't mistreat his woman, but the businessman's calculation is also in his bones. It is a little difficult for him to spend extra money on the toys he has already got.
So, we saw a Pan Jinlian who tried every means to win favor, ingratiated himself with Ximen Qing without a bottom line, and even refused to drink his urine. In order to protect his position in Ximen Qing's heart, he tried his best to deal with those threatening women. Gentle Li Pinger and provocative Song Huilian both died in her hands.
Pan Jinlian's madness has a very important relationship with her economic independence. She doesn't own a house, and she doesn't dislike making money. The only way to get money is to rely on a man's good feeling and use his happiness to get some good feelings for himself.
However, this is not easy.
From 46 times to 74 times in the book, she wrote that she didn't have a fur coat. She only got a decent fur coat from Ximen Qing (a mink coat worth 60 taels of silver that Li Pinger wore before his death).
This road is simply embarrassing.
But there is no way, because she has no choice but this road. For that poor self-esteem and dignity, she had to become numb and betray her conscience and personality. She tried to dress herself up in bed and cater to men until she became a senior plaything that men could not put down.
If Pan Jinlian becomes like that, it's because she can't resist.
So today, even women say that they are expensive in front of men. You look down on yourself too much. No choice?
Have you ever seen a man say, "I didn't raise myself so expensive to give you a little depression!" " "Something like this?
Don't!
Of course, many people will joke that they are very expensive in the workplace, because they know very well that they are only talking about their work skills, not themselves, and their value is infinite.
If a woman who has lived in 2 1 century still thinks that her value is measured by money, that she is very expensive all day, and that men should pay for your beauty and talent, then maybe you were born in the wrong era!
Why do people who should be priceless have to say that they are valuable?