As we all know, Gu Erlang had an outer room with two children, a man and a woman, before his formal marriage. That girl's name is Rong Jieer, not much different from Xian Jieer. After Ming Lan got married, she became a stepmother and took care of Jungle. There are many domestic and foreign troubles at home. Dalang abandoned orphans and widows, while Minglan was kind. Seeing Xian Jie's cleverness and understanding, she took special care of them. Therefore, Sister Rong and Sister Xian are both teachers in Ming Lan.
However, despite this, the performance of Sister Rong and Sister Xian is quite different. With the growth of age, Sister Xian is obviously more like Ming Lan's temperament: intelligent, sensible, forbearing, knowledgeable, and good at self-help!
Therefore, Rongjie, as the real stepdaughter of Ming Lan, is only the daughter of my uncle's family. Compared with Xian Jie, Rong Jie and Ming Lan have more opportunities to get along and learn. Why did Xian Jie turn out to be more like Ming Lan in temper and handling affairs?
There are actually three reasons.
First, Xian Jieer's life background is similar to that of Ming Lan.
Sister Xian grew up with her parents. Gu Dalang is well-read, knowledgeable and skillful in strategy, and her mother is gentle and knowledgeable, so Xianjie naturally learns her parents' temper, which is both smart and gentle. But at the same time, Sister Xian knew that Dad had been weak and sick since childhood. Although he inherited the Marquis, there is always a little Qin on it, and dad can't really make decisions. So she can't be willful like other children, which is more obvious after Gu Dalang's death!
Ming Lan, who was taught by his mother, Wei Xiaoniang, was not even a mother. Obviously, she was smart but could not show her edge. Later, when his mother died in childbirth, his father ignored her and was raised by Ming Lan's grandmother. But after all, he had seen too many human sufferings since he was a child, and he dared not be too obvious. Ming Lan has two sisters, one is a handyman, supported by her mother, and the other is the daughter of a favored little mother. Her father loves her very much. In this case, Ming Lan wants to live a good life, and can only be so forbearing.
The second is that sages are more responsible than rongjie.
What responsibility is this? Is to protect your mother and protect yourself. Sister Xian is a big girl. She knows that her mother is gentle and won't bully her back by bullying. Her father died young, and her grandmother was more scheming. Although her aunt Ming Lan takes care of herself, she is not as capable as herself after all. Therefore, Sister Xian has been studying very hard and doesn't show off on weekdays. She is working hard in the dark, hoping to protect herself and her mother with her own efforts.
Sister Rong has a capable father and a stepmother who is very kind to her. Although not the first daughter, she is the eldest daughter after all. After that, her parents will make good plans for her, and the growing environment will be relatively healthy and carefree.
Let's look at Ming Lan again. She can compete with Gu Er since she was a child. She can learn everything little by little, and she has to be taught by her grandmother. But she knows that she can only rely on herself, can cook, understand etiquette, and get the table in all aspects. These are all the achievements she has made in studying hard day and night, as can be seen from what her grandmother's maid said.
Thirdly, Xian Jieer has her own appreciation and gratitude for Ming Lan.
After marriage, Ming Lan and Xiao Qin fought wits. Xian's sister and mother have a good eye. Although not involved, I have my own judgment in my heart. Later, in order to make life more worry-free, Ming Lan told Xian Jie some truths. Sister Xian is transparent and poorly understood. She left her mother behind, stayed out of the infighting at home, managed her own affairs and lived her own life with peace of mind. All this was inspired by Ming Lan, and her heart yearned for Ming Lan. She hopes to be such a woman in the future.
And Rong Jieer, who grew up under Ming Lan's knee, naturally fell in love with Ming Lan, but this kind of love was originally for mistress. When Ming Lan gave his life to save her, after her mother died, it became love for her, and Rongjieer relied on Minglan.
When Ming Lan was a child, she also had her own tutor, and that was her grandmother. Grandmother is the only daughter of Yonghouyi's family. She was born in a noble family and lived in a palace. She experienced many things and had her own unique experience, which had a great influence on Ming Lan. This shows how important it is for children to have a good teacher.
To sum up, Xian Jieer is smart and sensible, but her life is bumpy, she relies on others, and she is taught by Ming Lan and knows her responsibilities. Therefore, the possibility of developing Ming Lan's temper in the future is much greater than that of Rong Jieer, who is loved by her parents.
But of course, it's only possible. After all, everyone's personality, environment and growth experience can't be exactly the same. But whether Fairy Sister will become the next Ming Lan or not, we can be sure that Ming Lan will be responsible for this child to the end!