From primary school to junior high school, children's schoolbags are getting heavier and heavier, and the learning burden is getting bigger and bigger! It is said that you are not allowed to make up lessons, but you can just go outside and have a look. From children to primary schools, junior high schools and senior high schools, there are more and more large and small training institutions!
In this environment of survival of the fittest, it is said that children cannot lose at the starting line. Did you give your children a holiday on weekends except for five days of school? Don't!
Everyone thinks that their children should be educated. Isn't school education enough? It is necessary to arrange children's weekends to be full.
Learn the piano in the morning, practice calligraphy in the morning, learn the Olympics in the afternoon and make up English. The children stayed outside for a day and went home at night to finish the homework assigned by the school.
Can this arrangement make children become excellent? If you do the same when you are studying, will you feel wronged? Because now that you are a father or a mother, can children refute besides obeying? They also know that rebuttal is useless!
Remember Guo's sketch "My Dad and I Swap Roles" in the Spring Festival Evening of 2003? Have you ever looked at yourself when you blame your child for not learning well and being obedient? Why is the child like this? None of our business.
The CCTV documentary Mirror shows us an extremely common phenomenon: behind a failed child, there must be a failed family education!
Parents all over the world have such expectations that their children will succeed and their daughters will succeed. In order to achieve this goal, you have arranged one after another extracurricular tutoring and interest cultivation for your children. You think it is to cultivate children, but in fact it is more to put pressure on children!
In the face of all kinds of burdens, children with weak stress resistance will have pessimistic and world-weary emotions. If parents reconsider and give correct guidance in time, they will push their children to a desperate situation.
In recent years, students frequently choose to commit suicide because they can't stand the pressure of reality. Can't the lessons of blood and tears wake us up?
Do you study hard?
Are you tired of reading?
Who are you reading for?
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Parents used to ask themselves questions, but now you ask your children the same questions.
I once heard a conversation between a teacher and a child, which is still fresh in my memory.
"Do you think reading is good?"
"Not good!"
"Why not?"
"Mom says I have to get up early to study, so I can't sleep late."
"Do you want to study?"
"I don't want to!"
"Then why did you sign up?"
"Mom and Dad sent me."
This is a ten-year-old boy's answer to the teacher's question, which is very simple and direct. Say whatever you want without any adulteration. In his words, it seems that reading is for parents, not for yourself at all.
It is conceivable that under what circumstances do children study now, and where does their pressure come from? School? Family? Society? Or all three?
How can we really let children decompress? Decompression? This is not a single family problem, but a social phenomenon. Decompression for children, not just shouting slogans, must be implemented to give children a happy and harmonious learning environment!
1, Paralympic Games Guo Yujie is a cross-country skier and biathlon athlete from Hebei. His personal ability is outstanding. He won three gold medals and th