This may also be the result of the feudalization of their thoughts. But the pressure in this society is really great. As soon as we young people enter the society, we have to accept the social assessment. We have to bear great pressure from work or life. These pressures can even make us breathless, leaving us too busy to take care of our personal feelings. Many people have great work pressure.
Sometimes they have to work from day to night, and sometimes they even have to work overtime until the early morning, leaving little time for themselves. So under such circumstances, we can't bear to consider our personal feelings, but they don't recognize it at home. Every time we go home, they always urge us to go on blind dates, and even hope to see us get married as soon as possible, but now we are not in the mood to meet our families and bear the burden of the family.
Whenever this time, my mood will become particularly depressed. Of course, I will also make it clear to my family. What I want to tell them is that I just want to take care of my career now, because it has always been my idea to start a career first and then get married. If I don't have a good career, starting my own family will also hold me back.