1 self-discipline
State-owned law, family style. Cultivate one's morality, keep the family in order, govern the country and level the world.
When we watched the episode of "Self-discipline", we saw that the actor Sun Xi only ate boiled cabbage and a little porridge every day to realize his slimming plan. Although women nowadays love beauty to lose weight, it is also a kind of self-discipline as long as they can do it and stick to it. Just like people don't leave their mobile phones at night, they can't put them down on time and want to put them down immediately, but they can't keep up with their actions. They stay up late just to play one game after another, just to visit Taobao, just to brush their friends, but it's hard to put them down.
Zeng Guofan told future generations what he did every day. Although it's no big deal, it's hard to stick to it for life. In fact, persistence for a long time has become a habit. Just like the Tang Priest said that the Monkey King's incantation was one of them, the Monkey King obeyed the rules, and Tang Priest immediately recited the incantation, so the Monkey King would have a headache. Later, the Monkey King was very disciplined, so he didn't have to wear the hoops. That's because the Monkey King is used to it, so he is very self-disciplined.
Self-discipline is a whip. After defeating yourself, you ask yourself to do what you want to achieve. Self-discipline is a slow and gradual process, which requires enough patience, perseverance, persistent determination and a positive and sunny attitude to complete the process.
2 Virtues in the world
I ching said: "If you accumulate good things, there will be Qing Yu. If you accumulate bad things, there will be more disasters." A family member can be virtuous only if he accepts kind and virtuous people from an early age.
People with good character are lucky.
Some time ago, I watched "Flowers bloom and the moon is full that year". Wudongyuan is producing plasters, and the Prince of Qing deliberately lowered the price. This plaster needs a dose of dragon's blood, and the price of dragon's blood is very expensive. It is suggested that the dragon's blood be replaced by azalea leaves with the same effect, and Wu hired the old man to give it a hard approval, preferring to lose money rather than fake it. Tell Wu that the business is honest. It is precisely because of the honesty of Wu's father that Wu Dongyuan's business has been booming. When educating his son, he also used the same method. The honesty passed down from generation to generation kept orders flowing and made Wu Jia the richest man in Shaanxi.
A person with good character will be honest with others, his heart will be clear, and his heart will be as broad as a bright spring. Virtue carries things, and goodness is like water. Good personality, regardless of personal gains and losses, try to do everything well, regardless of the result. A good personality is full of colorful light wherever it goes.
3 Filial piety to parents
When we were young, we learned from our parents from the first bite and the first step. When we were young, our parents regarded us as the apple of their eye, and we needed their care bit by bit.
I watched a variety show on Hebei Satellite TV, because this son grew up without a mother and was spoiled by this old father. My son and daughter-in-law, who graduated from college, are too hot to go out to work and watch TV online at home. My father is 54 years old and works in a moving company. The son asked his father to cook dinner for the young couple before getting up early for work and come back to wash clothes for the young couple at night. If father can't do it, he will be scolded by his son.
There was news these two days. A son was praised for watching Yuanxiao with his 85-year-old mother behind his back. When we were young, everything our parents did for us was taken for granted, but parents would appreciate what their children did for their parents.
In the eyes of parents, no matter how old the child is, parents always think of the child. Old age, slow hands and feet, dirty clothes for dinner, please don't blame them. Please be more patient. Don't let us, don't let us, one day parents are away, children should be filial, and relatives are away.
"Family Instructions on Silk Road" allows us to inherit Chinese culture and make our children moral, disciplined and studious Chinese sons and daughters.