Zhang Fengxiang, born in July, 1963, is a staff member who has worked in the nursing home in Meizhuang Town for nearly 30 years. In these years' work, I regard the five-guarantee elderly as my parents, take care of their urine, comb their hair and wash their clothes, hold activities for their birthdays, warm people's hearts, and regard the nursing home as my home. The following is my collection of Zhang Fengxiang's advanced deeds of respecting and loving the old moral model. Welcome to reading.
Zhang Fengxiang, born in July, 1963, is a staff member who has worked in the nursing home in Meizhuang Town for nearly 30 years. In these years' work, I regard the five-guarantee elderly as my parents, take care of their urine, comb their hair and wash their clothes, hold activities for their birthdays, warm people's hearts, and regard the nursing home as my home. It has won wide acclaim in the society and won many awards from leaders of nursing homes, civil affairs departments of cities and counties, township governments and nursing homes.
First, take root in nursing homes and shoulder heavy burdens.
Since 1980, I have worked in an orange farm run by a community for four years. Because of my good political thought, active work, good popularity and enthusiasm for public welfare, I was rated as? Advanced worker? 1984 10 Meizhuang Township runs a nursing home. I resolutely resigned from the enviable enterprise work, and was the first to bravely sign up for the post and take the initiative to apply to the township leaders. With my outstanding performance and dedication to civil affairs in recent years, coupled with my simple, honest and kind personality, I have gloriously become a staff member of the nursing home.
Since then, I have been working as a staff member in Meizhuang Township Nursing Home. At that time, I didn't flinch in the face of a nursing home converted from an old pig farm, several dilapidated adobe houses and more than 20 elderly people who couldn't take care of themselves. But I didn't expect it to be opposed by my in-laws and husband: how can you be so stupid to leave a comfortable and comfortable enterprise to work, but you have to undertake such a complicated job of serving the elderly? It's too late for others to avoid this chore, and you're still trying to get in. ? However, the thought of those ragged, skinny, lonely old people makes my nose sour. Knowing that I have a great responsibility, I have made up my mind that I will not change easily, so I tried my best to persuade my husband and family to silently shoulder the burden of providing for the elderly and dedicate their enthusiasm and love without complaint. Besides, I've been working for almost 30 years?
I have been a cook, waiter and nurse for 27 years, serving the elderly with five guarantees wholeheartedly, earnestly fulfilling my post responsibilities and abiding by various systems of nursing homes. I have never left the nursing home since I joined the work at the age of 2/kloc-0. I spend all holidays in the nursing home with the elderly. I have no rest days and holidays, and I don't want to take sick leave to delay my work even if I have a headache and fever. In order to facilitate my work and take better care of the elderly, I moved my family to a nursing home. A few years ago, my husband couldn't stand my indecision and became a contract worker in a nursing home, working with me to serve the elderly in the nursing home. Although the combined salary of husband and wife is less than 1000 yuan under the trend of market economy and today's economic development, we are very satisfied because we love this job and these lonely old people who have no children and daughters, and the money is not enough.
In retrospect, when I first started working, I was only in 35 yuan, and it took five years before I rose to 60 yuan. Now we have raised it to more than 500 yuan, and the county civil affairs department still has a monthly subsidy of nearly 100 yuan. Aren't government departments paying more and more attention to us and increasing investment? Moreover, my children have grown up, probably because of the influence of family and our education, and they have lived with the elderly since childhood. As soon as they get home, they will help the elderly do what they can and chat with them. What makes me proud is that my son who grew up in this ordinary family is also very disappointing. After graduating from a national key university, he is now continuing his studies in Beijing. I think a happy family, a happy life, selfless love and a happy job are not a lot of wealth in life.
Second, are you willing? Good girl? Give love.
During my 27 years of work, I treated the residents in the hospital like my parents with the love of my loved ones, which not only satisfied them in life, but also comforted and enriched them spiritually. Most of the elderly admitted to the hospital have no children and have been poor for most of their lives. Particularly poor people? Let them enjoy their old age and feel the warmth and care of the party and the government. This is my lofty belief and ideal, and I pursue this goal without regrets.
I just got into work in a nursing home. At that time, I was still young I have to learn some scientific knowledge about psychological comfort, medical care, nursing medicine and ideological work of the elderly besides my own management and service knowledge, so that I can be competent for this ordinary job. Without any management experience, it is not easy to make this specially formed family temporarily harmonious and complete! At the beginning of the hospital, it was like starting from scratch, lacking this and that. In addition, the old people were eccentric and used to single life. More than 20 residents of the five-guarantee hospital just sent from various village groups are lonely old people who have lost their ability to work and cannot take care of themselves. They have different personalities, and their living habits are free and lazy. Some residents are even extreme, irritable, psychopathic and even difficult to talk together. They find fault among residents. I am often wronged in the cracks, and secretly I don't know how many tears I have shed.
But I'm not discouraged. I treat accusations and complaints with charity and tolerance, and turn grievances and bitterness into motivation. I was soon tempered, not discouraged, but became stronger in the face of reality. I don't discriminate, I don't give up, I don't abandon any old people with five guarantees. I have a heart-to-heart talk with residents, starting with communication, reasoning seriously, solving problems, diverting contradictions and resolving grievances. It's fate that everyone can gather here today. We came here as a family. We should understand more, help each other more, care more, cherish collective life together, help each other, create harmony and live a lonely old age. ? If the warm heart is simple, repeating it a hundred times and a thousand times will also melt the cold hearts of the old people. Coupled with my charity, diligence and care, unconsciously, everyone took this place as? Home? The interpersonal relationship in the university has been subtly improved, and I soon became everyone's? Good girl? The spiritual pillar of the residents.
When people get old, all kinds of problems will appear, and not many people can take care of themselves completely. In order to let these old people live a happy old age, I try my best to meet their requirements and be their filial daughter.
Many years ago, a 68-year-old man, Xu Zhiping, was paralyzed by an accidental fall. When I arrived at the nursing home, I personally served tea, took a shower, changed clothes, turned over and urinated. Seeing his thin clothes, I specially made him a pair of thick cotton trousers and bought him two hot water bottles. Every time I eat, I always feed him first and then eat by myself. When the weather is fine, I will take him out and lie in the rocking chair to bask in the sun and breathe fresh air. After three years of careful nursing, the old man's lower body is getting better day by day. He can not only sit in a wheelchair, but also stand up and move with two crutches. The old man said gratefully. You are not too dirty and bitter, and you are really more intimate than your own daughter! ? Hou Ying and Xu Guizhi are also hemiplegic patients, and their lives are completely taken care of by me. They often can't help saying: That's very kind of you. You let me live in the world, get the care of the world, and feel the warmth of my big family. I will bless your family after I die. ?
There is also an old man named Wan Yuede, who was 88 years old when she entered the hospital. She gave me eternal memories and enthusiasm for my work. Because of her age, she often urinates uncontrollably and wets the bed almost every night. I help her to dry in sunny days, and I help her to dry in rainy days. I wash the sheets every day. In winter and rainy season, I prepare two sets of quilts and sheets for her, and sometimes I even have to change three sets. When the nursing home is not enough, I take out the new quilts and sheets made at home when I get married. At that time, I was only in my twenties, and her old man was older than my grandmother. How can I make the old man suffer in the last few years? It is precisely because of my meticulous care that a few years later, the old man used it until he died. You are really a living Buddha. You have to live to be 120! ? She used words of blessing to express her deep gratitude to me. Her gratitude gave me affirmation and confidence in my work, and her voice and smile always appeared in my mind.
Even I can't remember how many such examples there are. At present, more than half of the 70 elderly people with five guarantees in nursing homes suffer from various disabilities, such as deafness, blindness, leg bleeding, incontinence, epilepsy and cerebral palsy? I regard every lonely old man as my own relative, not only a good waiter, but also a doctor and nurse. I have devoted all my efforts to every old man, thus gaining the trust and love of the old people. Old Sun Manhuo Xiu is deaf and blind, so it is difficult to communicate with everyone. Basically, he stays indoors and it is difficult for him to take care of himself. I take care of her daily life and three meals a day, and my husband always brings her the daily necessities she needs from the street.
However, as long as I talk to her loudly, she will probably understand what I mean. As long as I have time, I will go to my room to sit with her, eliminate her loneliness, encourage her to go out often, and enhance her confidence and courage in life. Now the old man shouts to everyone: Thanks to Fengxiang, she is really hard. She is a good girl. I really don't know how to live without her. Although the old Hu Man Jinzhi in our hospital is not old, he is not yet fifty years old, but he is an idiot. He can't look after himself. He wants to eat, dress, wash his face and comb his hair, wash his clothes and bask in the sun. Naturally, I am duty-bound. She is crazy, stupid and fearless, but I can listen to what she says and do what she does. She is like a good child in front of me, shouting behind me? Mom? .
Tang Juhua, a 76-year-old man from Jiegang Village, suddenly suffered from cerebral thrombosis. Because he is old, the hospital has no power to save the day. During the day, he sent someone to take care of him. At night, I personally guard him, sleep with him, give him injections, give him medicine, bathe and wipe his body, and urinate on his back. When Tang Juhua was dying, I took off my clothes one by one and put on my old clothes one by one. At the funeral, I burned paper and threw it at the old man? Paper money? . As a staff member of the New Age Nursing Home, I know it's useless, but it gives all the old people a good comfort. Hu Xifa, an 88-year-old man, died of natural causes last year. Before she died, she called me to the bed and took out a bag wrapped in several layers of cloth from her pocket, which contained 1200 yuan, which was the old man's life savings.
The old man said to me: 65,438+0,000 yuan left a glass of wine for the villagers in our village and the elderly in the nursing home, and 200 yuan left it for you. You are so kind to me that I can't repay you in my life. This 200 yuan money is my thanks to you. ? With that, the old man left peacefully. Some old people fell into my arms while feeding medicine and water. Every old man's eyes were filled with happy eyes, and his face was filled with a satisfied smile until his death. Every time I go to Tomb-Sweeping Day, I will give him a haircut, a manicure, a face wash, and a ear wash, and personally hold an urn to pay homage to these old people. In the past 27 years, I have held a wake for more than 40 elderly people. In my eyes, the elderly in nursing homes are all parents.
Third, is it better? A family? Tell the truth
Now I am in my fifties, and I have devoted most of my life to nursing homes and the elderly here. In the face of these childless old people, I pour my love into these lonely old people. Eating and living with the elderly, I have special feelings for the elderly. They are connected by blood and feel the same. Even if I go to work and leave the nursing home for a day, I will never forget them and care about them.
The old people who come to nursing homes are old, sick and have no children to take care of them. I always treat these old people as relatives, take care of their daily lives like children and pour my true feelings into them. Cooking, washing, nursing, all in one. Constantly improve the pattern and quality of meals, ask the tastes of the old people every day, and try to eat well until most people are satisfied. Adhere to three meals a day without repeating rice, and usually have four dishes and one soup on the table to ensure that you eat meat at every meal; It has become a practice to give jiaozi to the elderly on the first day of every year.
Insist on cleaning indoor and outdoor sanitation every day, change clothes for the old people once a week, and disassemble and wash bedding once a quarter to keep the bed clean and the environment clean; Organize physical examination for the elderly once a month. For a few residents who are weak, the hospital is required to arrange for medical staff to check at home to master the health status of the elderly. Do early prevention, early detection and early treatment, so that people in the hospital do not catch a cold in winter and do not suffer from heatstroke in summer. When the old man is sick, he will be hospitalized at any time according to the medical assistance procedure. Once I have a headache and brain fever, I always accompany the elderly to the hospital to see a doctor and take medicine day and night.
When the old people are dissatisfied, we should persuade them more, talk more, get closer to them, understand their voices, think what they think and worry about them. Through organizing a series of activities, the unity between the hospital and the people has been strengthened. Regularly organize residents to participate in recreational activities, create a good environmental atmosphere, and cultivate the sentiments of the old people. Holding a forum is a convenient and practical way for the old people to express their wishes and desires; Organize the old people to watch TV programs that suit their interests every day, so that the old people can smile.
I found that some residents not only like singing flower drums and folk songs, but also play suona, flute and erhu. In order to give full play to their specialties, I suggested to the leaders of the hospital that the clients buy musical instruments in the city, organize the elderly to arrange some simple entertainment programs, gather the residents in the hospital to entertain themselves, cultivate their sentiments, create a harmonious family atmosphere, and make them feel comfortable in the collective life of the extended family.
Do the elderly pay attention to it in society now? Birthday These childless old people envy other people's birthdays, so I write their birthdays on paper and stick them on the office wall. Whenever there is an old man's birthday, we carefully prepare, buy birthday cakes, cook more than a dozen delicious dishes, celebrate his birthday with everyone, and let the birthday girl accept the blessings of someone in the local area. Joy and excitement were beyond words, and bursts of laughter broke out at the party. Old people enjoy family happiness and think it is better to live together? A family? .
Fourth, the organization? Mass production? , improve life
It is still very hard to start the life of the elderly in the nursing home. Three meals a day is good, not to mention eating well. In order to improve the quality of life of the elderly, at the call of the dean, I led several elderly people who can take care of themselves and have certain working ability to open up wasteland and develop sideline business. Planting melons, beans and various vegetables in accordance with the solar terms all the year round, the land is not idle, which basically solves the vegetable self-sufficiency of some people; Many grapes, oranges, pomelos and flowers are planted around the nursing home, which not only beautifies the environment, but also increases income; Chicken coops and pigsty were built in front of and behind the house, which made full use of leftovers and rotten leaves. Every year, dozens of chickens are raised and pigs are fed. Among them, chickens and eggs are used to improve the food for the elderly when they are sick, have holidays and live longer, and several fat pigs are sold to supplement the funds. Through everyone's hard productive labor; Improved living conditions, but also improved everyone's living standards.
Besides making the old people worry about food and clothing, I also make the old people feel happy. Raise? Expand the meaning of. There is an idle piece of land in the nursing home. I took the old people to level the land, covered it with bricks, used it as a leisure sports ground, and planted flowers and plants next to it. After work, come here for a walk, chat with the old people and make them happy every day. Old people exercise and run here, water flowers and plants, and live a full life. Someone asked, what is the happiest and most annoying thing for you to get along with the old man day and night? I always say with a smile: I feel very happy living with the old people. Taking care of the elderly is a very happy thing. The most troublesome time is when the old man is sick, because I am worried and anxious. ?
Over the years, under the strong support and guidance of the county government and the correct leadership of the town government and the hospital leaders, my colleagues and I have created a harmonious environment based on the principle of people-oriented, so that the spiritual and material life of the old people has achieved the purpose of providing for the elderly, providing them with medical care, enjoying themselves and being productive. We make selfless dedication, warm the hearts of the five-guarantee elderly with true feelings, and make unremitting efforts to arrange the work of the nursing home in an orderly and prosperous way. Today's nursing homes have taken on a new look. When they were built, they had nothing. Now, they have developed and built more than 40 houses with a building area of 1200 square meters and an area of more than 6,000 square meters. The hardware facilities are complete, the software construction is up to standard, the environment is beautiful, the hospital and the outside are clean and tidy, and the old people live in harmony and form deep feelings with each other. They really took root in this land, and it really became a happy home for the old people to spend their old age?
My hard work, true feelings and sweat for the cause of nursing homes for many years have been recognized by the elderly in the hospital and the society. There is a saying hanging on the old man's lips: Fengxiang, neither relatives nor reasons. We are satisfied to have such a good daughter. ?
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