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Fat people are considered reliable and trustworthy. A study by the University of Missouri in the United States shows that fat politicians can gain people's trust more than thin competitors in the campaign.
Fat people are very humorous. We all have the feeling that different figures will greatly affect men's personality and style of doing things. Very thin men are vicious, sharp-minded, and even a little bitter; Men of medium height are not good at words and like to gossip; Fat people are mirth, humorous and not easy to get angry. For lovers to get along for a long time, appearance and figure are of course extra points, but tolerant and optimistic personality is the key to a long-term relationship.
Yun-peng Yue Sun Yue, a chubby comedian of Deyun Society.
The chubby man's arms and stomach are fleshy and soft, just like a big teddy bear. He can't help but want to pinch, lean and hug to make women feel comfortable and secure.
Fat people are often laughed at by the outside world when they grow up, so their hearts are very sensitive and delicate, and there is no male chauvinism. When I grew up, I became character strengths, commonly known as considerate.
Fat people are the product of historical evolution. In ancient times, fat people were more likely to store fat and survive in harsh environments. At that time, obesity was a symbol of status and a capital for survival. Therefore, fat gene, as a dominant gene, is also inherited from generation to generation.
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Fat people can't find a girlfriend and become leftover men, not because they are fat, but because they have a wrong understanding that fat is a fatal flaw in appearance, so they feel inferior, sloppy and give up on themselves. Therefore, if a fat man is rejected by a girl he likes, don't lose weight immediately, because the other person doesn't reject you because you are fat. What you should focus on is to improve your self-abased, lazy and sloppy style and become confident, cheerful and positive. In this way, even if your figure is still the same, you will immediately attract girls.
Another misunderstanding is that fat people can find girlfriends if they have money. But the vast majority of people in the world are just ordinary people, doing ordinary jobs and living ordinary lives, and will not be particularly rich. Everyone feels this way because of the excessive publicity of the media. After all, the fat rich people in the world are a minority, and more are fat ordinary people.
Fats, please give full play to the advantages mentioned above: reliability, humor, good personality, security and carefulness.
For example, if you think that your strengths are humor and understanding, you can talk confidently with the person you like, make her happy when communicating with her, and always pay attention to her small thoughts and show considerate and careful gentlemanly manners.
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Remember, confident men are most attractive. Imagine a tall, handsome but insecure man in front of you, and a woman will be attracted. Would you like to be his lover? One possibility is that he is willing, but because he can't stand the unconfident personality of his handsome boyfriend, he breaks up immediately; Another possibility is that you don't want to, and you sigh in your heart, "Alas, what a pity this good skin."
Fats, stop feeling inferior for your body. When you meet someone you like, don't be afraid to chase them because of their appearance, and don't focus on losing weight. What you need to change is your mentality, otherwise even if you lose weight successfully, you will only change from a fat man with inferiority to a thin man with inferiority.