People say that pregnant women are the most beautiful, and women who have given birth have a maternal brilliance.
Having children has a great influence on female friends, both physically and psychologically. They were 18 years old before giving birth and 10 years old after giving birth, both physically and psychologically.
Physiologically, women's pregnancy and childbirth, like the flowering and fruiting of plants, need to consume a lot of their own energy. Various hormones in women also change greatly before and after delivery. Some women will suffer from postpartum depression because of the sudden drop of estrogen.
If perinatal care and postpartum care are not done well, women will gain weight and look older than before. However, if we pay attention to moderate pregnancy exercise and postpartum rehabilitation exercise before and after delivery, pay attention to balanced diet and nutrition, and don't overeat, women will soon recover their pre-pregnancy figure after delivery and become a beautiful mommy, more beautiful than before delivery.
Psychologically speaking, women who become mothers are more mature, kinder, more tolerant and more intellectual. They have lost their boyhood and gained more pregnant flavor and the charm of mature women.
Childbearing is an important matter for women and their families, a highlight of women's life and an important mission of human reproduction. Although prenatal 18 years old, postpartum 10 years old, this is also a necessary stage for a person to mature physically and psychologically. Do you think I'm right?
I was born at 23. I was thin before I gave birth, and I looked good in clothes. I can eat two or three ice creams at a time. After giving birth to a child, my buttocks drooped, my back ached, I ate an ice cream, my stomach was bad, I touched a little cold water, and my fingertips hurt. When the flu really spreads, I feel that my body is stretched before giving birth, and after giving birth, I am nothing.
I was born at the age of 26. When the child is 8 months old, I take the child home. When my mother saw me, she said how I got so old at once. I don't look like a little girl at all It used to look like 18, but now it looks like 35.
I am a married woman in a long-distance relationship, and it is inconvenient to bring my child home after giving birth, so I have never come home. My mother didn't see me until the second month, because my mother can't make video calls. She uses an old-age phone. We usually contact each other by phone, so we haven't seen each other for half a year.
I usually look at myself in the mirror and look haggard. I don't think I have changed much. I didn't expect my mother to react so much when she saw me.
To tell the truth, after listening to my mother's words, I am still very sad, because I have a round face. Before giving birth, many people said that I looked young and early twenties.
In fact, a classmate of mine who works in a hospital told me that having a baby won't make people old, because the ovarian function is normal after giving birth, and the reason why I always look like I didn't have a good rest after giving birth.
Think about it, too. After the second month, my mother went back to her hometown and my husband went to work in other places. In-laws are at work, and sometimes they work overtime until late. Usually I take care of the children alone, and the children always cry at night. I hardly have a good sleep. During the day, the children are asleep, and I want to sleep, and I have to cook. Sometimes children wake up just after dinner and have little time to sleep.
The most irritating thing is that my father-in-law sometimes always says that he should give his children less sleep during the day and take them out for a walk. After giving birth to a child, my body has been quite weak, and I am breathless after a short walk with my child in my arms, but I will take my child out to play every morning, afternoon and evening as long as I have time.
My mother-in-law usually won't say anything about me because she has no children. My father-in-law loves to talk about care. In summer, the child's face was bitten by mosquitoes, and he always said that he died when he slept, and he didn't know how to mosquito the child. The child accidentally fell, and he also said that I didn't take good care of the child. After the child has finished eating, he should say anything, without wiping his face or mouth. In a word, he just said all kinds of things. I know my father-in-law is very kind and loves his son very much, but I really can't stand being told by him every day. My ears are starting to get calluses.
The most irritating thing is that my father-in-law not only told me in front of me that my husband had gone home, but also complained to my husband that I didn't take care of the children, which happened to be heard by me. I was so angry that I scolded my husband I told him to tell his father to stop nagging without children.
My husband saw that I was getting depressed, so he asked my mother-in-law to resign and let me go out to work with him.
After I went out to work, I went to bed at 8 o'clock every day, carefully applied skin care products and made masks every day, and my life was much more regular. Colleagues all say that I look so young and good, thinking that I have never given birth.
So as long as you are in a good mood and get enough sleep after giving birth, you will not get old.
This topic makes me, a person who has never given birth to a child and has not been in love, come here to answer. This must be teaching fish to swim! But this "inside and outside" thing, that is to say, I haven't entered the "door" yet, and I can really play with an axe. First of all, I must affirm and sigh the most glorious thing in the world ~ the greatness of being a mother! This is the foundation of human development from generation to generation! This is the crystallization of family strength! Pregnant in October, only for Christmas! That kind of pain, I believe that most people who want to "live" can overcome it with love! It's no exaggeration to describe our women's process of giving birth with painful death, but it doesn't stop us women from asking to be Qian Qian's mother! Medical reports have said that women's physical strength and kinetic energy during childbirth vary from person to person. I just want to say, "whenever and wherever Chairman Mao's inscription is quoted, it will never be out of date, and many things can be used."
Your body knows. The appearance is not old, the recovery speed, metabolism, physical strength, memory, vitality and reaction speed are very different from those before giving birth. My husband said that I am really a girl with water and spirit. I was squeezed into a withered person, not thin, but the whole person was depressed, the gas field disappeared and there was no vitality. At this stage, if you want to be beautiful, you can't sleep and be energetic as before. Now we have to spend money.
Relatively unborn;
Visible to the naked eye, suddenly,
His eyes suddenly lost some light,
And aura,
The whole temperament has changed a lot,
Even if the figure looks as good as before,
But internal changes, everyone born,
I know what it feels like. I know everything.
At 10 month of pregnancy, the baby fell from the mother's body and gave him his soul. Women did come out of the jaws of death and lost half their lives. Therefore, Mother's Day is only possible when the mother is great, and the descendants of the Chinese people also have a contribution.
I gave birth to a baby at the age of 26. I was miserable all night before I was born. In the process of delivery, I was yelled at by the doctor and it hurt too much [rolling my eyes]. After giving birth to the baby, I exercised violently for almost a year and still coughed badly and leaked urine. It's really embarrassing [I want to be quiet]. Moreover, after giving birth to a child, there are all stretch marks on the stomach, buttocks, arms and chest, which cannot be removed. The worst thing is that my hair is so bad that I lose a lot every time I wash it. I dare not comb too hard every time I wash my hair, for fear of losing more. The body weight increased from 105 kg to 136 kg, which was 2 1 kg. After giving birth, physical strength and energy are not as good as before. I still fall badly now, and my legs cramp from time to time, which may be the reason why I didn't take calcium tablets when I was pregnant.
Many people say that a woman who gave birth to a child became another person overnight. They may change from lively and cheerful girls to stable and mature mothers; Perhaps it is from a confident and cheerful independent woman to a woman who lacks parents. Only the mother knows best what changes she has made when she has children.
Moreover, it is not easy to have children, which often contains too many negative effects on women's change. In particular, giving birth to a child consumes a lot of women, which is often invisible to us and can only be clearly understood by the mother herself.
How much psychological and physical consumption does childbirth have on women? What changes will a mother face after giving birth to a child?
The first dilemma of body consumption: out of shape, it is difficult to lose weight.
In the mother's group, nine out of ten are facing the dilemma of losing shape, and every time when it comes to losing weight, basically every mother is on the way to losing weight. Therefore, for most women, being out of shape and gaining weight during pregnancy is an inevitable result after childbirth, which will seriously affect the self-confidence of mothers after childbirth.
Many mothers who naturally love beauty become less fond of dressing up after giving birth, and will subconsciously choose loose and simple clothes, which is an obvious manifestation of their lack of confidence. Postpartum figure distortion and the residue of stretch marks will actually take away many mothers' self-concern about "beauty"
Some people may say that it is not to lose weight to lose shape after childbirth. However, losing weight is not an easy task. It is said that half a year after delivery is the golden period of weight loss, but how many mothers have their own time to lose weight in half a year after delivery?
After childbirth, 90% of them are occupied by all kinds of complicated things with children, and many mothers don't have their own time until their children are one year old. The fat accumulated during pregnancy can only be seen as long and strong. Even if you have the opportunity to lose weight in the future, you have to work harder than ordinary people to be effective.
Postpartum mother's standard: "one fetus and three years of brain", personal energy and brain memory decline.
After giving birth to a baby, many mothers always feel that their memory has problems and they are forgetful. One minute they were thinking about what they wanted to do, and the next they forgot. "A baby has a brain for three years" is the best description of a mother's memory. And this so-called "baby brain" is not that the mother's IQ is deprived by the child.
On the contrary, women are deprived of too much energy in giving birth to children. The body is in a matching state for a long time, and the energy cannot be recovered well. People's brains naturally can't remember things. Especially during pregnancy, with the change of body hormone level, women are prone to some psychological changes, resulting in some uncontrollable depression.
Giving birth to a child is the old knife of the years: pregnancy consumes too much energy, and it is easy to get old after giving birth, and the sequelae are frequent.
After giving birth to a child, a mother always feels much older, as if she could be several years older at once. This is because in the process of pregnancy and childbirth, a lot of energy and nutrition of the mother's body are used to supply the children. After the birth of the child, it also took away a lot of nutrition and energy from the mother, making her old.
Moreover, the harm of the fetus to the mother's body during pregnancy cannot disappear with the birth of the baby. The relaxation of pelvic floor muscles and the separation of pubic bone will continue to affect mother's health after delivery, and even there will be many sequelae that make it difficult for mother to tell. If not treated in time, it will have a lifelong impact on the mother.
Important note: for women, having children is not a simple identity change, and women need to pay more behind it. Such as the loss of self-confidence caused by postpartum body distortion; Long-term physical exhaustion and energy consumption affect the memory development of the brain; Too much pregnancy and consumption make women grow old at once, and they are also deeply affected by various sequelae.
Today's topic: What is the biggest physical and psychological change for you after giving birth to a child? Welcome to leave a message for discussion.
Having children consumes a lot of women. I belong to this kind of person. When I have no children, I am in good shape and well dressed. With children, I am out of shape and lack of qi and blood. When I was one month old, people said that wearing clothes was not so beautiful. When I was with my children, people said you were different. I belong to a baby who is late.
If you are seventeen or eighteen or twenty years old, having children won't change much. In the past, a girl in the factory gave birth to a baby, gained weight and became beautiful because she was only twenty years old.