My best friend, who is far away from home, has often confided to me recently. She thinks that her life is terrible and everything is not satisfactory. Listening to her tone of voice, you can imagine her haggard appearance through the screen of the mobile phone.

Her birthday boyfriend didn't prepare a gift for her, just a simple happy birthday. She knows that her boyfriend is busy recently, but she is still a little lost. There are also some big and small affairs arranged by leaders, intrigue among colleagues and other miscellaneous things. This made her exhausted and felt that nothing was going well.

I told her that it was time to subtract myself. If a person takes everything to heart, he will often get nothing. The things that really should be at ease are overwhelmed by the trivial things in life. I can't find the direction and I don't know how to move forward. Can only make yourself more haggard.

A person's energy is limited. If you always focus on trivial things, it is easy to lose energy, so that you can't do anything well and only make yourself stressed.

We often say that life will go wrong nine times out of ten, and there will always be all kinds of things going wrong, whether in life or work. It's not the big things that make people tired, but some trivial things.

People are not crushed at once, but trivial things accumulated in their hearts. Over time, you will feel that your life is very tired, and every step you take will feel that your steps are as heavy as gold.

There are many demons on the way to learn from the scriptures, and the road to life is bumpy. No one's life will be smooth sailing, what is important is how we should take this road well.

02

On the road of life, we should carry a heavy load, so that you can walk more steadily and go into battle lightly, so that you can walk faster.

The weight we bear should be the responsibility we have to bear all our lives. To go into battle lightly is to throw away those burdens that are meaningless to us.

Tagore once said, "One night I burned all my memories, and my dreams became transparent. One morning, I threw away everything from yesterday, and since then, my steps have been light. "

Throw away what should be discarded, throw away what should be discarded, and put down what should be put down, and you will feel that your life will be much easier.

Some people are often reluctant to part with this and that, but life can only be rewarding if you give up. What you give up will come back in another form. If you give up one thing, you will get another thing, and what you get may be what you want.

Life needs to be separated. You often subtract it from your own life and spiritual world. What you can leave behind is what you really need.

Give up unnecessary things and focus on what you need to go faster. Only by streamlining can you make your heart more aware of what you need and which direction you should go.

03

I once knew a great god who often lost his life. I have never heard his complaints, nor have I seen his sad face. It gives people the impression that he is full of energy every day.

I asked him what methods he had to keep healthy. He said that he was lightening the burden every day. If there is anything unhappy today, he will never put off his bad mood until tomorrow and let it end that day.

The reduction of mental burden will make people relax a lot. Some people like to take small things to heart, and they can't forget them for a long time, which makes them exhausted.

There will be many unpleasant things on the road of life. There is no need to take everything to heart. The human mind has only a certain space and can only accommodate certain worries. Don't let annoying people and things take up too much space. After all, it doesn't help your life.

When you feel that you are physically and mentally exhausted, your life is not satisfactory, your life is overwhelmed and you are struggling, please stop. At this time, you should understand that some things should be given up, and don't let those negative emotions become the burden of your progress.

04

On the road of life, many people want to go into battle lightly, but in the end they often turn into carrying heavy loads. In fact, the two are not contradictory. Traveling light won't make you abandon everything, think nothing, and won't make you take everything to heart.

Some people's lives are full of pressure, which may come from family, life or themselves. Everyone's life is different, but only when you are under pressure can you walk more steadily. When there is pressure, there is motivation, and we can keep moving forward. If there is no pressure, life will seem aimless.

Milan Kundera once wrote in the book: "It is not the weight that crushes her, but the unbearable lightness of life." Pressure is to make yourself walk more steadily. When there is pressure, we have goals. Only by moving towards the goal can we go faster.

If you want to walk faster on the road of life, you must streamline your equipment. In life, there will always be big and small things that go wrong. No matter how small things are, they will keep expanding in their hearts over time. I can't stand it after a long time. Mental fatigue is far better than physical fatigue.

Take up the burden of life, abandon the trivial things on the road, laugh at everything, and don't let trivial things drag you down. Life is nothing but life and death.