Li Bingbing can explore the reasons for her success from a small temporary worker in the hotel, to the staff of the Justice Bureau, to the director of the legal aid center, and then to the top ten outstanding lawyers in X city, but there are three reasons:
One is the spirit of loving learning anytime and anywhere.
Whether working as a receptionist in a hotel to attend a law course of RTVU or studying computer operation hard, she said, "Sometimes, a walk-on can gain something, and after the gain, he will eventually become the protagonist. Like Zhou Xingxing, like me. " After all, God won't always treat hard-working people badly. This is recognized as the only way to success, and it is also a cliche of successful experience, which must have its reasons.
The second is to accurately grasp life experience.
A letter to fight for your last chance after being rejected by the director of the judicial bureau because of your low academic qualifications; From taking the bar exam, the last stop became the first female student in the Judicial Bureau to obtain the qualification of lawyer; Appreciated by the leaders, although junior, but still dare to compete for the director of the legal aid center; After resigning, I chose Fiona Fang, a little-known and more comfortable place, instead of an elite law firm with great fame and many talents.
Li Bingbing's every step seems to be a ladder of progress tailored for himself.
But if I think about the whole process carefully, if I am the one who encounters these situations, maybe I will stay as a waiter in the hotel because I was rejected, or I will quit my job and go home to get a high degree first, instead of facing this problem and communicating with people who have the power of life and death in the workplace. Maybe I will drag my feet to prepare for the exam and comfort myself when I fail, because no one else has passed it anyway; Perhaps although appreciated by the leaders, they feel inferior in their hearts and compete like ducks on the shelves; Maybe I didn't have the courage to get out of the system at all (which is true), let alone choose a humble small law firm.
That's how people step into different lives.
Li Bingbing's success has coveted opportunities, more because of his unremitting pursuit of his own wishes and his correct understanding of his life demands. She said, "The world is actually very tolerant to everyone. No matter what you have done, you will be given a chance to shuffle. If you have been playing badly, you can only blame your skills for not being smart enough. "
The third is the high emotional intelligence of dealing with people.
On the road to success in Li Bingbing, the help of others cannot be overwhelmed.
In choosing friends, she said, "It's good to get closer to people smarter than yourself. You may not really become smart, but a little light he inadvertently emits may illuminate your direction. " Her success really depends on two good friends. Several important nodes in life: Tina's encouragement and support contributed greatly to applying for law in RTVU, writing to the director of justice and handling the first legal aid case; The decision to leave the system, the introduction of new companies after resignation, the introduction of customers and the existence of China contributed to Li Bingbing's career foundation. There is also this sentence in her book: "Don't think that you can do whatever you want when you are familiar with it. If you rely on people you are familiar with, you will be bored without rules." When you are polite, you are welcome, and good friends will become strangers. "This also made me suddenly wake up, why those good friends who are drifting away from each other and who are inseparable at school have become hypocritical social circles that only talk about the weather and recall the past.
Dealing with leaders, Li Bingbing met leaders can be divided into three types, which we usually meet. The best supervisor should be Fiona Fang before confession, who is not involved in personal affairs and interests, easy-going but not casual, gives you the motivation for free development, and will also become your career mentor and help. This kind of supervisor is probably hard to meet; The superior in the middle is the former director of justice, who knows and distinguishes people and guides your development, but at the cost of becoming his own clique, his "self" has various privileges and can lead a certain position. Most of them belong to this category. What we have to do is to work hard according to his instructions and not violate our bottom line. The worst supervisor is the newly appointed director of justice. Although a little talented, but greedy for cheap, love beauty, bear grudges. It's really unfortunate to meet such a boss. It's better to leave early.
As an ordinary colleague, she said: "No one knows where the examiner is and where the examination room is. Every day is an exam. Anyone around you can become a judge. If you want to get high marks, don't offend the judges, so be kind to everyone around you, even if she is just an aunt who delivers vegetables. " In one's life, most people you meet are ordinary people, and most of them are ordinary passers-by who have an influence on you. So, don't be conceited, you are just an ordinary member in the workplace.
Finally, I encouraged myself with this sentence in the book: "What you did in the past doesn't matter at all. What matters is what you are doing now and what you can do in the future. "
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