Female executives are enterprising, spend more time in the company than at home, and have made many brilliant achievements for the company. However, as long as there is a slight negligence, it will be criticized. At a meeting of Wanda, she was labeled as "her performance is not up to standard", and the leader revealed her intention to replace her as general manager.
She worked hard for her career, but she didn't get the corresponding reward, which made her disheartened about the company. At the moment she jumped off the building, she must have been completely disappointed with life.
When people reach middle age, women should not put too much pressure on themselves and make themselves too tired. If a strong woman is too difficult to do, try to relax, adjust her state in time and stop her loss in time, which may avoid some injuries and disasters. So how do we adjust our state?
1. It is more important to balance life and work and take care of your family.
Life is not just work, but also life.
For the sake of family, Su Mang, former president of a well-known fashion group, decided to leave the struggling fashion industry for more than 20 years and return to the family to take care of her seriously ill mother. She wrote in her resignation letter: "In recent years, I have given my family too little time. Once I lose it, I will leave and concentrate on taking care of my family. "
It is not difficult to see from this passage that Su Mang made his decision after careful consideration. As a strong woman in the workplace for many years, she lost too much time to spend with her family, and her work and life must be readjusted. Realizing this, the "inspirational" queen finally made a timely stop loss, took care of her family and relaxed her choice, but it was not too late!
When a woman reaches middle age, if she loses time with her family, it is irreparable. Spend more time with her family, and don't neglect her love for her family because of her busy work.
The older you get, the more open you should be to interpersonal relationships.
Years not only increase the age, but also increase the mind.
When people reach middle age, they will experience some things. Especially in the workplace for many years, I have met many people of all kinds. There is a good saying: where there are people, there are rivers and lakes.
Managing interpersonal relationships in the workplace is tiring and annoying. I'm afraid of offending others, but I don't want to wronged myself. This kind of common fault in the workplace often bothers us, especially the senior executives who are already in high positions and have certain qualifications. It is even more necessary to grasp the discretion and take care of the overall situation, so that they can't be competent for their jobs.
In the TV series "The Sea of Stars", the heroine Jane Eyre met a colleague in the workplace. On the surface, she teaches her working methods and often woos her and invites her to dinner. In fact, she is trying to make Jane Eyre work for herself, give Jane Eyre all the work she should do, and occupy the fruits and rewards of Jane Eyre's labor. What's more hateful is that when Jane Eyre had a promotion opportunity, she actually made a stumbling block behind her, which made Jane Eyre's promotion fail.
There is a golden sentence in Cai Kangyong's The Story of Chipa: If something makes you angry, be angry, and then change, not tolerate. If you don't want to tolerate, you must change yourself. Time brings us not only the growth of age, but also a broad-minded training, and does not compete with others for profit.
Create wealth with love, and life will still shine.
If you insist on doing what you like, you can create value in happiness.
Zhang Dai, an essayist in the Ming Dynasty, wrote in Memories of Tao Anmeng: "People cannot make friends without addiction, so they are heartless." People who have no hobbies can't associate with him because he has no deep feelings. With some hobbies, life will be more colorful.
Xiao Ling, a good friend, loved literature since she was a child. Over the years, she has often written some casual feelings and life experiences, and often copied her favorite sentences and articles. After a long time, she gradually found some tips from a novice writer, wrote several articles and earned some royalties. Her motivation and confidence have increased, and she has opened up a small world in another brand-new industry. ?
The hobby of writing has brought great changes to Xiaoling's life. It not only cultivated her sentiment, increased her knowledge, but also created economic value, which not only ensured her time with her family, but also opened up another world in new fields. Cultivating hobbies can really help us develop in a better direction.
As women in the new era, we don't have to stick to the inherent lifestyle, respect our inner choices, lead ourselves well, and the people around us will be better. Family, life, work, hobbies ... can be taken into account. May we make progress together and find our own ideal state!