Follow the following six iron laws and easily handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. 1, meanness is the main reason why mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along. They are originally a family, and they are afraid that you will think that the other party is an outsider, so they will doubt, accuse or curse at random. Don't treat each other as relatives, but enemies, even enemies, which will alienate them psychologically and lack tolerance and understanding in behavior. When the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, we may find that both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are at fault. In fact, when we get along with others, we are easy to suffer indignities, often because our endurance is very small, and naturally it is easy to make a big fuss about small things, or even find something to smoke, which makes us unbearable. A healthy relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often requires more tolerance from both sides, and both sides can tolerate people and things. 2. Contradictory relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Sons often shoulder the heavy responsibility of coordination. The son is the bond between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Therefore, if the son's emotional intelligence is high, it will definitely play an important role in the handling of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In fact, fairness is important, but emotion is more important. If the son doesn't understand this, it will often make the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law more tense. In fact, how about a family tutor? It is largely reflected in the son. In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the son should not only treat others fairly, but also be affectionate and righteous. The key lies in his own intelligence and self-cultivation, especially his own special role. 3, the same temperament often makes the best relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. For a mother-in-law who has the same temperament, or a mother-in-law who wants to have a good relationship with each other, it is naturally easy to come together, just like fate. Especially because the two sides love the same person and become closer. The two sides may go shopping together, attend some parties or health clubs, and both of them stay together and take the initiative to think of each other. This relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, although not too much, will also exist. Why do you want to put forward this relationship model is to show that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law with the same temperament is the best. How to achieve the same temperament is also a problem worthy of consideration when mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along. Temperament is of course innate, but it is also acquired, because nature cannot be changed, but love can be cultivated. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is often hopeless. Generally speaking, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very bad. Generally speaking, family relations themselves are often abnormal. Such a family is not calm, but now it is much stronger. Naturally, it has been upgraded. Some families, even though their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have separated, still insist on treating each other as enemies. It's okay. If something goes wrong, throwing bricks at each other, throwing dirty water and cursing the street will make the distance restless. The son of this family is naturally not much better, either a loser, eccentric or defective. In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, if you kiss each other, you will either add fuel to the fire or sit quietly. You will be very happy to watch the drama, and you will be very relieved to kill either one. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law that can be dominated by elders is often peaceful. Elders dominate the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Mother-in-law may have an absolute advantage in social status, economic status and interpersonal relationship. And the daughter-in-law has to respect her parents-in-law everywhere and be careful everywhere. If the daughter-in-law is secretly unfilial, her mother-in-law may directly criticize her, even if she is not satisfied, she must be convinced. This kind of dominant relationship, daughter-in-law naturally has a good list and standard. In this case, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not necessarily as close as that of children, but it is also self-sufficient and peaceful. 6. In a family that knows how to love, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law need not be natural. In fact, the family environment has a great influence on the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Although the daughter-in-law is someone else's daughter, she should naturally become a family because of her son. In the eyes of parents-in-law, they should be no different from their daughters and sons. Parents love their sons, sons love their parents, and daughters-in-law should also enjoy the same treatment. In fact, in a good family, mutual love is always reflected in equality, respect, consideration and tolerance. Daughter-in-law married to such a family, if she wants to integrate into this family, she can only use emotion. Otherwise it will destroy the ecology of the whole family. Naturally, not only the mother-in-law can tolerate it, but even her husband may not buy it. In a loving family, sincerity, fairness and affection are enough. Therefore, it is really a blessing for a woman to marry a good husband's family. What are the iron laws that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should follow? 2 The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law needs to be created, and the six "forbidden zones" where mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along, you should pay attention to the daughter-in-law! 1, it is forbidden to move reinforcements without knowing how to make concessions, and clamoring for attention or not knowing etiquette will make your mother-in-law feel chilling for you! If you don't want to expose your mother-in-law's quarrel, you might as well tell her mother-in-law: "Dear mother-in-law, actually I don't want to quarrel with you!" 2, do not attack weaknesses Many mother-in-law have reflected that they don't like those daughters-in-law who are chattering on weekdays, quarreling like a lively shrimp and crab, and always picking holes. Mother-in-law is not your student, so she should accept your criticism. How can you accuse her of her shortcomings at will? 3.200% mother-in-law said that she hated those self-righteous daughters-in-law who accidentally started to lose control and hit people in disputes. If in the eyes of the daughter-in-law, it is really a kind of "Tai Chi", then you might as well say "sorry" to your mother-in-law in time afterwards. 4, don't be unhappy, be virtuous, be virtuous, and be sensible. If bitter gourd faces her mother-in-law all day, it is estimated that the dispute between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will begin to fly all over the sky in an hour. After the accidental conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, they don't care, don't be overcast, and don't even care whether the other party wins or loses. Not only will they not let their mother-in-law retaliate, but they can also resolve a more intense war in time. Why not? Running away from home is forbidden. "If you protect her again, I will go back to my family!" "You won't leave me and the children for her?" Please don't use such stupid words on this poor man who is in a dilemma for two women. Let him make the wrong choice and let you go, and the dispute will be solved. In serious cases, your feelings may be hurt by your mother-in-law. You know, there is no man who doesn't love his mother. 6. It is necessary to be inferior to your mother-in-law when swearing is forbidden to hurt her mother-in-law. Otherwise, your original personal image will only make her more depressed, which is not good for taking care of the health of the elderly and maintaining the filial piety of the daughter-in-law!