However, there is always no lower limit for short videos to attract people's attention, and there are movies and TV dramas on the floor that completely rub the audience's IQ. Take the TV series "The Way Home" starring Jing Boran and Xiao Qi, which is being broadcasted recently. There is a story that the heroine played by Qi can sit cross-legged on the hospital bed just after giving birth, and also drink milk tea, saying that she should drink more milk. What? What kind of horse-catching story is this! That's ridiculous. Mother opened the door rudely. That's ridiculous!
Even if the screenwriter has never given birth to a child, he can't make it up like this! More speechless than those shocking anti-Japanese dramas. The most intuitive performance of childbirth for women is physical injury, which will happen to almost every woman who has given birth to a child:
1, incontinence
No matter whether it is a natural delivery or a caesarean section, urinary incontinence will occur, especially the impact of natural delivery will be more obvious, because the pelvic floor muscles will be affected during pregnancy and delivery, and nerves and blood vessels will also be affected. At the same time, anal muscles will become slack, pelvic floor tissue will be slack, and pressure squeezing before and after delivery will lead to this situation.
Sometimes sneezing and laughing can lead to urine leakage, which is inevitable! A few years ago, Ella, a member of S.H.E., sent a message to Weibo saying that she was incontinent after giving birth to a baby. At that time, she also went on a hot search. In addition, statistics show that 30% to 40% of married women of childbearing age in China have different degrees of urinary incontinence symptoms.
Ella sent Weibo content at that time.
2. Tearing of private parts
The most common thing in natural childbirth is the tearing of private parts, which is mostly caused by the large fetal head, but the degree of tearing varies from person to person. Some people say that I don't have this problem when I choose caesarean section. Naive! The pain in recovery period after caesarean section is more serious than natural delivery!
Both my children were delivered by caesarean section. I tried to give birth naturally, but in the end I switched to caesarean section. One of my children is in poor health. After caesarean section, her fat liquefied and she stayed in the hospital for a whole month. She said it was a painful time. If it wasn't for the sake of the children, she wouldn't want to stick to it! Another friend who gave birth naturally said that the private parts were torn, and they had to be disinfected every day during confinement, and the torn parts grew up slowly half a year after delivery.
3. Uterine prolapse
Postpartum uterine prolapse is mainly caused by pregnancy and childbirth. Due to the damage of cervix, cervical main ligament and uterosacral ligament, and the failure of supporting tissue to return to normal after delivery, the uterus loses its supporting force, thus causing uterine prolapse.
There are still many people who don't have a good rest after delivery, and the uterus can't recover well.
There are many other injuries, such as sagging breasts, breast swelling, breast blockage, breast blockage and even high fever, body deformation, long spots on the face, stretch marks, backache and so on. If the delivery process is not smooth, there may be massive bleeding and amniotic fluid embolism, which seriously threatens the life of the mother and fetus! These all exist.
In addition to physical harm, there are psychological! Being a mother for the first time is not suitable, and the influence of various factors is not only emotional, but also related to the decrease and change of hormones in the postpartum body. These are women who are sensitive and vulnerable to external stimuli and are prone to emotional changes. If the husband still doesn't understand himself at this time and the family doesn't care, the child's crying can easily lead to postpartum depression, which is really not melodramatic.
20 18 and 20 19 all reported jumping off a building because of postpartum depression. It's a pity ... of course, I'm not spreading the concept of infertility here, nor am I trying to scare girls who are unmarried and have no children. I personally like children very much. I just hope that everyone will pay attention to the harm caused by childbirth.
Most novice mothers will be very anxious and learn to adjust their mentality. Giving birth to a child is not as terrible as expected, and it is definitely not as simple and easy as some short videos/TV dramas. The body is your own, so you must cherish it. To do a good job in postpartum rehabilitation training, you should talk to your family and friends in time when you encounter anything.