I have been working overtime and missed the meal time. 10 over. I'm hungry. People who lose weight have stressed for thousands of times that they should not eat after noon, control their mouths after 5 pm and avoid eating all starch sugar.

But I went into the kitchen and cooked noodles for myself.

Life is so hard, why treat yourself badly? It is important to have a good figure and good looks, but if you just want to please others, you can't be kind to yourself. In the final analysis, pleasing others is just looking for appreciation in others' eyes to please yourself.

Boil the pot with boiling water and put a noodle in it. After three minutes, the noodle becomes soft. After the heat disappears, pour them into a bowl, mix them with the prepared soup, and pick up a chopstick, which is delicious enough to cry. Although behind the delicious food, the seasoning prepared by the store in advance accounts for 90 points, but I am still very satisfied with cooking noodles late at night.

(2)

I went out to play the other day and passed a temple. When I just passed by, I was surrounded by at least five aunts. I said, "Girl, aunt, come, let me show you a picture."

I told this story to my friend as a joke. He said, "Fortune telling is the second best thing, so let them show you someone."

This reminds me of when I was in college, girls chatted in the dormitory until evening. Girls with boyfriends are always anxious about girls without partners. Finally, I left a sentence: "Oh, find a boyfriend to take good care of you!" "

It seems that in the first 20 years of my life, I have become a second-class disability without a boyfriend.

The social rating standard for men is: "house, car and ticket." Girls are a little easier. I look at my boyfriend and husband first. Those who have designs on her will once again struggle with their family background, knowledge, figure and appearance. But it's actually unfair to girls. Finding a good partner is like betting on the right thing. It is said that it is a lifelong commitment, and it is really to completely bind yourself to each other. Many highly educated girls are willing to be housewives after they get married, and they live up to the hardships of the first half of their lives.

It's even worse not to get married. No matter how hard they work and how much money they earn, someone will still poke you in the back, saying that women should be self-reliant, and self-reliance is not as good as getting married. You have so much energy to work for your boss, you might as well leave some time to find yourself a good husband.

It seems that a girl walks in this world just to complete the routine of "taking care of her husband and educating her children".

But as a girl, I want to lose weight just to put on better clothes. Work hard, but for your own financial freedom, you can travel if you want, and you don't have to chop your hands if you want to shop. If you want to love someone, you can be evenly matched with him. When the other person asks, "Do you miss me?" You don't have to feel inferior, let alone feel aloof, but you can confidently go back and say, "Yes, you are thinking of me, too."

There is a saying that is particularly easy to be misunderstood by everyone. "Women are pleasing to themselves." Many people will interpret it as "girls dress up to make others happy." But the correct translation is actually "girls dress up to make themselves happy".

(3)

I have always felt that people don't have to please anyone when they are alive, let alone do stupid things for others to wronged themselves. In your temperament, there are roads you have traveled, books you have read and people you have loved. It is never better to please others than to please yourself and the girl who loves you. Their mental state is always full of satisfaction and exudes the light of self-confidence.

I met a girl when I went out to play before, and she had two arms tattooed, which was very beautiful. We lived in a mixed dormitory at that time. There are six people in a room, all of whom are envious of her flowery arms. It was the first time that I knew that a girl who looks simple in appearance will have a tattoo dream in her heart.

However, not everyone can summon up courage like a flower-armed girl. Many times, it is external resistance that frustrates our inner desires, but more often it is self-uncertainty.

I thought the flower arm girl was engaged in the art industry, because you know, we always like to associate wild souls with the same eclectic art. However, the answer of the flower arm girl surprised me. She actually teaches English to young children. The class is full of two or three-year-old children, and the oldest has just turned four.

I asked the flower arm girl, "Then how dare you get a tattoo? The tattoo area is so large?" . Won't your students' parents have a problem with it? "

Flower arm girl smiled as soon as she heard it. She said: "When I first tattooed, I was drumming in my heart, so I only dared to tattoo where I couldn't show it when I wore half sleeves." I also went to ask my boyfriend for advice, for fear that he would disagree. "

However, the boyfriend of the flower arm girl did not rush to affirm or deny, but asked her: "Have you thought it over? I don't have any opinions. As long as you really like it, you don't have to mind what others think. Your own body can be your own master, just like no regrets. "

After listening to this, Flower-armed Girl seriously thought about it. Considering all the good and bad results, the next day she went to the tattoo place and tattooed the whole flower arm intermittently.

Many people think that people with tattoos are not gangsters and certainly not good people. But with the increasingly open era, more and more people come into contact with this piece. Everyone has moments in his life that he wants to remember forever. Some people choose to remember them by tattooing.

Flower-armed girl celebrates the third anniversary of college graduation, finds her first job, is admitted to graduate school, and has her boyfriend tattooed. She said she might tattoo the child's name on her body in the future. The first time she wore a suspender vest to work, she was still a little uneasy. But when she got there, she found that she really thought too much before. Her students came to touch her arm and said, "Teacher, you are so cool." Most of her parents expressed their goodwill amazement at her tattoos, because they are beautiful, not only with exquisite patterns and bright colors, but also with flowery arms.

The flower-armed girl said, "If I really cared about other people's thoughts, I might never try tattooing, but I will regret it for a lifetime. This regret is not worth it, but it's okay ... ".

If you love someone else, you may be afraid of falling out of love and having a rival in love with you, and you will suffer for it. If you love yourself, you are afraid that you don't love enough or love too much. The more nobody loves you, the more you love yourself. This is the beginning of a romantic life.

(4)

Love yourself before you feel that others love you.

If a person feels inferior, her absorption of external information is also negative energy. If you feel that you are not good enough, you will put your shortcomings in the hands of others and guess secretly, which will enlarge you a hundred times. When a girl who thinks she is fat is praised as cute by others, she will sigh in her heart that "if she is not beautiful, she will be called cute". A person who thinks she is short, when others stand beside her, she will think that the other person is trying to set off her height with her short. This forms a vicious circle. The less you love yourself, the worse you feel.

I also want to love others, and I need to love myself more.

People who don't love themselves, her love will be full of doubt, suspicion, inferiority, paranoia and unreasonable troubles. Because you are not confident in yourself, you will have no confidence in love and lack security in the other half. I often question: "How can he like such a useless self?" . As soon as the question is thrown, negative emotions rush headlong into a frenzy, which is bound to be accompanied by quarrels and misunderstandings. Such feelings are inevitably unhappy.

The happy love or marriage I know is that both parties love themselves seriously, their lives, their careers, their looks, and even their edges and personalities. When we are together, we can warm each other and add icing on the cake to each other's lives. But when you are alone, you can overcome obstacles and be invincible.

I once had a male friend who described his girlfriend like this: "Because she can live well alone, as a boyfriend, I want to be twice as good to her when I am with her." Otherwise, you will lose the meaning of being a boyfriend! "

I think what he said is very reasonable. Girls love themselves to make your partner love you more, don't you think?