Later, on the official account of "Everyone" WeChat, I paid attention to the collection of many articles by Hong Yan. However, my eyes can't stand reading with my mobile phone, let alone a dry eye patient like me.
So Taobao took almost all the books in Hong Yan.
After reading the book "Respect yourself who has accomplished nothing" for a week, I always feel that I am still unfinished.
Hong Yan wrote in the preface, "Until I was 40 years old, I suddenly found myself unconsciously writing many characters, such as Lin, Zhang Youyi, Lu Xiaoman, my mother, my uncle, my colleagues and people I met occasionally ... Some of them were radiant and some were unknown, but in my writing, they had some consistency, and they were all trying to make ordinary days bright. So I am. So, she said, when she wanted to understand this truth, Cain had a different understanding of the word "nothing" as time went on. Her cognition, perhaps what she said, put down her anxiety about success, found her own little happiness and was no longer fearless.
And I think her little luck is to swim in the ocean of words and write an insightful article that makes people applaud!
Therefore, how can it be said that it has accomplished nothing? Should be out of mediocrity, "can be used as a secret passage in her life, take her to other places that make her comfortable"!
Every day in my spare time, I hold a favorite book and follow the author's ideas. I realized it in another life, which also took me to other places freely.
This book is divided into five parts. Every article in every part is worth chewing and pondering. The author is very good at capturing the extraordinary things of ordinary people. The first part is mostly narrative, and the two things that impressed me the most and I like best are "She is my confidence in facing reality" and "Only doing constructive things".
After reading it, it is my confidence in facing the reality. You will be particularly eager to have such a friend. Her friends are not perfunctory about life, but have ideals and pursuits. For the writing dream in her heart, she resolutely resigned from a well-paid university job, without the excellent consumption concept of material desire and spending money casually, and carried 50 yuan's bag for many years. She also has a high degree of acceptance of others, that is, she is extremely tolerant, and she lives in a down-to-earth manner without complaining. Especially, she recorded what a friend told her, which made her exhausted. Later, the more she chewed, the more she felt that the phrase "although I am not a master, I demand myself according to the standards of a master" was delicious ... It is difficult for a person who can demand himself with such high standards to stand out. And her Excellence will also affect her friends.
I am not a master, but I demand myself by the standards of a master. If you replace the master with any ideal and beautiful word you want to be, then you will live a "down-to-earth, determined and aimless" life. I like these words very much. I don't think this life is "nothing"!
To say that Chen Sicheng's works are not too ordinary, then her colleague, Lao Li, who only does constructive things all his life, is an example for me to learn and follow.
Lao Li is a master of Chinese medicine. Later, because I like to write essays, I went to a newspaper as a supplement editor (in our opinion, it is already great. ) Because of the huge loss caused by a stock market failure (it is said that the loss money can buy two bedrooms in full), she suddenly became more relaxed and more self-sufficient than before, thus sublimating her life. In Hong Yan's words, after she stepped down as the director of the Supplement Department, she was calm and even didn't expect it, so she accepted this arrangement because she made better plans for herself. The article pointed out, "She is usually five years old. This is hard work. In order to keep up with her physical strength, when she is not painting, she pays great attention to exercise and health, and often walks for several kilometers to successfully achieve the goal of slimming. "
After reading it, I seem to see my present state. I like the present state more than ever, especially after joining the practice of easy acting. I find that I am more self-disciplined and love learning and sports. As Hong Yan said, "I always have a high spirit on the road." It is the happiest thing in the world to persist in learning and even feel your progress. Because "learning is something with a leap posture, it easily crosses trivial things in the world and soars in a transparent blue place."
Yes! Lao Li is 50 years old, but in Yan's red eye, I feel that Lao Li is really regressing and more beautiful than when I first met him. Her figure is not only out of shape, but also more curved.
Lao Li in Yan's Red Eye can "truly understand and see her goals and limitations, and she can refuse this ambiguity of negative emotions. She was not injured or healed. She was generous and a storm was coming. She just stepped on the broken jade and went all the way forward. " And how can Lao Li be so generous and broad? Because she said that she used to be an oncologist, she had seen more life and death, and she knew which was more important, and trivial troubles would eventually become a thing of the past. The process of constantly doing things can bring real happiness, but I don't know that the old times are coming.
Lao Li said that it is great, and the process of doing things can bring real happiness. As Hong Yan said, a person who only does constructive things will always have the best present, and then these "present" will achieve the best future.
In a word, I like this article very much, and I like the generous and vast Lao Li in it. I don't care, but I can see myself clearly and pursue it. Even at the age of knowing my destiny, I still live an affluent life, and I am always full of energy on the road. I also want to have this attitude! Come on!
In Hong Yan's works, Chen Sicheng Lao Li brings people a high-spirited look, while the little uncle in Reading is a little shelter from the wind and rain is even more admirable and even pitying.
My little uncle is stupid. In a miserable world, my little uncle is at the bottom, poor and unmarried all his life, but his greatest hobby in life is "reading in bed". Although he can't change his life on the high ground like reading, he can have the light of reading in such an era of hardship and scarcity, "salvage himself from all kinds of unfortunate quagmires and have his own secret ways."
Hong Yan said, "As for myself, my soul is not strong, and I am very emotional. I'm always ready to be angry from the bottom of my heart. If I am not careful, I will lose all hope. Fortunately, I still have a hobby of reading. It is like the best middleman, pulling me out of my tangled life. Isolation for a while, looking back, everything is a cloud. "
After reading this passage, it seems to be talking about us in reality, but Hong Yan can escape the complexity of cruel reality through the refuge of "reading" and let himself "control his own rhythm and be in heaven all the time".
Reading has such a great effect. Only when you are in love can you know self-enlightenment.
Reading is a small shelter that you can carry with you. If you don't bully me, yes! This sentence was said by Mao Mu, and Borges also said that heaven should be like a library! There are books in my study, my living room, bedside wardrobe and even the bathroom. When I pick up a book, I feel I am in heaven!
When writing this reading experience, I opened this book with a deep purple cover at the same time, and almost every page jumped into my eyes with a pencil. Because people agree with people's appreciative sentences, they are really like shells on the beach. I remember reading a collection of essays by Taiwan Province writer Zhang Xiaofeng, A Wind and a Lotus. It seems that I can't get in after reading only two pages, but when I pick up Hong Yan's book, I won't give up. She is a very smart person, and she has good language and writing skills. The most important thing is that you can get what you want after reading every article. It's something you feel the same way but haven't written. She wrote about Zhang Youyi, borrowed Zhang Youyi's life experience, and lamented that even in a narrow space, it is yourself who can finally destroy you and make you successful. Zhang Youyi's calmness and perseverance in the face of fate are admirable.
She wrote about herself. In order to pursue her dream of writing, she resolutely gave up her studies and college entrance examination. With the support and guidance of her very enlightened father, she gradually succeeded. On the way, she hesitated, feared and suffered losses. Finally, she finally realized that "life is not as terrible as you think." It respects talent and hard work. No matter what path you choose, don't hesitate and always want to turn back. " ?
So, "don't be intimidated by yourself and waste too much time worrying unnecessarily."
As the Bible says, "Don't worry about tomorrow. One day's troubles are enough. " What we can do is to take the road ahead in a down-to-earth manner.
She wrote about the great man around him, the ugly and short intern, who "kept learning and became a man of realm, breaking through the limitations brought by fate", so his efforts made him easily enter a newspaper after the internship. The number of later manuscripts is always among the best, and the number of good manuscripts is often among the top three, which is always praised and commended. Therefore, Hong Yan said, "The ultimate consideration for people is to look at their temperament and wisdom, and what we should do is to cultivate their own wisdom and transcend these evil influences" (such as ugliness and clumsiness). In the final analysis, "beauty will get old, aesthetics will get tired, cleverness will be mistaken, and a person's wisdom will calm himself down and let others see it."
The more I read, the more I find Hong Yan admirable and impressive. How can she write so well? How can you interpret life so well? Can analyze and reason, and the analysis is convincing. Words also reveal wisdom and humor from time to time. It is really hard to get! People who are also in their forties really feel that they have fallen into the dust in front of her.
But start by respecting yourself who has accomplished nothing! That's true! Everyone who struggles on the road of pursuing their own ideals strives to make ordinary things brilliant! It's not nothing! Don't worry about success, and don't compete with others. As long as you are pursuing or will pursue your ideal, even if you are unsuccessful, the happiness and enrichment brought by this process, as well as poetry, are enough to make us feel at ease and take our time!