You lose weight in this way! But you said your hips were big. According to my medical experience, it should be because your pelvis is wide! This is the case. In fact, from a scientific point of view, women with wider pelvis are relatively better! Such a woman will have a higher chance of getting pregnant in the future than a woman with a narrow pelvis! And it's relatively easier to make!

Besides, nature is beautiful to live in this world, not just by appearance! Mind is the most important thing! Everyone will have their own bright spots! No one is unique, why can we pursue the beauty of appearance?