There is a kind of woman whose mate selection criteria are very clear. She doesn't like small fresh meat, doesn't like boys younger than herself, and will like men of uncle type.

They feel that there are too many advantages in uncle, and after years of precipitation, he has a stable taste; There is a kind of cloud and light wind under the magnificent life; There is also a maturity and calmness after experiencing the changes of the world.

How's uncle? Of course, uncles are good, but not every uncle is suitable for marriage.

Sometimes, women can go their own way and devote themselves to love. Maybe even if their parents remind them, they think they are wrong. Only when they are in pain do they find that their parents always love themselves the most.

02.

After working for a year, Nini met an uncle who was doing business. That uncle is humorous, elegant and distinguished. Nini took a special look. Uncle didn't wear a wedding ring.

Nini's concept of love is that you must find an uncle when you get married, because she doesn't like men of the same age and thinks they are naive and irresponsible.

Some people just need to look at it and fall in love, just like Nian Nini has a crush on that uncle.

Before, Nini was not in charge of the business of the company and Uncle Company. In order to communicate more with her uncle, she introduced one of her big business deals to her colleagues who originally docked with her uncle, so she directly docked with her uncle.

Some women are shy in the face of love and don't want to express it directly, but anyone with a discerning eye can understand Nini's feelings for her uncle, and she doesn't want to hide her feelings. If she can take the initiative to catch up with her uncle, that is naturally good.

After several working contacts, uncle also understood Nini's feelings for himself.

03.

Adult love, needless to say, sometimes a look, maybe the other party will understand, so it is natural for them to be together.

After being together, it is the happiest time for Nini. Uncle is really gentle and considerate to her, and mature and wise enough.

When Nini was immersed in the ocean of love, Dad knew Nini's love.

He doesn't agree with Nini dating a man 15 years older than himself. Dad thinks that the age gap between the two people is too big, the gap is too big, the generation gap is too big, and the relationship is unsustainable.

At that time, Nini was blinded by love and naturally could not hear her father's persuasion. She even said: If you don't leave that man, I'll break off the father-daughter relationship with you.

Dad forced Nini to leave her uncle in this way, but it aroused Nini's rebellious heart.

04.

Dad tried everything, but he couldn't make me give up. Finally, he solemnly said: you have to associate with this man, and I will disown you from now on.

The love between Nini and her uncle will always be her own way. When her father sent Nini the last message "I won't recognize you until I leave", Nini blacked out and deleted her father's WeChat.

Nini went back to her uncle, who was really kind to her, but also began to control her communication with any man. So is uncle's possessiveness, control and paranoia towards Nini.

He is like an invisible hand, watching Nini's life. No matter who she is with, who she is working with and chatting with, he needs to know everything.

When I was a little unhappy, I began to be cold and violent with Nini. He told Nini again and again that he only did it because he loved you so much.

His thoughtfulness, elegance and tolerance are getting farther and farther away from him. Nini wants to escape from him, but it is difficult to do so.

He said that because Nini was too young and insecure about Nini, the temptation outside was too great. He was worried that Nini would be easily taken away by other men, so he tied Nini tightly.

Some people really disguise themselves as chameleons. When you let down your guard easily, they will be exposed to you.

When there is no room for love, then love can't last long.

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Later, the relationship between uncle and Nini became a game of running and chasing, a contest between control and anti-control. In this relationship, Nini felt more and more tired and found herself exhausted.

Because Nini doesn't know when she will make him angry again, when she will check her mobile phone again, or if she is not careful, she will be cold and violent to herself.

When the relationship was on the verge of collapse, Nini discovered that Dad was right. Perhaps it is too arbitrary to judge the love between two people by their age, but men really have intuition.

When I tried my best to escape from this relationship with my uncle, I found that the sky outside was so free.

Online said: In your twenties, you can entrust your love to a mature and steady man, but have you ever thought that it is so easy for a man in his thirties and forties to make up his mind to entrust his feelings to you who is still very young?

Maybe this is the truth that the little girl and her uncle are in love.

Girls like uncle, what they like more is his experience, his success and his wealth. I hope uncle can be his spiritual mentor when he needs guidance in his life.

Falling in love with uncle has its advantages, but young women also need to take some risks.

The first is the age gap between two people, which is an objective condition that cannot be crossed.

In fact, it is the growth rate of two people's thoughts. Although my uncle's thoughts and experience have reached a high level, the society is changing every day. If two people's thoughts can progress at the same time, they can grow together emotionally, but if one stagnates and the other grows, it will also bring emotional crisis.

Finally, the fit between two people and three views. Just like the relationship between Nini and her uncle, at first she approached actively, at first she went her own way, and finally she broke her parents' hearts and made her father say, "I can't recognize you anymore."

When I was a child, I always felt that my parents' views on marriage were naive and tacky. When I grew up, I found that they were really right. The accident of love between Nini and uncle, at least for her life experience, she knows that uncle is beautiful, but don't approach and fall in love easily, because in this relationship with uncle, she has also been greatly hurt.