In the face of increasingly intensified contradictions, I think the solution is to learn to put yourself in the other's shoes. Putting yourself in others' shoes is putting yourself in others' shoes. If citizens and dancers can stand in each other's position and look at each other's behavior, they will be less angry and more understanding. Less confrontation and more tolerance.
"I am old, and people are old." The reason why square dance is so popular lies in the increase of the elderly population and the improvement of people's living standards in China. Square dance can not only keep fit, but also enhance neighborhood relations, which naturally becomes their best pastime. These old people found happiness in dancing, made friends and got great physical and mental relaxation. Who in the world doesn't want their parents to be healthy and happy in middle and old age? Since you try your best to hope that your parents can enjoy family happiness in their later years, why should you stop other people's parents from getting simple happiness? At the same time, square dance is often crowded and widely dispersed, and with the growth of age, hearing declines. It is also reasonable that the accompaniment music is louder. Since we will silently turn up the TV for our elderly parents, why can't we "be old for me and old for people"?
"Young and frivolous, and young people." Although "occupying" the square and "tweeter" speakers are all helpless actions of Chinese aunts, the fact of "disturbing the people" is undeniable. Many young people living in the "square dance community" have been suffering from "not sleeping well at night and getting up early during the day". In fact, most dancing aunts also have their own children. If children living in different places call and tell them that they are "fidgeting" by the square dance in the community, every mother will cherish it. Then why can't the dancing aunt care about her heart? She also influenced the "treasure in eyes" and "pride in heart" of other parents. Isn't it better for the world to be "young and frivolous" and thus "young and frivolous"?
Not only the square dance in China, Chinese-style crossing the road, Chinese-style tourists ... Behind every "Chinese style", without exception, it is full of banter. If pedestrians hold a group before running a red light, you can consider what it feels like to encounter such a situation while driving; If the driver complains about "road rage", think about the helplessness of pedestrians in the face of the reality that "cars don't make people"; If tourists can consider the feelings of other tourists who come to see the beautiful scenery when they destroy the scenic spots with uncivilized behavior ... If so many "ifs" can be realized, then many "Chinese styles" may no longer exist. And "caring for others" is the key to turning the ideal into reality.
The story "Gong Jing heard his fate" must be familiar. Yan Zi's brilliant thought of "knowing ancient sages, knowing people's hunger when they are full, knowing people's cold when they are warm, and knowing people's suffering when they are idle" is commendable, but we need Gong Jing's courage to act "to make autumn crisp and extremely cold".
Only when "caring for others" is implanted in people's hearts and people understand and tolerate each other can "square dance" dance a new style.