It is not surprising that Chen Songling was killed without complaint. She was a goddess when she was young. Because of her obesity in recent years, she can't find any traces of the past.
At first glance, Chen Songling belongs to a very reasonable person. When I first saw it, I scolded her husband for her mother-in-law's behavior, but she went too far. I can only say that she was killed without complaint. My husband often annoys me in this way. We have problems. When he bothers me and doesn't want to talk to me, I post it, one baby at a time. My husband usually bites his teeth and is silent, with his eyes open and a hand pushing me away. If there are passers-by around me, I guess I will stare at my husband and scold him love rat. By the way, I bitterly advised my girl that there are so many men in this world, so don't spoil yourself.
Chen Songling's mother-in-law obviously doesn't like this daughter-in-law, and this old woman is not a celebrity. When she was one year old, she was too lazy to pretend, so she made do with being on TV. It turns out that the direct conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law depends on netizens like Sherlock Holmes to find the answer. I didn't expect Chen Songling to throw it directly on the table, and the way she put it on the table was to take the lead in pushing her mother-in-law to the position of a villain. So we saw Chen Songling's care and her mother-in-law's indifference.
My in-laws are her husband's mother. I don't need to invite them three times a day and see them several times a year, as in feudal society. As for this, I don't like it, but I have always maintained a sense of contract. As long as my husband and I haven't broken the jar, it proves that I have nostalgia for him, so I have to keep a little patience and love for my in-laws.
In-laws regret not having children, just as we can't understand why parents always use a pile of colorful plastic bags as garbage bags to buy food. Parents are always parents, which is why we need a good friend and classmate. They don't understand. You can get the understanding of the people around you, but don't force the elderly to understand your behavior. It is a great sin not to understand you.
Loneliness may be like many families. Before the son gets married, the husband will listen to him and the son will listen to him. When a son gets married, he will take it as an inertia and want to stay at home alone. At that time, Chen Songling and Zhang Duo warmly invited her mother-in-law to their home, but her mother-in-law said, "Our home is not your". Later, Chen Songling used the word "loose" to tell her mother-in-law where her boundaries were. As a mother-in-law, she didn't listen to her daughter-in-law, but quickly broke into her territory.
Chen Songling's mother-in-law, like the mother-in-law in TV series, played the slogan of "good mother-in-law" and crossed the boundary between mother-in-law and son-in-law. Perhaps, Chen Songling's mother-in-law found that she had gone too far in doing these things, but she quickly comforted herself with "It's my son anyway" to get rid of her guilt quickly. Never take up other people's private space because of taking care of children or in the name of love. This cannot be an excuse for your emotional kidnapping.
Zhang Duo may be a good husband, but being a son is not good enough. As for Chen Songling's mother-in-law's temper, she said that she knew it was cold, and her mother wanted to make up for the regret at that time. Zhang Duo not only didn't understand her mother, but also spoke directly, but she relied on the infinite package her mother gave her.
EQ Zhang Duo came to the meeting place in Chen Songling and didn't tell Chen Songling at the first time, but simply forgot his investment. As long as you really care about your mother, you will take photos at school together and then take them to Chen Songling. If your mother doesn't want to, at least she has done her duty as a son and has a clear conscience. Go with her mother.
When Chen Songling learned the news, she always wondered how her mother-in-law would treat herself, but Zhang Duo did nothing for herself. She just casually said, "My mother is too old, and she is even injured." .
I have to say, this retreat is very beautiful and successfully pushed my mother and my mother-in-law to the top of the storm. But as long as the clip of Mango Taiwan is unfriendly, the netizen's spit will directly drown the old man.
Only after watching the program did I know that Chen Songling's mother-in-law has always been a submissive person. Seeing Chen Songling kneeling down to apologize, she didn't blame her son and daughter-in-law for their kindness, but immediately took Chen Songling's hand and worried that she would get hurt. As long as she is a daughter-in-law with higher emotional intelligence, she will follow the old people and make them happy, instead of deliberately provoking them. From this perspective, Chen Songling is not always weak.
Look at this, I feel sorry for this difficult old man. In order to take care of Zhang Duo's studies and not affect the children's mood, I didn't say a word, and I tried to get the children's understanding and sympathy. I don't even have the kindness of old people, let alone my attitude towards my mother. The poor inherit the wind.