However, He Jie shouted: "This is too hard!"
It is hard to imagine that she once fell into postpartum depression because of obesity and just passed the dark period of losing her marriage.
He Jie and her son and daughter.
In 2005, He Jie became popular because of the talent show Super Girl. "As a group of us, it's unconventional to enter the entertainment circle, so I will get some dirty looks, and I will feel inferior," He Jie said in an interview.
He Jie in the Super Girl Period
In the rising period of her career, He Jie met with love. 20 13 in September, He Jie and got married. When the reporter asked who worked from home, Zi Ming replied: "Cooking, me, washing dishes, or me, washing clothes ... She is mainly responsible for Le Jia, and I am happy when she is happy. I like the way she smiles. "
He Jie was smiling, brimming with the happiness of the wedding.
Three years, two children, a son and a daughter, and a successful career. In the eyes of the public, He Jie has all the happiness. In 20 16, He Jie was invited to participate in a variety show to share her parenting experience. In the program, He Jie still couldn't stop laughing, and his eyes bent into a beautiful crescent.
When a mother at the scene mentioned that her husband was addicted to games, He Jie was so excited that she couldn't help getting up from her seat several times. When male guests defended playing games, they also interrupted many times.
Although she is smiling, it is not hard to see He Jie's empathy and forbearance behind her smile. After marriage, He Jie still worked hard, often recording songs until the early hours of the morning, shooting advertisements, recording programs, participating in variety shows to earn money for children's milk powder, and sometimes taking two children to work.
And Zi Ming seems to have faded out of public view, defending his addiction to games-
I'm glad I didn't go out to eat, drink, fuck and gamble. The most common, unfortunate and powerless excuse for this marriage appeared in He Jie's home.
We can't measure a love by who has paid more for the family, but we can use it to interpret the responsibility. Obviously, Zi Ming is not his responsibility.
He Jie's words on the show are distressing-
He Jie's tone and eyes revealed deep helplessness. At first, she fell madly in love with He, but now it is probably difficult to create a loving environment for her children.
It takes a lot of courage for a woman to give birth to a child for love at the most beautiful time, and it deserves more love and companionship. But the way to deal with it with him is that when He Jie loses his temper, he pretends not to hear and then "keeps silent".
Postpartum He Jie
Sure enough, at the end of 20 16, public opinion pushed the rumor of He Jie He's divorce to the forefront. 20 16 10, He Jie once showed his left hand in a circle of friends and wrote: "Beautiful, the ring is gone." He also released "Love Song of Singles" in Weibo, and called it "Let's Go". In March of 20 17, Awakening said in a variety show that "it is not easy for an older single mother to bring up two older children", and the rumor was finally confirmed to be true.
Women are weak, but mothers are strong. Even though she lost her marriage, He Jie still devoted herself to her work with her best smile, trying to give her children a better life. Recently, she went all out for her concert.
In April last year, He Jie cheered for her slimming in Weibo: "Yes, I have gained weight, and my weight is 130 kg. I gave birth to two babies in a row and ushered in two little angels, which also caused my current weight and body shape. Maybe I'm not as lucky as other girls to lose weight soon, but I believe that hard work can be fruitful. Although the process is difficult, I am not afraid. "
Come through thick and thin, after a year, He Jie sent Weibo to ridicule his time of gaining weight.
Awakening couldn't help commenting on He Jie, and He Jie responded frankly.
Obviously, she has walked out of the shadow of postpartum obesity, not only lost weight, but also recovered her initial self-confidence.
From teenage girls to wives, mothers and single hot moms. She kept tasting the various flavors of life, bravely walked out of marriage, tried to set an example for her children, and still lived a wonderful life.
He Jie also has a new song-A Song for a Strange Girl, dedicated to those who are still frustrated. I don't know if you shed tears after listening to it.
In youth, everyone who loves us is like sunshine, illuminating us. She sings like this in the song. He Jie wanted to say to the girls, "All the pain will pass. I wrote it down in the song and kept it in my heart. "