"A Dream of Red Mansions" wrote: "A box full of gold and a box full of silver, and all beggars were slandered in an instant. I am lamenting that his life is not long, but I don't know that I am back! Well-trained, you can't be a girder in the future; Choose cream beam, who wants to live in Yanhua Lane! Because the gauze cap is too small, it has a lock cangue; I broke my coat yesterday, and now I think purple pythons are long. It's so noisy, you sing me on stage, but you think your hometown is your hometown. This is ridiculous. In the end, it all depends on the wedding dresses of other girls. "

The most difficult thing to control in life is desire, gold and silver jewelry, beautiful cars, official power and resplendence. These things are always as charming as flowers, which makes you confused about your innermost thoughts. But when can you make all the money? When will power end? How can you tell that there are so many beautiful young people?

A person who is swallowed up by desire may get a temporary glamour and material wealth, but after a short carnival, he will be greeted by a long emptiness and loneliness.

Harry, the American ship king, didn't kill his son when he was educating him, but took him into the casino. At first, he taught his son to stop gambling every time he lost half of his principal. His son tried several times and often lost all his principal because he was unwilling. After several attempts, I learned to give up and give up in time. Familiar with gambling

After the game, his son began to win money, when Harry advised his son to stop. My son is not reconciled and wants to win more and win more. As a result, the situation got worse and he lost all his money.

After several trainings, he can finally control the winning or losing within 10%. No matter what the result is, he will stop in time. Not being controlled by desire means controlling the most greedy part of human nature, not being influenced by emotions and sensibility, and thinking about problems with a rational and calm mind. Sometimes, we don't need to get a lot, but we mistakenly think that getting more will make us happier. Most people fail not because they have no skills, but because they can't control their emotions and desires.

Controlling desire does not mean sacrifice, but to gain and win a broader life.

Pursuing desire is human nature, but it's up to you to master the scale and methods. Pursue fame and fortune, don't put your whole life into it; Pursue emotions and don't hurt people who love themselves the most; In pursuit of your career, you must not violate the law and discipline by any means; The pursuit of beauty should not be based on the pursuit of famous brands. In order to lose weight, we should not take some extreme measures, such as hunger strike. ...

We will eventually return to life, three meals a day, one bed and one arm. What we can get in life is what we see with our eyes, touch with our hands, walk with our feet, hear with our ears, taste with our tongues and get inspiration with our hearts. Other than that, there is nothing else.

Therefore, before our life comes to an end, you can better have the beauty of this world by unloading some unrealistic desires.