The image of Wang Pangzi in Grave Robbery Notes is too profound, but after reading some of his Weibo, I suddenly found that this low-key unknown man is so likable.

There is a Weibo he wrote: "Lucky people are cured by childhood all their lives, and unfortunate people are cured by childhood all their lives."

In the picture, he pursed his lips, gave a thumbs-up, and told everyone with a smile that he was lucky. I hope everyone is lucky.

What surprises me is why the unkempt man in my memory has become so manly.

Look at the dynamics behind him, each one is very positive energy, and the one that impressed me the most is165438+1October 25th, when there was a passage in the photo he took for himself:

"But only when you start to believe in yourself can you have a real life. -"rocky"

A gray suit, short hair, burly, delicate face, looks very sunny. If it weren't for the discovery on his homepage, it would look exactly like Kenny Lin at first glance.

Many fans have commented that Zhang Boyu is getting more and more handsome, and they are beginning to wonder if this is a plastic surgery.

Today's Zhang Boyu, in the eyes of many people, is a full-fledged acting male god.

But no one ever knows what this so-called middle-aged male god has experienced for so many years. No one knows that this man, who is now full of positive energy, was once rejected by his father as too ugly and once fell into inferiority.

0 1 xinger is unlucky.

Everyone knows that Zhang Boyu's biological father and mother are famous actors ZhangFeng yi and Lv Liping. These two actors have been in the entertainment circle for decades, and their works have more than a dozen.

For the feelings of these two people, we have to start from the beginning. 198 1 year, ZhangFeng yi, who just debuted, starred in the film Camel Xiangzi, which made him famous at one fell swoop. Then the next year, he was assigned to Emei Film Studio. Lv Liping, four years younger than ZhangFeng yi, 1984 debuted the first film "childhood friends".

The real meeting was in the movie "Police Officer in the Year of the Dragon" by 1986, in which ZhangFeng yi and Lv Liping played husband and wife. What I never expected was that they fell in love because of the play. So they got married soon, and two years later they gave birth to a son, Zhang Boyu.

At that time, the two people on the screen, it can be said, were just successful in their careers, but for the sake of their children, Lv Liping chose to temporarily retire from the entertainment circle and concentrate on tutoring children. Anyone who has been a mother knows that it is hard to take care of children, and there are endless chores to do every day, so it is almost always comfortable and convenient to dress by yourself.

That unkempt appearance is common at home. At this time, ZhangFeng yi hangs out in the entertainment circle every day and never cares about his family, because he is young and handsome, and there are actresses one after another around him.

So that when Zhang Boyu was two years old, ZhangFeng yi changed his mind. At that moment, Lv Liping hated ZhangFeng yi so much that he couldn't bear it. He chose a divorce.

Since then, Zhang Boyu has followed Lv Liping even more. Three years after the divorce, ZhangFeng yi married Huo Fan, a dance teacher 14 years younger than herself. It is reported that this woman, like him, had a marriage and had a daughter. After being with Zhang Fengyi, they never had children again.

At this time, ZhangFeng yi is very popular in the entertainment circle. He has made Farewell My Concubine and Peace and Prosperity, and won many awards.

But looking at Lv Liping is different. 1in the spring of 996, Lv Liping took his son to watch a basketball game at the Xiannongtan and met his second husband, Tao Wei, a famous football player. They became "forgotten friends". Finally, the two married in Los Angeles, USA.

Unfortunately, this relationship is not equal after all. One is a football player and the other is an actor on the screen. The gap is obvious. In just five years, this relationship broke down again.

At this time, Jaco Yu was only 13 years old. Without his knowledge, Lv Liping divorced again.

Zhang Boyu, a teenager, experienced several family changes before she realized the happiness of her family. All this has cast a shadow on Zhang Boyu, which is the root of his inferiority complex.

Two fathers, two attitudes.

Although Lv Liping and Tao Wei divorced, this year she met the man she loved most in her life. I met Sun, an actor of Shenyang Repertory Theatre, while filming the TV series "Years of Burning Passion".

Sun also has a sad story. 1979, he fell in love with a pharmacist at first sight and got married immediately, and gave birth to a son the next year. Originally thought to be a happy family of three, but when the child was 2 years old, he injured his brain once and was paralyzed and incontinent. For Mr. and Mrs. Sun, this is undoubtedly a great news.

In the face of her paralyzed son, his wife was in great pain. Now she can't bear to see the child's pain, and she can't help her inner suffering. She left a letter and left. Since then, Sun and his son have lived together.

Unfortunately, one day on 1995, the child twitched almost every minute. Let Sun, who is filming in Xinjiang, come back non-stop. As a result, I saw my son for the last time and he left.

At that moment, Sun was heartbroken and could not let go for a long time. He has been blaming himself. So that for five years, he didn't want to touch the next relationship.

Until I met Lv Liping, maybe two people had the same experience, which made them inseparable soon. In 2002, they registered their marriage in Shenyang.

Since then, there has been another father, Sun. But this "dad" kept Sun waiting 12 years.

Because Sun was alone, he experienced the pain of losing his wife and children, which was more important to her son than his own life. 13 years old already knows something, but in his rebellious youth, he can't accept Sun's existence for a long time.

But Sun doesn't care. Sun never says a word "no" as long as he wants something.

Sun once said: "the right love is a kind of responsibility, a kind of unrequited love. I don't care if he calls me dad or not."

On the other hand, my father ZhangFeng yi has never asked Zhang Boyu since he was a child. He would rather buy Lamborghini for his second wife's daughter than give Zhang Boyu a little love.

Sadly, after graduating from junior high school in Zhang Boyu, he went to learn acting. Zhang Fengyi was furious and said, "If you want this, don't call me again." .

ZhangFeng yi even relied on his son to say that he was not suitable for acting because his image was too ugly.

What is even more puzzling is that on Zhang Boyu's wedding day, his father ZhangFeng yi didn't even show up. He didn't come on such an important occasion. Is he embarrassed or doesn't want to recognize his son?

The two fathers in the son's heart.

Perhaps many people will think that facing two fathers, Zhang Boyu's choice should be obvious. But in Zhang Boyu's mind, the two fathers are very happy.

One year on Father's Day, I published a long article thanking my father Zhang Fengyi and my stepfather grandson.

Regarding ZhangFeng yi, Zhang Boyu wrote: "If you want to blame any party, it means that you have not thought, said or commented from my point of view."

Zhang Boyu also said that everyone around me is so suitable.

The implication is that the relationship between Zhang Boyu and his father ZhangFeng yi is not as incompatible as the outside world said.

Zhang Boyu also revealed that when he was drunk, his name was ZhangFeng yi. He got up the courage to tell his true feelings, and this time he got a response from ZhangFeng yi. This is the first time in many years that the two have interacted so deeply.

In fact, there are many misunderstandings about ZhangFeng yi's behavior as a father. At that time, ZhangFeng yi said that he was not suitable for acting and hoped that he could study more. At least you have to go to high school. How to learn acting after graduating from junior high school?

Speaking of not attending Zhang Boyu's wedding, there are two reasons. One is that when Zhang Boyu got married, ZhangFeng yi suggested that he lay low and set a table or two for his relatives to get together. As a result, Sun An arranged the whole wedding and held 27 tables. This also makes ZhangFeng yi, who has always been low-key, a little uncomfortable.

Another reason is that ZhangFeng yi is very aware of his relationship with Sun Zi and Sun Zi. If he takes part, even outsiders don't know how to talk about it, let alone how unhappy Lv Liping is. It's gonna be awkward. Besides, ZhangFeng yi usually doesn't attend other people's weddings. According to him, all the weddings he attended ended in divorce. Although he is superstitious, it is all for the good of his children.

On the other hand, my stepson. Zhang Boyu commented: "When I am hard up, his three or two words can always soften me and comfort me like a clear spring. He gave me what I wanted in his position. "

The stepfather loves Zhang Boyu as much as his own son, giving him all the love. Even though it was rumored that Zhang Boyu and Zhang Fengyi were at odds, Sun stood up and spoke for him: "Zhang Boyu is a very filial son and has a good relationship with his father Zhang Fengyi and my stepfather."

Speaking of Sun, he is really the greatest father in the world. He is selfless and wants nothing.

From inferiority complex to male god

Because of his different experiences from ordinary people, although Zhang Boyu was born in the second generation, he didn't feel so happy. Life always creates problems for him, and he has to accept so many complicated things at the most ignorant age.

So that he felt inferior at an early age, especially when facing his father Zhang Fengyi, he was always harsh, disobedient and severe. Plus the face value is not high and a little chubby. In terms of image, I really can't catch up with my father ZhangFeng yi.

Someone once said bluntly after an argument between two people, "You are nothing like your father. What a shame on your father! " So for a long time, he fell into extreme inferiority.

Fortunately, he has a strict father, Zhang Fengyi, an amiable stepfather and a loving mother. These three artists of the older generation gave Zhang Boyu great confidence in many things.

Teach him how to be a man, how to act and how to become confident.

Over the years, Zhang Boyu has been adhering to the low-key style of his two fathers, devoted himself to research and shooting, and began to have color on the screen.

Whether it's Cao Wufu in Chu legend, Chen Guoying in Life and Death Field, Wang Pangzi in Tomb Raider Notes, or Mahao in Promised Land now.

Zhang Boyu always insists on and strives to provide the best service for everyone. Although this is beyond the ability of two fathers. But he always kept an enterprising heart.

Make yourself more stable and better.

Looking at Zhang Boyu now in ZhangFeng yi's mind is no longer too ugly, but gradually became a male god. The most important thing is his mentality, no longer inferior, full of positive energy, and always insisting on himself.

As he wrote in Weibo:

People's fragility and strength are beyond imagination. Sometimes, I may be too fragile to burst into tears at a word, and sometimes I find myself gritting my teeth and walking a long way.

-Life in Mo Bosang.