In a happy family, children are the precious existence of parents. Parents can let their children feel the warmth of this love without deliberately expressing it.
But for children from divorced families, they will suffer because of this love. How much love is left for parents and how long this love can last.
After Liu Xiaomin and Jin Bo divorced, it was not easy to go to Beijing alone. What was more difficult was their son Jin Jiajun.
Fighting for custody, seeing the worst of parents
At that time, the combination of parents was a mistake, and they went to court for custody when they divorced.
In her marriage with her father, Jin Bo, her mother, Xiao Min, was unwilling at first. Jin Bo is idle and loves to drink. When he is drunk, he becomes crazy. This is the last person Xiao Min likes.
These two people can become a family, which is contributed by grandma Wang Sumin.
In grandma's view, Jin Bo's father is the director of Jiujiang local textile factory, and his family is superior.
Moreover, Director Jin takes good care of their family on weekdays, and it is not bad for her daughter to marry into such a family.
After getting married, Jin Bo drank too much and went crazy every day. Xiao Min tried to divorce several times, but his grandmother, Wang Sumin, stopped him and hid his mother Xiao Min's household registration book and ID card.
This kind of marriage made my mother collapse, and my mother Xiao Min was the kind of person who used to keep everything in her heart.
At that time, it was a little comfort for her to correspond with Teacher Su and talk about poetry.
For the sake of her son Jun Jun's mother, her mother didn't make up her mind to divorce until she found out that Jinbo was cheating.
Mother Xiao Min wants to leave this house with her son Jun Jun, but it is not easy to fight for custody.
Custody should consider the financial strength of the dependents, and Xiao Min's financial strength at that time could not be compared with Jin.
However, because Jin Bo cheated in marriage and had many bad habits, Xiao Min was not completely without a chance.
The husband's cheating was unreasonable, but his wife Xiao Min was also suspected of cheating.
In order to get custody, the Kim family used various relationships and took the correspondence with Teacher Su as evidence of cheating.
This matter was heated up, branded with the stain of cheating marriage, and also led to the unknown life and death of Mr. Su.
Mother Xiao Min was wronged and discredited, and her hometown Jiujiang could not stay any longer. In order to leave this sad place as soon as possible, Xiao Min chose to compromise and gave up the struggle for child custody.
Once the divorce goes to court, the dirty clothes will be infinitely magnified and exposed to everyone.
When I needed my mother most, she was not around.
Mother Xiao Min finally got rid of the quagmire and gossip in her hometown, but her son Jin Jiajun could not avoid it. Her mother cheated on her in marriage, her parents divorced, and everyone around her had to bear the finger pointing of young Jin Jiajun.
My mother left Jiujiang and never came back. When I miss my mother, Jun Jun just chats with her through video.
Once upon a time, Jin Jiajun also hoped that his mother could take him away, but his expectations failed again and again, which made him full of resentment against his mother.
In the past ten years, Jun Jun began to live with his grandparents. After the two old people died, he followed his grandmother again.
As a father, Jin Bo has never taken care of his children except drinking and fooling around all day.
But even such a father, compared with his mother, Jun Jun's heart is more inclined to his father's side.
Sometimes the spatial distance between people is also the distance between hearts.
The distance between Jun Jun and his mother Xiao Min is about1286.7km, which is also the distance from Jiujiang to Beijing.
After ten years of struggle, my mother Xiao Min finally took root in Beijing. Not only was she promoted to head nurse, but she also bought a house in Beijing. As the days passed, Xiao Min wanted to take his son to live in Beijing, but his son Jun Jun refused.
This time, I suddenly chose to come to Beijing to repeat my studies. Jun Jun has his own plans. He hopes to use his mother Xiao Min's money to help his father pay his debts.
This is not the first time that Jun Jun has tried to help his father Jinbo pay back the money.
There is such a scene in the play that Jin Bo forces Jun Jun to sign a contract, which is a tutoring contract. As long as the student can successfully enter Jiujiang No.1 Middle School after three months of counseling, he can get 654.38+ 10,000 yuan.
It should have been the age to study with peace of mind, but Jun Jun not only lacked the love of her parents, but also had a headache for her father, Jin Bo.
At the age when maternal love was most needed in Jun Jun, Jun Jun was angry with her mother without her company.
Behind his son's careful probing, his mother Xiao Min was embarrassed.
Tsinghua was only two points short of the first college entrance examination. When Jun Jun chose to study in Beijing, there were still three months before the college entrance examination.
At the age of twenty, when Jun Jun came to his mother's house for the first time, he looked very formal, just like going to a distant relative's house for the first time.
Facing her 20-year-old son, Mandy doesn't know what to do. She is very polite to her mother.
Jin Jiajun is very clever. Before he came to Beijing, he had a clear understanding of the repeat institutions in Beijing. He chose to become an educator, not only because he can become a rocket class, but also because this class has a higher success rate in going to Shangbei.
It is also because Aunt Ping Li, the head of adult education, and her mother Xiao Min have a deep holiday.
He deliberately chose to be an educator just to see how much his mother Xiao Min cares about herself and what she will do for herself.
This test has once again uncovered my mother's old scars. People and events in Jiujiang are the past that my mother tried to avoid.
Jun Jun complained that her mother didn't try her best, but her mother was hurt by her son's distrust. The two men had a quarrel.
And this quarrel also broke the strange and polite scene since the mother and son met.
Twenty-year-old Jin Jiajun has passed the age when she needs her mother most. For more than a decade, mother and son have separated and maintained a fragile parent-child relationship by video.
The lack of maternal love for many years makes Jin Jiajun both eager and resentful to his mother.
As soon as he came to Beijing, he deliberately embarrassed his mother Xiao Min in the name of choosing a repeat class. Behind this is his careful exploration of love.
This ambivalence of yearning and alienation is unlikely to be improved in a short time. The fragile parent-child relationship can only be slowly repaired with sincerity and love.
Parents and children have a fate, and hope to cherish each other and let this fate have a happy ending.
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