On the day of engagement, the man is going to:
1. The man and his related elders (uncle, uncle, father) went to the woman's house to send bride price/engagement money and have tea and chat.
2. According to the number of immediate family members of the woman's family, how many snacks (cooking oil or milk or Wang Laoji plus dried longan and dried litchi) are prepared to bring to the woman's family when engaged.
3. Bring the woman's home to prepare snacks: four-wedding cakes (double-wedding cakes, egg cakes, chain cakes and pine nut cakes), evergreen (roots dyed red), five-color peanut arborvitae leaves, eggs, and seven-up fruits (longan, peanuts, red dates, walnuts, eggs, lotus seeds and melon seeds) are wrapped in red cloth. Note: some places do not need it, and some places do. Just prepare according to your own customs.
On the day of engagement-the woman intends to:
1. In the morning, the woman's related elders (uncles, uncles, fathers, etc. ) Wait for the bride price/engagement money from the man at the woman's house, and prepare refreshments (eggs, sweet soup, fruits and snacks) at the woman's house.
2. Women give each man a red envelope.
3. Evergreen, safflower, candy, steamed bread, eggs, sixi cake, etc. Put it in a red bag and return the gift to the man. You can also return some from the man's home. Note: Don't buy "pears" for fruits.
Engagement luncheon:
Wedding banquets in Jinhua city are usually luncheons, and immediate family members of both men and women will be invited to attend. Prepare wedding candy/cigarettes according to the number of relatives who come to the engagement. Some places have also prepared wedding cigarettes, one for each person. Engagement decorations, desserts, engagement letters and other contents can be prepared at the engagement site. Now, after getting engaged, I usually prepare to get a license.
Matchmaker and bride price:
(1) About the matchmaker: Both uncles are matchmakers, and you can't get married without a matchmaker.
(2) Engagement money is the bride price money given by the man to the woman on the day of engagement, and Jinhua is generally 88,654,38+0,888,288,000, depending on the family situation.
(3) Engagement money: Generally, the man buys hardware or three gold for the woman and brings it to her home together with the dowry. As part of the dowry, there is also direct money for the woman to buy.
(4) About changing your mouth: It can be done at the time of engagement or marriage. When you change your mouth, both parents will give a red envelope, at least 500 caps, depending on the economic situation.