You can't have your cake and eat it. You are too busy to take care of your children. Although you can get a lot of money, it is inevitable that he will sacrifice your feelings with your own children. Therefore, you must choose between fish and bear's paw, either sacrificing your job or part of your financial resources, or sacrificing the feelings between the two children.

So to sum up, if you want to do something, you must make some adjustments to your work. This is the most reasonable and effective method of all methods. If you want to exchange more things for your present life, you must give up something to make up and compensate! Therefore, you need to adjust your work status. If your normal job is to work overtime every day, then take a lighter job and ask the leader to transfer to some slightly unimportant positions.

Although it sounds really hard to accept, think about it, your children can get more company from you, and I believe you can rest assured.

And if you are tired of leaving, you must spend more time with your children. Now, the predecessors said that time is like water in a sponge, and it can always be squeezed out when you think about it. I hope you can think more about your children, strive to improve your own strength, deal with unnecessary interpersonal relationships, and try to make up for your children.

The fundamental purpose of this method is to improve your study in life and try to ensure that everything you do is meaningful, so it is also a very cost-effective thing to give up that meaningless or completely meaningless thing to accompany your children. In this way, you won't make too many sacrifices at work and have time to spend with your children. What you need to pay is to be more tired and sacrifice a large part of entertainment time and rest time.

The problem itself is not difficult to solve, mainly because you have found yourself a strong reason not to be with your children, that is, you are too busy. Since you say you have no time, what can I say?

I believe that any parents who really want to accompany their children, no matter how busy, will do their best, even if they are too busy, they will let their children know about their parents from time to time.

I can't believe you are too busy to have dinner with your family. I don't believe you don't even have time to sleep with your children. I don't believe you don't even have time to video talk with your children.

If your job really keeps you so busy that you can't even do the situation I analyzed above, doesn't your current job make you miserable? Then what's the point of sticking to it? You earn so much money just to give your children a better life, but do you think it's all worth it?

I have always believed that as long as you are a conscientious person, even if what you want to do is not exactly what you think, at least you have no regrets.

I brought a child before, because her father didn't accompany her brother's growth. It was not until her brother went to primary school that her father felt unable to communicate with his eldest son or even get a smile from him. He realized the seriousness of the problem.

So when I take his daughter, my father takes her home almost every Friday afternoon. How busy is his work? Shanghai and Italy fly back and forth. He said that sometimes he didn't even have time to drink a glass of water when he got home, but when he vowed to be a good father, didn't he?

Many people really have to leave their families for their careers in order to make a living. I also want to understand them, but since I have a child, I must be responsible for him. No matter how many reasons I find, they are not convincing.

Although I have no children, I used to be a child, and I can understand what it's like to be a child.

Children want their parents to accompany them. When parents have no time to accompany their children, it will have a bad influence on their psychology. So I think as a parent, I need to know what you want to achieve, whether you want a career or a family, whether you value a career or a family and children. If you have a successful career, but your children have a bad relationship with you, they are unhappy, and even they don't study well when they grow up. For you, no matter how successful your career is, you can't save your children.

Another thing to understand is that what a child needs is not that you give him a lot of material things to enrich his material conditions. It is that he needs emotional richness, parental love and parental companionship. If a child with material wealth lacks love, he will be more likely to use the material things you gave her and not learn well. And these material things can't really satisfy him. We all thought it would be good to create good conditions for our children, but what children really need is the love of their parents.

Therefore, as parents, we should learn to put down our work properly and take time out to spend more time with our children. In fact, it may not take much time. Maybe you can go home early after work every day. When you get home, you don't just do your own thing, watch TV or continue to work, but just take time to spend with your child, help her with her homework, chat with him or accompany him.

You can also have a fixed time to take your children out to play, for example, once a month. I think this will bring great satisfaction to the child's mind, and he will live in a loving environment from an early age.

I think we should spend some time with our children. Even if you have less time, you should stay with your children. When you are busy at work, you should also take time to spend with your children, because children only have one childhood.

We must give them enough love to make them feel that their parents love them. This kind of love is not to buy them a lot of clothes and delicious food, but to really love them and not let them feel lonely.

There are many left-behind children in this world. They have no love from their parents, leaving a psychological shadow. In fact, the time for children to accompany you is not long. Think about it, he will go to boarding school in junior high school. Since then, he can only stay at home for a holiday. When he was working, he didn't have much time for vacation and couldn't go back.

Therefore, the only thing that can be with you is his childhood, and before his junior high school, he only spent more than ten years at home. If you can't accompany him for more than ten years, you won't have time to accompany her in the future. When you have time, he has grown up, and he has no time.

You should be brave. Mom and dad, there must always be someone to accompany the children. Never neglect this child. If it is really necessary, you should take time off to accompany the children. What you lose when you ask for leave is only your salary, while what your children lose is their father's love and mother's love. Money can't be bought back. Therefore, we must give our children more love. If you spend less time with her, it will also create a gap between you.

As the saying goes, parents are the best teachers for children.

If you do well, you will infect children, and children will think that you are right and learn from you. Only in this way can you better educate your child and make him a useful person. This intangible education is more useful than the teacher's education.

Work is one thing, family is another. You can't sacrifice time with your family because of your work, and you can't delay your work because of your family.

In my opinion, work hard during office hours and have your own time after work. Being too busy at work can't be the reason why you don't have time to spend with your children. No matter how much work you do, you can't have no time to catch your breath. The child is growing up. Without the company of their families, they will become less and less confident and slowly close themselves in their own world. By the time you try to save them, it may be too late. When children grow up, they need less and less care and discipline from their parents. You will find that they can't integrate into the children's world. Your mind has drawn a dividing line, and the gap is gradually widening. It's hard to make up.

Now, parents should raise their children, and children should study hard for the future. Everyone is under great pressure, but parents can't feel that their children need company just because they are under pressure. In fact, everyone needs to release pressure and leave some breathing space during this busy time. There is not much difference between parents' working hours and children's study hours, so everyone has the same time to get to know each other and get in touch with things that can't be touched at this stage.

When eating, parents can discuss with their children the problems they encounter when they grow up, talk about interesting things that happened at school when picking up their children, and take their children to places they have never been to but are looking forward to on rest days. Even if you walk with them after dinner, you can find him who is different in peacetime. Growing up is really a wonderful thing. No mother wants to miss the growth of her children, so don't use work as an excuse to lose the opportunity to grow up with her children.

The first option is to change to a lighter job.

In fact, this practice is very difficult for many people, because it is not easy to find the right job. Now in order to spend enough time with my children, I have to change to a hard job that suits me. Most people don't want to give up, and you may not find it if you quit.

Let's find a job that suits us. In a new environment, friends have changed, which will have a very negative impact on ourselves in the future. But for the sake of children, this is one of the ways.

The second option is to discuss with the boss and reduce your workload. Even if the salary is deducted, it is worthwhile to deduct the bonus. Or you can discuss it with your colleagues in the company who are playing better with you. Ask them to do some work for you if necessary.

If your has a really good relationship, the best you can do is invite them to eat two more meals and say something nice. Even if you feel indebted to your colleagues, you don't want to do it yourself. Everyone may understand you for the sake of children.

The above two options may not be a good choice, but at least they can provide you with a reference. Never give up the education of children because of work. Now many parents ignore this and put their work before their children.

Spend more time with your children, don't let them feel that their parents' love is lacking, spend more time educating them, and don't let them lose their parents' two first teachers at an early age.

Don't parents work hard for their children all their lives? Don't think that working to earn money is to provide better living conditions for children. True and reasonable, but you can't let your child lose at the starting line.