1. During the period of love, I was carried away by the love in my feelings and went on step by step. At that time, the feelings were all love, and they were reluctant to leave each other.
As a mature man, first of all, you should not treat love blindly, but treat feelings more rationally! For mature men, feelings are spiritual sustenance! They tend to take things far and combine them with reality, instead of saying what I can give you now! But in the future, I know that feelings are not a game.
3, and for a naive man: feelings are the love of both sides, so short answer, don't think too much! Distinguish a mature man, often from his words and deeds, to see whether he is more mature, whether he handles things calmly, and whether he knows how to discuss with his relatives! ! Ability to judge what to do and what not to do!
4, mature men, marriage must not divorce. This question will vary from person to person. However, an immature man, it is best not to get married, because marriage needs to face a lot, and people are immature, and it is inevitable that they will not be able to bear the pressure. Generally speaking, there are the following divorce factors: extramarital affairs, domestic violence (including cold abuse and hot violence), bad habits, cheating, stealing vegetables, drinking, whoring and gambling, which is enough. These are all factors that cause marital disharmony. If the material life is not satisfied, it will often make women file for divorce, because men have not brought her material enjoyment. This varies from person to person. Physical problems infertility, no children, incomplete family, always feel the lack of joy, laughter and vitality. Long-term separation in different places leads to unsatisfied physiological desires. If these problems are not solved, they will lead to divorce. Also, age has little to do with people's mental maturity, which is determined by people's strength.
Mature men will call you baby. It hurts. A mature man will close his eyes and kiss you gently when he is in love, so that you can feel his meticulous love. Mature men will constantly care about whether you are sleepy or not, and will delay your other arrangements before deciding the next step. Even if you are tired, I will stay with you as long as you don't want to sleep. Mature men rarely ask you too many questions, unless they can't figure it out and can't catch any clues. Otherwise, few things can escape their analytical and thinking abilities.
6. Mature men seldom say who is bad in front of you and teach you some truth. Mature men will be quiet. As long as they have time, they will cook you a good meal, hand you fruit, wash clothes and clean up the housework. Even if your cooking tastes bad, they will have a good time. Mature men will do their own thing and respond to various occasions with a calm smile. Respect and take care of you. Mature men don't fight when they are around you, but use their cleverness calmly.
7. Mature men don't like flamboyant things, but like things with quality and taste. No matter how rich a mature man is, he will be thrifty to himself and generous to others and your beloved. Mature men, no matter how busy they are at work, have no time to go home to accompany their families and buy the best things for them. My parents are sick and stay in front of my bed every day. Everything will be considered from the perspective of parents. Mature men listen to their favorite songs, but they also know your favorite songs. He will be very happy to see you smile occasionally!
Expand the way mature men chase girls.
First, abandon inferiority complex.
If you are a boy with a strong sense of inferiority, then you must first get rid of it. If you think you are not good here or there, do you think a boy like me will have a girl who likes me? Unless the sun rises in the west. If you have such a view of yourself, you are doomed to fail in love. This is a psychological expression that most introverted boys will have, so the most important first step in falling in love is to abandon inferiority and say you can.
Second, clear objectives.
Just like our study, with clear goals, we can pursue and develop. For example, if you want the average score of each subject to be above 90 points, this is your goal, the object you pursue and the direction of your development. So chasing girls is no exception. In order to achieve this goal, you must set a goal. When the goal is clear, you will think about how I can chase her and produce a series of pursuit ideas. This is when you start to develop.
Third, roll your eyes and let her know that you have a crush on her.
The goal is clear. You should look at her with silent eyes every day. Don't peek at her like a thief. Let her know whether you like her or not. If you are secretly looking at her, maybe, the girl will think your behavior is very ghostly and she will be afraid of what she wants to do. She thinks you are terrible, and try not to appear where you are in the future. My friend told me, "She hates boys who want to love but dare not pursue it. She hates those sneaky and timid boys. It turns out that you are waiting for her to confess to you. Time was wasted, but what she finally got was a blank, which really blew her popularity. " So if you like her, let her know, let your eyes tell her that you have a good impression on her, so that you can make progress.
Fourth, see how she reacts.
If you look at her silently every time, she looks at you silently, as if they are flirting with each other. This shows that she began to notice that you also have a good impression on you, and then she can move on to the next step. If you don't like the above, then you didn't let her know that you like her, or the time is not up yet. At this time, you have to work hard. Honestly, you can't do it.
Five, began to take the initiative to find reasons or excuses to approach her.
If you are sure that she has a reaction to you, then you should start to approach him. Remember, you should be ambitious, personable and walk steadily towards her. You shouldn't walk up to her as if you were seriously ill. My friend told me, "She doesn't like a shy boy who walks like the wind and may be blown down at any time." She likes a boy who walks with grace, energy, courage and stability. " So girls choose boyfriends to see if you are stable and reliable, so you should boldly find her and face her. If your appearance is not so outstanding, she will be attracted by your temperament, your charm, your chic and your demeanor.
Sixth, help her do something unnecessary.
In other words, if you look at what she is doing and taking, you will take the initiative to help her and try to do something meaningless. After a long time, she will gradually think that you are really good, like the prince charming she wants in her heart, and will gradually like you. Because no one wants to do these things for her like you, and no one thinks that this is also a way of pursuing, love sometimes can't stand the test of time, and ordinary people will evolve into lovers.
Seven, when she is sad and lost, take the initiative to comfort and care for her.
Because everyone makes himself sad, painful and uneasy because of something, at this time, what he craves most is someone to comfort and care for us. At this time, if someone takes the initiative to comfort you and care about you, you will feel that he or she is really good. When you are sad and lost, only he knows his heart best. Later, when you recall every sad loss, it is always him or her who comforts you and cares about you. However, you will suddenly miss him and want him to be your boyfriend. Therefore, when a person is sad and frustrated and gets comfort and care from a person, we will all be deeply moved by this person and mistake comfort and care for love.
Show her love sideways.
That is to say, in one night, you and she are in a bright night with stars and a bright moon in the sky. At this time, you can say to her, "I already have a girl I like." At this time, girls will be flustered. "Really? Do you like her? " "Yes, she is the girl I have ever seen who loves and likes wholeheartedly." Girls will feel lost. "Then bless you." The girl began to be silent. You said to her, "I have her picture here. Do you want to see it? " "Well, let's see if she really suits you." "It must suit me very well. She is the most perfect girl I have ever seen. " (First of all, you must be sure to look in the mirror) Take out the beautiful box from your pocket at once and say to her, "It's inside, open it yourself." The girl opened it and was very upset. Isn't this me? You asked again, "Is she suitable for me? Is she pretty? Is she a girl who can make me happy? " Girls usually blush shyly like a red rose, and hang their heads when they talk unnaturally. That's because she loves you, too. Usually you tell someone you like psychologically.
Nine, often feel the warmth of love with her.
As long as you have confessed to her, don't ask her if she loves you. It's not easy for a girl to say it, even if she is in love with you. Just because you didn't start dating, she actually told you when she was shy. Only a stupid person would ask a girl such a stupid thing. So you must not be a stupid person. Walk with her when you have time, so that you can deepen your feelings. After a long time, if you don't ask her if she loves you, she will ask you if you really love her.
Tell her we're in love.
At this time, if you really want her to be your girlfriend, then you can say to her, "Let's fall in love. I have reached the point where I can't be free and happy without you, and my whole heart is occupied by thoughts. " At this time, I believe she will be very happy, very happy, very happy to promise you "grace", because she feels the same way with you. So you can completely pursue the person you like in your heart.
How do men chase girls?
The first impression only takes 0.2 seconds.
Men always love to look at beautiful women, and their wives dare to look around. Do they think when they see beautiful women? Scientists tell us that we really can't. It only takes 0.2 seconds to see a beautiful woman on the street. Before your body can react, your brain will tell you whether this girl is your type. If the answer is yes, then there will be a series of physiological reactions, such as rapid heartbeat and increased testosterone ... because the area of "sexual demand" in men's brains is 2.5 times that of women.
Smiling doesn't work on women.
Alex Bell, a Canadian psychology professor, found that smiling can't attract girls. On the contrary, when you put on a provocative or thoughtful gesture, it is easier to impress them. The researchers recruited 1084 heterosexual men and women and asked them to vote for 100 men and women in four postures. They are happy, proud, ashamed and expressionless. It turns out that men like smiling women, and women like men's pride best.
Wednesday night is the easiest time for you to date a girl.
Three science students in new york had nothing to do, so they counted the data of all users on Facebook and built a huge "open" database, including descriptions of people's sexual behaviors and case descriptions. When these things are combined, you get a data chart. The chart shows that the success rate of dating girls on Wednesday night is the highest, which is about 30% higher than that on Sunday with the lowest success rate.
Women usually wait six dates before making a decision.
A survey of 1500 men and 1500 women in Britain shows that 20% of men believe in love at first sight, while only 10% of women. Most women need six dates to make a real decision. Men mainly look at looks when looking for a partner, while women think more.
Spells are very helpful.
A study by James Baker, a professor of psychology at the University of Texas, found that if the frequency of a word in your mantra is similar to that of a girl, the chances of you two falling in love will also increase greatly. In the experiment, the experimental group found 40 pairs of men and women for speed dating. The results show that men and women who use verbs with similar frequency will feel better at first and have a greater chance of holding hands. Because the combination of language habits will make each other more willing to listen to each other.
75% of women refuse to marry the unemployed.
Do girls want to marry a hapless man who has no job? The answer is no! According to a survey by Forbes magazine, 9 1% of women said that they got married because of love, not money. However, in another question in this questionnaire, only 25% of women expressed their willingness to marry an unemployed person.
Five living habits reveal men's psychological secrets
First, look at his favorite sport.
Most young men have several favorite sports, and men's preference for sports categories actually reflects their inner world. Men who like running and swimming, a single sport, prefer to be alone and have a more independent personality; Men who like team sports such as football, basketball and rugby show that they have a strong sense of competition and like to compete with people around them in all aspects of life. People who don't like sports are generally good at thinking and have very sensitive minds.
Second, see how long he spends with his friends.
The length of time a person spends with friends can often reflect a person's loyalty to feelings. If a man still associates with his childhood playmates, it shows that he is loyal to his feelings. However, although these men are loyal to their feelings, their psychology is not easy to change, so it may take a long time and energy to capture their hearts. If he has a wide circle of friends and friends come from all aspects of life, it shows that this kind of man has strong communication skills and is easy to adapt to the new environment.
Third, see if he uses cash or credit card.
The way of paying money can also show a man's personality. If a man likes to swipe his card, it shows that they are confident and can achieve their financial goals. Men who pay cash are generally independent, and this type of man is unlikely to be philandering. If a man always keeps neither credit cards nor cash in his wallet, it means that he likes to rely on others and wants to be taken care of by others.
Fourth, look at his communication style.
Nowadays, the communication industry is very developed, and people communicate in various ways. Some people like to make phone calls, some people like to send text messages, and some people like to send emails. Men use different communication tools and have different personalities. If he likes to make phone calls, it means that he is not afraid to make out with you, but he prefers to do things step by step; If he likes to send instant messages, it means that he wants to get your attention. You can determine whether you have been waiting for him by the speed at which you send messages. If he likes to send emails, it shows that he is an old and difficult person, because he can choose words carefully when writing emails, so that they have enough time to hide themselves.
5. Watch his favorite TV program
Most women are easily addicted to TV series, but some men like to watch TV series one after another. This kind of man actually likes to use humor as a pastime to relieve the stress in life, so that he won't regard you as an outlet for stress. But it's hard for you to discuss some serious topics with such a man. If a man likes watching legal programs, it shows that he is good at analysis and thinking. This kind of man enjoys the sense of accomplishment after solving problems, so he will be happy to help you solve some difficult problems in life.
If you want to chase a girl, you must first find a way to ask for her phone number or other contact information naturally. Secondly, you must have that kind of meaning to her. Find a topic to talk about so that she will think you are a humorous person. The second date, shopping together, watching movies, eating together. Have patience to chase a person.
How do boys chase girls? What are the small details and methods that need to be mastered?
1, after shopping with girls, we always go to different places. I sent someone home after a shopping date. To care about each other in your own way, there is no way to teach you how to care about others. Everyone cares in different ways, but it is good to express one thing and let the other person realize your goodness.
2. Girls are vain, and no one can praise her less. This is called flattery. If you shoot well, people's goodwill towards you will increase by more than n times.
You have been in contact with that girl for some time. In fact, people gradually get used to your existence and treat you as a friend. The timing is wrong, don't confess easily. All the work before the meeting was in vain. Still keep heating. Text messages, phone calls, QQ, keep your humor and thoughtfulness, and of course, occasionally discuss your future and career. I often ask people about their work and life. This is a kind of * * *.
Girls generally prefer caring and careful boys, so your carefulness is very important. Take a look. You have to find it yourself. Some girls don't say it, just test whether you care. If you look carefully, she will think that you value her and care about her. It will be very touching and comforting.
Matters needing attention
Sincerity, a little more sincerity, a little more sincerity will definitely touch a woman's heart. It is ok to lie occasionally, but lying must not become a habit.