When it comes to "rich adopted daughters", Li Xiang is the first thing that many people think of. Her rich support for Wang Shiling is very comprehensive, not only in food and clothing, but also in training. However, what we are going to talk about today is another star who can be compared with him-Yi Nengjing.
Daughter Mi Li is born to Yi Nengjing and her current husband Qin Haosheng. Since Xiaomi Li was born, she has focused on her life and often shared her children's dynamics on social platforms.
The photos of a group of small grains of rice she shared before caused a heated discussion among netizens, making them call "the world of rich people really doesn't understand".
In these photos, Mi Li is wearing a pink bathrobe and the same hair band on her head. The background looks like she is in a spa. In the first photo, Rice is sitting on the sofa wearing a cucumber mask and holding a red wine glass. The whole person looks very comfortable and smells like a "lady".
The second picture shows her sitting in a chair, watching the staff help her trim her nails and nails; In the last photo, rice grains were placed on both sides of her cheeks in the form of bouquets. Seeing her smile happily, we can see that she is very satisfied with today's "SPA experience".
Netizens saw this group of photos, some expressed disapproval, and some expressed envy.
Netizen A: I also want to raise children under such conditions. Netizen b: envy, I want to have money; Netizen C: Parents want to give their children the best. This kind of experience is nothing, what is so sour and so on.
Educating children is to get the right method through constant exploration. We can't easily define its right or wrong, but what is certain is that some things will hurt people too much. So what impact will over-enrichment have on children?
Influence of over-concentration on children
1、? Children may have wrong values.
Many parents have a shallow understanding of the concept of "having money to support" and remain in the material world. They think that giving children material satisfaction with money is rich support, but in fact, it is easy for children to have a wrong concept of money, not understand the hard-won and luxury of money, and become a luxury money worshipper.
2、? Children tend to aim too high.
If children eat well from childhood, they will form a spontaneous sense of superiority, and they will feel better than others in interpersonal communication or competition, so their goals will be set higher than others.
However, long-term enrichment makes them not deeply aware of how to achieve their goals through hard work, so they are likely to face the result of failure in achieving their goals, which is easy to dampen their self-confidence, and may even become devastated in serious cases.
3、? Children may not be grateful.
Parents with rich children always want to bring the best to their children, and gradually children will have a natural idea of this kind of effort. This kind of parenting will make children more and more selfish.
Moreover, when parents can't meet their children's needs, this selfishness may intensify their inner resentment and make some extreme behaviors.
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Raising children is not a simple matter, and "poor support" and "rich support" are not pure materials. The real "enrichment" is to cultivate children materially and spiritually, and spiritual enrichment is obviously more important. You know, the purpose of enriching children is to let them live a meaningful life.