In the evening, I fed her and changed her diaper, then took her down to the first floor to find her grandparents to entertain her, went upstairs to help her take a bath at about 7: 30, cooked porridge after washing, then fed Yan Yan porridge and drank milk to change her diaper, and took Yan Yan to bed at about 9: 00. Now, Yan Yan's rest is very good and normal. She goes to bed from 9: 00 pm to 8: 00 am every day, and of course she will breastfeed once in the middle, but usually she will go back to sleep immediately after drinking.
So it's my own time after Yan Yan falls asleep. I can finally keep a diary, arrange photos, visit everyone's blog, go to BBH to learn about parenting, replenish baby products at the auction, and so on. Of course, there is FB, and time often passes so fast that it is already midnight.
I really don't know when I got enough sleep last time. I can blame Yan Yan for the past seven months, but she has been really well recently, so I didn't go to bed early. I must blame myself.
Recently, the skin of hands is uncomfortable, dry and itchy, ugly and soft. Once upon a time, my young and tender hands have become rich hands with peeling, wrinkles and dryness. I finally know why I always draw a hand on Mother's Day cards. It turned out that my mother's hands not only peed shit, but also made cows and horses for her children.
I remember the gambler in Stephen Chow's movies. Every time he runs out of special powers, he will collapse and be weakened for a long time. Today, I suddenly feel that every woman has special powers. This spiritual power is the power hidden in the bottom of my heart, that is, once she becomes a mother, a woman who does everything quickly and efficiently, no matter how weak, will become a magical superwoman. In order to protect her children, the sky seems to be falling.
That's why some people always say that being a mother is strong. I didn't understand this until now. I've really changed a lot since I became a mother. I used to sleep overweight and would rather die than sleep. Now, 24 hours a day is not enough. I sleep just to replenish my strength and make persistent efforts.
Besides, when I was a young lady, I was very casual. From time to time, there will be a "messy area" in the room, that is, clothes, bags and miscellaneous things will be "temporarily" placed there until holidays. Later, after getting married, because my husband loves clean relationships, he occasionally quarrels about it, so he always reads: Why didn't you go back to your place after using this? This has been on the table for two days! It's easy to grow dust if you buy this one. This one is not practical, and that one has no place to put it. .................
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At first, I thought he was really strict. Everything should be put in order, and there was no "temporary" freedom. But after becoming a mother, I gradually developed obsessive-compulsive disorder. Because Yan Yan can move on the ground, I have to clean the floor at least once every morning. If I walk barefoot on the tiles and don't feel "astringent", I will clean it again in the afternoon. I don't believe in mops. I once told my husband.
What if Yan Yan eats it?
Now every time I wipe the floor, I will first soak a clean rag with Formosa Plastics Biomedical antibacterial hand sanitizer, then be a standard prostitute and wipe it back and forth several times seriously until there is no hair and dust, and then put Yan Yan on the ground with satisfaction.
Although some people will disagree: overprotecting a child will only make her more vulnerable to viruses when she goes to kindergarten in the future.
I don't totally believe this statement. I agree to some extent. But I think this is something older children should learn to face. Now Yanyan is only over seven months old, and I still hope to make her growing environment as clean and comfortable as possible.
Again, I have always been a cook, and I really can't cook. When I fried rice, I poured egg juice on it, thinking it was fried rice with eggs. When I cooked rice, it was as hard as mung beans ... but now I spend all my time doing my homework on non-staple food. Looking at the picky Yan Yan, I have a great sense of accomplishment. On holidays, I will also stew chicken soup for my husband and watch him clean the bottom of the pot.
When I was a young lady, I really stayed away from the "stay-at-home mom" industry. I always feel that I can't be a full-time mother at all, because children are annoying and noisy, taking care of them is tiring, time is occupied, there is no off-duty time, and I am out of touch with society, and I will become a yellow-faced woman ... ..
Comparatively speaking, I still want to commute fully every day. During lunch break, I will lie in the conference room with my colleagues and scold my boss. After work, I will go to the East District with my brand-name bag on my back, sleep naturally on holidays, and then surf the Internet until dawn. But when I became a mother, I found that nothing in this world is absolute. Before I was born, I couldn't imagine that I would become like this, and I couldn't imagine that there was such a powerful force in a woman's body to love and give.
I really can't imagine it at all ... Once upon a time, wiping the floor clean every day, cleaning up the furniture spotless, making non-staple food delicious and nutritious, raising children lively and healthy, and occasionally cooking a few good dishes for my husband to eat, which made him feel relaxed and comfortable as soon as he came back. It turned out to be the most important thing in my life and the greatest sense of accomplishment in my life. .
I feel very sad when I look at myself in the mirror occasionally. I feel old, my hands are getting thicker, my skin is not good, and I am not young and cute at all. But when I look at Yan Yan, I will shake my head and think: Try harder, it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter if you are ugly. It doesn't matter as long as Yan Yan is healthy and happy. As long as my husband still loves me, it doesn't matter.
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