If you don't love her, just let her go. Don't enjoy her care and tenderness in vain, and then find another girl casually, and then say that you want to break up after finding it, or simply step on both sides.
Don't always act like a big man in front of your friends and her friends. A woman is willing to take care of you and satisfy your man's preference for "three obedience and four virtues" because she loves and pampers you, but it doesn't mean that she is willing to be treated as a servant and vassal.
Do what you promised her, no matter how small. A woman wants a strong shoulder to lean on and wants to tell you everything about her, but if you can't even do small things well, how can she rely on you? When she says something you don't agree with, don't criticize and don't be indifferent, so how can she trust you and tell you everything?
Don't always play games or get on the computer when you get along. When you are happy, she may already feel left out, and you only pay attention to your computer.
6. Women always have a few days of menstruation. At that time, she couldn't control it with reason. No matter how hysterical, unreasonable and moody she is, you should coax her into tolerating her. Never show displeasure and impatience.
7. Don't always yearn for three wives and four concubines, saying that ancient men are really happy, saying that they want a threesome. She regards you as the only one for her, and she wants you to treat her as the only one. You often say that. Can she trust you to go out and meet your sisters and friends? Don't always praise your confidante in front of her, and don't care more about other women than her. A woman is a sensitive animal. It's not that she doesn't trust you She just cares too much about you. I hope you can do the same.
8. Don't always stare at other women in front of her, and don't always envy the beauty of others. Or why not. A woman wants you to love her for who she is, and she wants to be the most beautiful, sexy, important and favorite person in your heart.
9. No matter how virtuous and maternal a woman is, she is still a child in her bones. Don't always expect her to be considerate of you, considerate of your feelings and take you as the center. She also wants to be as headstrong as a child, hoping that someone will spoil her, love her, take care of her and care for her, instead of just asking for her love and tolerance like a child.
10, admit that you did something wrong and hurt her, and accompany her with actions. Putting down the so-called man's face occasionally can warm her broken heart. Don't say you want to change it or do it again next time. She can forgive your occasional mistakes, but she can't tolerate repeated mistakes.
1 1. Care for her when she is weak and in a bad mood, and support her to guide him when she is flustered and helpless. Love her who is healthy and confident, and love her who is helpless because of illness, instead of just asking her to give you the best. No one is perfect, share her shortcomings, tolerate her, not just blame her, and don't be cold when she needs you most. Be her hero, her prince and her knight.
12, never betray. Don't think that "the red flag doesn't fall at home, but the colorful flags are fluttering outside", and don't treat women as clothes.
13, it is not necessarily marriage that gives her a real sense of security. But: no matter whether you are poor or rich, healthy or sick, you should love each other and never give up until you die.