Life is an individual, and individuals are different from each other. It is common to criticize others. This is that human nature has nothing to do with gender or group.
Even those intellectuals whose knowledge literacy exceeded that of ordinary people in the Republic of China were just so. Even Bing Xin, the "old man of the century" and the "mother of literary circles", failed to escape from the leisurely mouth of her peers.
Bing Xin, formerly known as Xie Wanying, was born in Xie Jia Mansion, Fuzhou. Gu Jie Mansion used to be Lin Juemin's former residence, but it was bought by Bing Xin's grandfather from the Lins. In May of the following year, Xie Jiaju moved to Shanghai.
After that, Bing Xin moved to Yantai with his father Xie.
Bing Xin's father, Xie, graduated from Beiyang Naval Academy and was sent to Weiyuan Ship for internship. Upon the expiration of the internship, he entered beiyang fleet for service. He used to be the artillery officer of Beiyang Navy, the founding president of Yantai Naval Academy, and later served as the second staff officer of the Naval Command of the Provisional Government of the Republic of China. He was the last deputy minister of Ren Haijun in Beiyang government, and served as director of the National Coast Guard and adviser to the Admiralty.
In this way, Bing Xin is a young lady of an official family. And the family is rich and the parents are harmonious.
Bing Xin spent a colorful childhood in Yantai. In later articles, Bing Xin wrote about that time many times, which was warm and beautiful all his life.
All her childhood teenagers lived in love and light, which was completely different from Zhang Ailing's childhood when her father was indifferent and Lin saw her parents at odds.
This childhood directly influenced Bing Xin's writing style. Most of her works were full of love, and delicate warmth was inadvertently revealed.
Bing Xin went all the way to school, finally entered the Union Women's University, chose science, and then gave up medicine and joined literature.
At this time, Bing Xin published his first novel Two Families under the pseudonym Bing Xin. Since then, she has written For Little Readers, Fen, Return to the South and Dong Er Girl.
Most of the girls in Bing Xin's works are gentle and dignified, warm and intelligent, which is different from the petty spirit caused by bitterness. The girl in her works is generous and warm.
After Bing Xin and her husband Wu Wenzao got married, Wu Wenzao and Liang Sicheng taught in the same school, and they became friends. The two wives naturally became friends, and Lin often held a cultural salon in her home and invited Bing Xin.
The invited guests were all elites in the cultural circles at that time, and even Xu Zhimo and Jin, who had emotional entanglements with Lin, often visited.
Bing Xin is a person with emotional cleanliness. She couldn't understand this relationship, so she wrote Our Wife's Living Room. Some people think this is an allusion and satire to Lin.
Lin is not to be outdone. When she came back from Shaanxi, she asked someone to bring a few bottles of mature vinegar to Bing A Xin, and then responded to Bing Xin's satire, showing her dislike for Bing Xin.
This "Our Wife's Living Room" has also become a case-solving in the history of literature.
Zhang Ailing once said in the article "I See Su Qing" written for Su Qing: "If I have to comment on female writers in a special column, I can't be proud of comparing myself with Bing Xin and Bai Wei. I only want to compare myself with Su Qing."
It's really mean and petty to attack the appearance of a female writer, and sure enough, human elves can't avoid customs.
Zhang Ailing's disdain for Bing Xin was widely publicized, and everyone could see it clearly.
The difference between them is that the outside world often compares them. They are as arrogant as Zhang Ailing and will not be persuaded.
The dispute between them lies in their different writing styles.
In Bing Xin's article, the world is gentle and beautiful, sometimes with a little sadness. However, Zhang Ailing's works are all about cutting open human nature, bloody analysis and depressing gloomy tone, gouging out scars that people don't want to face like knives.
Zhang Ailing thinks Bing Xin is gentle and artificial, while Bing Xin thinks Zhang Ailing is mean and dark. Hate each other, who also ignore each other.
Just like the dispute between Han Han and Jing M. Guo in those years, no one is more powerful than anyone, and no one's words are more profound. Every flower has its own merits.
The dispute between Bing Xin and Zhang Ailing is probably related to their growing environment. Zhang Ailing has an irresponsible father, so in her articles, she writes about her father and the truth of the world without mercy. In Bing Xin's article, the mother is kind and gentle, and the father is tall and dignified.
What Zhang Ailing wrote is a real picture of the world, and her truth lies in her analysis of human nature, which hits the nail on the head. Bing Xin wrote about another world, pure beauty and warm sunshine, including the beautiful human beauty in the world.
Time is getting farther and farther, and the years are long. Lin and Zhang Ailing died one after another, and those grudges and resentments also returned to the dust with the elimination of the body.
Bing Xin kept writing and writing, wrote many articles, and lived to be 99 years old, known as the "century old man". Countless praises, countless praises.
People can't get everyone's approval, nor can they please everyone. I've been running all my life, but I'm trying to achieve something. Time flies, time flies. It is enough to be an ordinary person in other people's mouths, and don't please people who don't like themselves.
No one's final glory is because he lives in someone else's mouth. Even if it doesn't shine, let's live a happy life. Life is hard, but the simplest happiness is the hardest to come by. As an adult, I found that my favorite thing is the most ordinary and trivial thing, and it is the thing that I often scoffed at when I was young and romantic.
It is a very vicious thing for a woman to attack her appearance. Bing Xin didn't care at all, just a faint sentence "flowers in the corner!" " When you admire yourself, the world becomes smaller. "Then go through the years with your heart.
Be a radiant self. To live is to have a posture of living. People who know where you should go never care about other people's criticism.
Since yesterday, I have to leave Bolt and me behind. It hurts my heart even more today. " There are many different people, and it is common to criticize each other. It is sad to live in the criticism of others. The road ahead is long and the prospects are broad. Curling up in the coldness of others is to stand still and lower your level.
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