The three most important things for women today: making money, becoming beautiful and flirting. First, making money is the first priority. If you haven't found a reason to make money, I suggest you take a closer look at the new marriage law. In my opinion, women make money for four reasons: 1. If they have money, they can buy whatever they want, travel wherever they want, and change jobs as soon as they want. 2, in the face of urging marriage, you can be more confident, because you can buy your own house and own your own home, instead of living in your mother's house, being taken as a burden by your parents and brothers and just wanting to sell you at a discount. When you are in love and get married, you don't need to consider the man's financial ability, whether you have a house or a car, you just need to find a man you like and can make yourself happy. Because you have money anyway, you don't need to get married for money. 4. At the time of divorce, having your own property is easy to win the custody of children, and the quality of life will not decline. After returning to being single, I still have strong competitiveness in the marriage and love market, and I can even find small fresh meat. Therefore, to make money like a man, money can give you enough sense of security and make you calm, elegant and confident. Second, be beautiful and take good care of your appearance and figure, because they will accompany you all your life and never give up. Women become beautiful not to please men, but to cherish themselves and please themselves. When your face is full of collagen, when you have a vest line, you will love yourself more and won't let anyone bully you. You will also be more confident, more energetic and more passionate about life and work. The more beautiful a person loves life, the more she loves life, and the better life will treat her. Because people who know how to love themselves will love others, life and the world. Therefore, keeping yourself beautiful is not superficial, but deep self-discipline, a treasure of life and a love for life. When you make yourself more beautiful, you will find that the whole world is also beautiful. Third, a really smart woman will never say that she doesn't need a man, nor will she exclude him. They will let themselves learn high-end skills, so that men will be dead set on her and feel at home in gender relations. Those women who say that love is poison and men are demons are because they have no ability to control love and keep men. So after being defeated and injured in love, I blamed all the responsibilities on love and men. In fact, men are lovely and easy-to-use creatures. Smart women will take the initiative to choose men and then let them be used by themselves. Stupid women passively wait for men and then let them get themselves. If you want men to bully you and use you, make yourself a good wife and mother. You will be married by a man as you wish, and then become a woman who has lost herself for men and family. If you want a man to love you and spoil you, then turn yourself into a fox, enchanting and beautiful, smart and knowing men, but don't love men, attract him, but don't surrender to him, like him, but don't be infatuated with him, but always be yourself by his side. Take the initiative to seduce the man you like, instead of passively waiting for the man you don't like to seduce you. A woman who has the choice in her own hands will have a better chance of winning. It is necessary to make money, and it is necessary to be beautiful. By the way, I am embarrassed. What are the three most important things for a woman? 2. The three most important things in a woman's life. First, managing a husband is managing happiness. When a woman is a girl, her favorite game is dressing up as a family. In this game, there must be a father, a mother and a child. This game also deduces many childhood love stories. It can be seen that when women were young, they had the desire to form a family independently. When she left her parents' warm wings and came together with her childhood dreams, she became a woman. And pinned her happiness on this man named husband, and gradually she found that he had changed. He is no longer unconditionally accommodating you to satisfy your vanity and romance, but don't complain or doubt your choice. That's because your role has changed. You must accept him and then manage him. When he is a potential stock, he will become your blue chip one day. Second, cultivate children, children let women's happiness continue. When a seed is quietly conceived in the womb, the mother's greatest hope in the future is not how beautiful and smart the child is, but the child's health. As soon as he was born, it became your bounden duty to educate him. His future will determine your future happiness, love him and spoil him, but you must not forget to educate him to be a responsible and caring person. People who have the ability to live independently, although raising children to prevent old age is a traditional concept, you certainly don't want him to be a bookworm that you love and hate. Worrying is his greatest filial piety. No matter how brilliant your career is, the failure of children's education also means the failure of being a woman. Third, taking care of yourself is a condition for a woman's happiness. Whether you are a wife or a mother, don't forget that you are a woman. Even if you have a beautiful appearance, you can't afford to waste time. Women should know how to maintain themselves, pay attention to external maintenance, and constantly enrich themselves with learning. Appearance can be old, but temperament can be eternal, gentle and elegant, mature and wise. This kind of accomplishment is not achieved overnight, but accumulated by culture and accomplishment, which can never be imitated. You are full of poetry and self-esteem, and the passage of time can only make you more outstanding and attractive. Such a woman deserves a lifetime of happiness.