It will be more attractive for women to wear suspenders and flowered skirts to show their good figure.
However, for fat women, they can't show their elegant posture, and they may face criticism from everyone and even lose a job and a love. ...
Therefore, losing weight has become a trend for modern women to pursue themselves.
Recently, in the program "Fifty Kilometers in Peach Blossom Village", Li Xueqin revealed that she loved someone very much at the age of 24, but was ridiculed by the other party: "I really can't hold on, you have to lose 100 Jin." After being stimulated, she began to lose weight crazily.
However, is obesity really that shameful?
Try to lose weight. What should I do if I fail to rebound?
What makes us feel that we are not beautiful enough? Is it really just obesity?
Losing weight means that you consciously change yourself.
In the mainstream aesthetics of contemporary people, obesity is often associated with words such as "ugly" and "unqualified".
This wave inadvertently makes many obese women feel inferior and ashamed and want to make up their minds to fight obesity.
Rogers said: individuals have the instinct to pursue self-realization and development.
Our idea of losing weight is to make ourselves thinner and more beautiful, more in line with the mainstream aesthetics of society and recognized by more people.
This is actually a manifestation of our instinctive and conscious self-demand and self-change.
Anya, the heroine in "The Battle of Slimming", is a cake maker who deals with food every day. Her boyfriend is a swimming coach and has an excellent figure. They were sweet.
But because of her fat constitution, she tried to eat a lot of high-calorie desserts at work, and her figure became fatter and fatter until she was completely out of shape.
One day, a friend invited her and her boyfriend to a wedding. She tried on countless clothes in front of the mirror, but they were all dissatisfied with her figure.
Persuaded by her boyfriend, she gave up traveling and stayed at home to play with her mobile phone.
When browsing my boyfriend's social networking site, I accidentally found-
My boyfriend is having an affair with a strange woman, and he has a look of enjoyment on his face.
When she arrived at the wedding, her boyfriend told her, "When we met, you were so hot that I couldn't stop. Now that you focus on food, we have to break up. "
The blow of breaking up caused Anya to fall into great pain. She didn't know where she was not good enough, and her boyfriend abandoned herself. Encouraged and accompanied by her good friend Correa, she started a "slimming war" to prove that she is beautiful and worthy of being loved.
From drinking soda without snacks to running and cycling, from marathon to swimming. ...
The two supervised each other and worked together to spend an extremely painful period of losing weight.
Anya succeeded in losing weight.
Her motivation to pursue self-change and self-realization is also precipitated in stages.
However, if Anya succeeds in losing weight, can she completely reverse her fate?
Even though she eventually lost a lot of fat and liked the habit of filling her stomach with food, it is still difficult to fundamentally change it in the long run, and fat often rebounds.
Moreover, she is still very inferior inside, and feels that others are not really good to herself. In life, do many people, like Anya, feel that their obesity should be attributed to external pressure, or because of setbacks in work or love?
So, I want to fight obesity, change my destiny by losing weight, and reach a certain stage of success?
All this is because you seek self-growth under the control of consciousness.
Losing weight can sometimes make you thinner and more beautiful, but it only brings about changes in your body shape.
Can you "become beautiful and get better" at the same time? If you just focus on losing weight, you may not get what you want.
Really become beautiful and turn yourself into the best "gift"
It is human nature to love beauty.
I feel that I am not good-looking enough to gain weight, and I am afraid that people around me will resent it. It is human nature to want to lose weight.
However, success in losing weight does not mean having the whole world.