The arrival of a new family life is something to celebrate at any time, but when this festive event meets the New Year, it is a bit embarrassing. In fact, the hardest thing is Ma Bao.
Greedy: On the dinner table during the New Year, there are very few dishes that can be eaten after childbirth. It is very uncomfortable for Ma Bao to see and smell, but not to eat.
Angry: I finally waited for everyone to have a holiday reunion, but I couldn't sit down and chat for a long time, and I couldn't go shopping with my friends. I will feel depressed and wronged.
Physical and mental exhaustion: confinement requires a quiet environment. During the Spring Festival, there will often be guests and relatives at home, and there will be firecrackers outside, which will not only affect your rest, but also scare your baby.
The above points are the experience of people who have experienced it, so for many expectant mothers, they don't want to sit on the moon during the Spring Festival. However, when the baby is born is out of control. As long as you pay attention to the following four points, you can make the baby mother who is confinement in the Spring Festival feel better.
If you want to have children and not conflict with the New Year, do the following four things.
A few days ago, Ma Bao wrote to me privately. Her due date is the first day of New Year's Day. She is worried that the hospital and her family will be busy a few days before and after the Chinese New Year, and she wants to have a caesarean section one week in advance. Actually, there's no need to do this. It is more important to let the baby be born normally and smoothly than to give birth naturally. Many precious mothers give birth to babies on New Year's Eve. If everyone goes to caesarean section in advance, it will be a mess.
★ Be fully prepared to have children.
Expectant mothers who are expected to give birth one month before and after the Spring Festival should pay attention, and the baby is likely to be born earlier or later. Don't always worry about whether the baby will be born on New Year's Day. It is important to prepare all kinds of items needed and contact the hospital in advance.
Be fully prepared, and you can go to the hospital to give birth at any time. It's not terrible to have children in the New Year. It's terrible to have children without preparation.
★ Sitting on the moon in the New Year, refusing relatives to hold babies frequently.
If conditions permit, try to confinement in your own home. During the Spring Festival, there may be many relatives in your parents' house, and everyone can't help hugging and kissing the newborn baby. This is a way to express love, but it is dangerous for small babies. Relatives came from all directions, covered with a little dust and bacteria. Often holding a newborn baby is easy to make the baby sick.
★ The itinerary of visiting relatives and friends and returning to the family depends on the situation.
In many areas, the custom of visiting relatives and friends in the New Year is still continuing, but this is definitely impossible for a baby mother who is confined to the moon. Ma Bao can change it into video or telephone to pay a New Year call. Relatives know that this situation will not be choosy.
There are still some people who have to go back to their parents' home on the second day of the New Year, but it is not convenient to go out during confinement, even if they go back to their parents' home, they should be carefully considered. Physical condition, weather condition and distance are all important factors.
★ Adjust your mood and don't think too much.
As a person with a baby, Tuanzima understands these precious mothers who are confined during the Chinese New Year. There will be a sense of loss during this period. However, from another angle, it is also a happy thing that the baby was born in such a meaningful period of time.
Adjust your mood, just like ordinary confinement. You can make up for the delicious and fun, but you have to bear the bad mood yourself.
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