This is the benefit of reading classics for adults, and naturally it is more beneficial for children, which is consistent with the method and concept of cultivating the mind that we admire. Therefore, reading classics is not only for children, but also for ourselves.
It's because you don't understand, and you're stuck, so the effect is good. In fact, the essence is to make the qi and blood in the head more orderly by chanting, thus nourishing the cranial nerves. In this way, some diseases will get better and recover. [chuckle] So when we read the Bible, we don't have to be confused about understanding or not understanding. Maybe Zheng's gift to us is this ignorance? .
Classical wisdom is great wisdom, and the wisdom of us adults belongs to empirical wisdom, and we all have our own limitations. Therefore, if you are not everyone, don't explain the classics to your children easily. Once our knowledge is instilled in children, children will be limited by us. Therefore, don't disturb children's innate wisdom that is connected with classics. When they are adults, they will use their own experiences to understand the essence of the classics.
Classics of Chinese studies are the originator of modern psychotherapy. The ancients in China changed the world with their ideas and concepts, that is, "Tao". The purpose of his theory and thought is to change the world, harmonious society, purify people's hearts and settle their lives.
Among them, the thought of Tao Te Ching once influenced the voluntarist philosophers Schopenhauer and Nietzsche, while Tolstoy believed that his good mental state should be attributed to reading Tao Te Ching.
On the basis of conventional drug therapy, the implementation of classic reading intervention can make patients constantly understand and reflect on the root causes of their emotions in practice, make patients reconstruct their cognition, induce them to give up their old negative coping styles, and try to choose positive coping styles with social adaptability, so as to change the negative automatic thinking mode as soon as possible, promote the development of patients' healthy personality, accelerate the recovery process of patients' illness, and further improve the efficiency of clinical doctor's advice execution and treatment effect.
Reading classic and conventional drugs can effectively relieve anxiety symptoms and improve the quality of life.
This article also explains why parents feel less anxious after reading classics, and explains the healing effect of reading classics on people's body and mind.
Cultivate children's dreams
Just watching the video carefully, I think for me, I just don't know what my dream is, so I didn't dream it on purpose. From small to large, I walked down step by step. I really have no one to guide me in society. Suddenly I don't know what I want, or I don't have the courage to dream. So we should give children enough space to have their own dreams.
[Laughter] Well, that promo is quite special, unlike the previous propaganda on how to get a better job and a better social status. It tells us the joy of realizing our dreams. The current social environment also allows children to have different dreams.
The question is how these dreams are generated and how to protect them. How to achieve it step by step, in addition to the tolerance given by the environment, children should have an active exploration heart, rather than being used to being arranged by adults.
A colleague is an expert doctor in Ruijin Hospital. At that time, he was studying a project, and his children were with him in Shanghai during that time. I live in a small house on South Shaanxi Road, near Ruijin Hospital. In the evening, I often take my son to the laboratory to continue working, and often go home around midnight, and the children are doing homework nearby. He said that children have suffered a lot with themselves and learned many good habits.
"From small to large, I did my homework by myself and never had to worry about my parents. When I first came to Shanghai, I took him to the school to have a look. Go to school the next day, go home from school, do homework, finish homework and watch TV. I was very disciplined in the fifth grade. " Hao's right words are half proud and half distressed.
In the past, a colleague was very dedicated to his work and had no time to accompany his children. But the child learned to work hard under the influence of his father. Therefore, the companionship of parents is not to sit next to the child and watch him study; Companionship is the best example for parents to do their own thing and give their children.
On how to read classics by yourself.
Wenwenma
Once you start, you can't stop. Mom Yuzi and mom Mengni, since they entered the classic of mind cultivation, never thought they would stop. Naturally, I followed the big troops and read the classics according to the instructor's schedule. They read the classics unconsciously for two months. Next, it will be such a surprise. One year, two years, three years ... the harvest is behind.
Zema
I really envy these mothers for having such enterprising and obedient babies. I recite classics every day, but my son always stays away from me. I can't force him, so I simply give up reading by myself.
Wenwenma
Children's problems are not caused by one reason, whether the environment is suitable, and whether the mother insists on being herself. Only the mother is willing to change, take back her eyes and ask the child if his temper has improved, if he smiles more, if he brings warmth to his family, that's all.
Touma
@ Li Xiaoping? It is of course ideal if children can cooperate with each other when reading the Bible, so that children and mothers will have a good interaction. But I don't think reading classics should just focus on driving with children. Classics also have a very good effect on us adults. For example, in the process of reading aloud, we will naturally adjust our breathing to calm our mood. Although we can't understand all the wisdom in the classics, we will benefit a lot as long as we understand a little every day.
Zema
I'm trying.
Touma
Therefore, parents first realized that they read the Bible for themselves and read it well. The child knows that we are insisting, and at least he knows that things should be done from beginning to end. Just like a women's volleyball team, you know you can't win, but you still insist on training and being yourself. What we admire is this determination to persist in faith in despair.
Zema
I used to think that if I didn't drag my child over to read the Bible, he would watch TV and play computer games, because if he was alone, he could do nothing, draw, origami and read. I can only make him strong when I read the Bible by myself. Stop. I don't think so. Now he has his own life and small space. Let him arrange it himself! The spirit of women's volleyball is to work hard even if you know you can't win, and I will try. [rustic laughter]
Touma
Recently, I read the Bible at home every day. No matter how late it is, I will tell my children that you should sleep first, and I will sleep after reading the Bible. Seriously, if you don't do one thing every day, you will feel particularly uncomfortable. You have to finish it before you can sleep soundly.
Zema
Yes, me too. I read the Bible every night.
Touma
This is also the happy ending of our own day. If we think about it every day, it's too late today and too tired tomorrow, leave a hole every day, and leave the hole day by day at the last day, we will know that we can't do anything a little more difficult. Children also learn to give up.
Yan Ma's sharing makes me feel that there are classics in my heart, and there are classics [naughty] everywhere. After reading the classics, I found that all good ideas are interlinked and mutually confirmed [happy].
Scarlett's mother
Whether you read the Bible in the morning, evening or other time, it is great for everyone to read the Bible according to their own schedule.
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