I remember when I was in college, several girls and boys in our dormitory went to ktv to sing. Because I'm afraid of strangers, I can't sing well, so I've been sitting in the corner and listening to everyone sing quietly. Later, when I had nothing to do, I went to buy some dried fruits and tea, and then quietly peeled these melon seeds and pistachios and distributed them to everyone in a small plate. The result is this little move. A boy later said to me, "What happened that day? Have you learned? Especially for quiet and introverted girls, you can use this trick when you go to a multi-party in the future. For example, when eating, you can hand people around you paper towels and help them pour drinks. It's okay to date two people. For example, in summer, when a boy looks sweaty, quietly drop him a wet towel and give him the sour plum soup you cooked. It can really make a good impression and instantly make you stand out among a group of enchanting sages.

2. Always send optimistic and positive messages when chatting, friends circle and meeting.

Happiness is the most important thing when people are alive. If it can bring happiness to boys, can I dislike you? If you say it's too difficult, then! Don't disturb him. You can always do it, right? Some girls are full of negative energy. Every day unhappy things happen, and they all complain to boys for comfort. "What bad luck! Being late today was seen by the leader. " What about friends circle? They are all moaning and easily lose their temper. You are Lin Daiyu, and I want to stay away from you. While some girls exude positive energy and are optimistic and cheerful no matter what happens. Talk to her. You can feel her positive attitude between the lines. What do you talk about every day? Today, the leader praised me again, and I feel that I have worked harder. Even if you occasionally ignore her and forget to reply to the message, she will say, "I knew you were busy today." Don't be tired. You can chat with me when you are tired. " . Emotion is also very stable. For example, he made an appointment with a boy, but he was late for more than an hour because of traffic jam. Some girls will lose their temper directly, so that boys who are already at a loss just want to call names, while some girls can express their understanding and comfort him by the way. Which one do you like?

3. When talking about a certain detail, let him think that you are smart and know more.

In fact, everyone has a misunderstanding that boys don't like silly girls because they feel that they can't communicate with such girls and their IQ is reduced. On the contrary, if girls can show their very smart side, especially when they are smarter than themselves, they will look at girls with new eyes. And now many boys think that girls only gossip about idolization and learning to dress up all day, and they don't understand anything. If you can show your knowledgeable side in the process of chatting with him, you will attract him immediately. I once liked a boy, but later he was cold and didn't talk to girls much. Besides, he likes football very much. Then I learned the rules of the game and the situation of each team in advance from football and watched several games. Then it happened to be the European Cup, so I talked to him about the ball game. When I talked about which team would win the game, I gave my own judgment and the reasons were very detailed. Then I felt that this boy immediately talked to me a few more words and said to me, "You are not bad. Few girls know the ball like you.

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Since then, he often chats with me. According to him, "it's interesting to chat with a smart girl like me." Actually, you see, chatting is really not a matter of frequency, but once you get to his point, the door of the new world opens.

4. Make him think you are "kind"

Why do you want to put double quotes on "kindness" here? Because I think kindness and unkindness are really hard to define. I feel that most girls are very kind, and no one thinks they are not kind.

The point is to make boys think you are "kind".

For example, shopping for change for beggars, donating to poor children, visiting lonely old people, and even going out to pick up garbage on the road should be done for him. Don't think these are melodramatic. How can a boy who just met you judge whether you are kind or not?

5. occasionally take the initiative to pay the bill and return the gift.

I'm also surprised that this one was elected. It turns out that boys will be more attracted to girls who take the initiative to pay the bill. And most of the people who say this are boys with good economic conditions. Maybe it's because many girls are used to asking them to pay for going out with them. Occasionally, girls will take the initiative to pay the bill, or return a small gift fog, which will make them very moved and will work harder to pay for you in the future. Seeing this, I suddenly want to say, "It turns out that boys are so carefree."

6, independence, there are many things to do.

Men don't like clingy girls, so please put away your clingy qualities. Find more things to do, enrich your life, and don't revolve around men. You can develop a hobby and specialty, such as skiing, swimming, badminton, street dance and oil painting. It doesn't need to be so wide and so high, but you must stick to it. There is a girl in my circle of friends. She is not pretty, but she likes dancing very much. She doesn't say how good she is. She insists on it every week. At that time, many sisters signed up to dance together, but most of them gave up halfway. Only she has been making progress. Everyone admires her and respects him.