Let me talk about myself first. I am short, 156cm, 43kg, which should be considered normal weight or thin. Being thin really has a lot of troubles, and many clothes can't be worn. Of course, a large part is due to the lack of height. Every winter and summer vacation, when I go home, my father will pick me up at the station and say that I am so thin. The legs are too thin to wear pants, and the face looks a little small. When I laugh, my face is bare and my whole body is covered with bones ... and then there are all kinds of sayings that I am thin, which are exaggerated every time. Sometimes at class reunions, classmates who used to have a good time will say, "xx, why have you lost weight again? You look like a bamboo pole. " Most acquaintances you meet in the street are like this. Everyone thinks it's a deliberate weight loss or a bad school life. It's really hard to argue. It is reasonable to have three meals a day at school, and it is also reasonable to mix meat and vegetables for breakfast, bread and soy milk, and lunch and dinner. However, this may really be a physical problem or a genetic problem. I always get fat after eating. Maybe part of the reason is that I don't deliberately lose weight, but I pay more attention to my eating habits and digestive problems after meals, so I can keep my weight in a more suitable position.
Fat and thin are evenly distributed in the dormitory. There is a girl who is already very thin, 158cm, 46kg, relatively thin. She has been clamoring for losing weight. She felt a little fat at 90 kg, and then she didn't like her legs, so she always wanted to lose weight. Her waist is only over 50 centimeters, and she still thinks it should be thinner. We are all trying to persuade her not to lose weight. Another example is a classmate in the class, 160++, 50kg, who also looks normal and has a standard "S" shape. Last night, she weighed herself in our dormitory, saying that she felt too fat and wanted to take my weight as the standard-43 kg. From a girl's point of view, it is true that she is only 43kg tall. Another girl in the class 165cm, weighs less than 80 kg. The whole person looks sick, not normal at all.
I have asked many male friends before whether they prefer thinner girls or fatter girls. The final conclusion is that they will prefer fuller girls (not fatter girls, of course) and can't accept girls who are too thin. Girls who are too thin look malnourished, and it hurts to hold them, while girls who are fatter will be more comfortable to hold them. Although we don't need to change our forms or hobbies with boys' preferences, their views can be regarded as representing another group, and we can also account for a small part.
Really, I want to know from the bottom of my heart why girls want to lose weight so thin, and they must be thin for beauty. Full is even more beautiful. Adele is a great beauty, and there are many plump beauties. Yang Yuhuan, one of the four beauties, is also chubby. Although she can't use the aesthetic standards of the Tang Dynasty to judge the standards of beauty, she doesn't need to be too harsh on how low her weight should be. In fact, there is a sentence that is right. Most girls, whether fat or thin, feel that they should lose weight, and many girls have perfectly proved this sentence. There are many ways for girls to lose weight, such as dieting, exercise and liposuction. It's really scary to think about it.
Maybe you will say that we people don't understand the sadness of fat people or something, and it doesn't mean that we can't just express that we should lose weight moderately, especially if we are already very thin, so don't ask ourselves to lose weight. Girls really shouldn't be too thin, it will appear unhealthy. From a girl's point of view, it would be nice to be moderately thin. If even girls think you are too thin, then there is really no need to lose weight, no need, for health. Health is the most important thing, isn't it?