You may do a good job, be trusted by your leaders and be envied by your colleagues. You can do everything in an orderly way, but you may be yelling at a takeaway brother and a courier. You won't thank your colleagues for emptying your trash can or buying you lunch at noon. You can't say that you are not good at this time, but it's hard to say that you know how to respect others.
I once had a female colleague. She is tall and thin with fair skin. She seems to be a person with good appearance and temperament. She is also meticulous in her work, which is very inconsistent with Bai's personality setting. She is a workaholic. She often takes the initiative to work overtime, helping leaders and colleagues do a lot of work. Because she is not afraid of hard work and has outstanding ability, she has performed well in all aspects. She can come out as a guest translator for foreign guests in the company, and the company organizes annual meetings.
But no one is perfect, and this beautiful colleague often haggles over trifles with people around him. I remember once, because a colleague used her pen, she was very unhappy and told her colleague that I didn't like others to use my things. You used it, but I don't want it!
At that time, my colleague, a monk named Zhang Er, was at a loss and thought it was not at all. I used it and gave it back to her. Her reaction is too radical!
On another occasion, she wanted to mail a material to a company in Beijing and ask a courier to pick it up. The appointed time is noon 12:00, but the express delivery is a little late, about 12:20. She was rude and scolded the courier in front of the whole company: it's shameful to be unpunctual! Even the courier can't be done well, and you can only send the courier for a lifetime!
At that time, the courier was very wronged, but he kept apologizing and said, I'm sorry for the delay. My battery car broke down on the way ... my female colleague interrupted her and said, I don't have time to listen to your explanation. If I have other things to go out after 12:00, you will delay my work.
In a word, the courier who was reprimanded by a female colleague was completely ashamed. Later, I learned that my female colleague said that she was a little unhappy with the docking person of a company in Beijing at work, so she was angry everywhere. The courier touched her forehead!
So I think there are many excellent people, but not all of them respect others. Those who really know how to respect others must be cultivated people. An educated person will not pass on his negative energy to others even when he is unhappy and lost.
Just like the "cat kicking effect" in economics, educated people will not kick the cat next door when they are unhappy, nor will they pass on their grievances to more people. We may not be particularly good, but we must know how to respect others!