The word "daughter" is very characteristic of China, that is, a woman who is melodramatic and makes much ado about nothing. Lin Daiyu is one of the outstanding representatives of the traditional "being a woman". Never satisfied, never give up, not resigned to fate and restless are the four characteristics of being a woman.
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Do you have a daughter abroad? Or do women in China have foreign boyfriends or husbands? Do foreign men eat "work"
I remember reading an article a few years ago about a China woman whose husband is Dutch. The general idea is that once after a quarrel between two people, the woman couldn't bear it anymore and slammed the door at once. The woman lingered outside for an hour, but the Dutch husband didn't call, let alone find someone. As a result, I went home without asking and found my husband sleeping like nothing happened.
This example is very representative. It can be said that China's "being a daughter" has no market abroad, and foreign husbands don't understand amorous feelings and don't buy "being a daughter" at all.
The unique state of women in China, such as writing style, coquetry, pettiness and charm, is hard to find in Europe, and there is no market. Girls and women don't need to beat around the bush to express their thoughts and dissatisfaction with their boyfriends and husbands. The implicit and euphemistic emotional expression with China characteristics is not easy to use in interpersonal communication and men-women relationship in Europe. If you really want to work, you'd better find a boyfriend or husband in China. There are other ideas, such as "If you love me, you are a worm in my stomach, and you should know what I am thinking", which these foreign men don't understand. It seems that their emotional intelligence has not been developed and cultivated since childhood. The expression of saying half a sentence and leaving half a sentence basically depends on guessing, which is tantamount to "throwing boots." You have finished the first half of the sentence, waiting for the tacit reaction from the other party, and the other party is still waiting for you to say the second half. Alas! That's why I don't understand amorous feelings! Western men seem to be more civilized, but less evolved. But it is also hard to blame. When our ancestors settled in agriculture, western men let their ancestors live a life of eating and drinking blood, which also made them good at hunting and living on meat, creating strong and tall bodies. These "boors" with developed limbs are simple-minded, lacking in emotional intelligence and unable to play harmonious music with them. In front of western men, women in China can only perform a one-man show, with no audience and no response. Alas, it is so boring!
It is too late for China women to develop and cultivate the fruits of China people's EQ after grafting on the trees of western men. The gene of EQ has been stereotyped from their ancestors, so don't expect it to be open when you are in love. If you have to try to transform them, it is tantamount to seeking fish from the edge of the tree. It is better to reform yourself than to change others. It's just that this operation won't take much effort. Chinese and foreign lovers, lovers and partners can only make do if they want long-term stability. The intestines of Europeans are shorter than those of Asians, and they don't understand the Asian-style huahuachangzi and the meaning of twists and turns and Chinese style. Therefore, for the sake of different ancestors, you should forgive them and pity them, and don't waste your work, embarrassment and so on.
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So what styles do foreign women have? Other countries do not know. In Germany, the Netherlands and even Europe, there are almost no gentle and polite people, most of them are tenacious and strong-willed women, except perhaps France or other European countries.
Many years ago, I got to know the faces of German women from German movies. I only know that nastassja kinski, the star of Tess, is a German beauty. It is said that she has always been a maverick in Europe and America, with both pure and evil characteristics, especially her nude photos, which were riddled with snakes, are very famous. Nastassja kinski's beauty is rare among German women, but her personality is a "German woman".
According to my observation, German women are mostly men from content to form, from appearance to personality, and their husbands are mostly shopkeepers who earn wages at home.
Let's talk about appearance first. Watching a German TV program one night, the hostess looks very "German", with strong facial features and clear lines, and her eyebrows, eyes and mouth are basically straight. I didn't care what was broadcast, only her face. In a few minutes of broadcast, I only saw her thin lips open and close, colliding up and down, very busy, and other facial organs seemed to be too lazy to cooperate, slack off, without any expression, which easily reminded people of wax figures, robots and puppets.
The appearance of the female host should be considered "pretty" in the eyes of China, but it is at least average in the eyes of Germans. But not all German women are as "lucky" as the hostess. During my years in Germany, I have seen many burly German women with "harmonious" facial features in peacetime or on TV. If you only look at your face, it's like playing a brain teaser, and judging your gender basically depends on guessing. Often, sympathy is rampant, and I feel that God is very sorry for German women, or that I don't love "German women". It's really unfair to them: they are too compassionate.
I met one when I was walking in the street that day. About twenty or thirty meters away from the sidewalk, a "big man" in a jacket came over, his shoulders dangling up and down, tall and big, and he weighed at least 90 kilograms visually. This kind of big guy is very common in Germany, probably because there are too many sausages of various flavors in Germany, which are so delicious that I don't know how many "men" have watermelons hanging on their bellies. But when this "big fellow" approached, I accidentally saw the black elastic tights on his legs. This is a standard for women. Is this "man" wearing the wrong pants? Wear out your wife's pants? Look at Dahan's hair. It's light yellow, medium-long, slightly curly, and its chest is the size of a heifer. My darling! It's not a man, it's a fake man and a woman!
Compassion is stimulated to swell up again.
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Talk about character. I didn't know until I arrived in Germany that Reed's clothes were not so elegant and fashionable on weekdays. Most of them are waterproof two-in-one and three-in-one coats, which almost everyone has. Because the weather in Germany can only see sunshine for half a year, it is normal to rain on cloudy days, so depression is a "national disease". Many German women's faces are also like the weather. Many people have gloomy facial expressions and tense facial muscles. Smiling seems to be a difficult expression. A Chinese mother often sends her son to school. There is a German female teacher in her school who meets her every day. But I have sent my son to school for three years, and I have never seen the smile of this German female teacher. Chinese mother said, "She doesn't seem to laugh."
I met a similar German girl in the German Adult Language School. Not only did she not laugh, but she was also eccentric and aggressive.
This German woman is in her forties. Her facial features are tightly stacked, and her expression is serious. The lines and wrinkles between her eyebrows are like knives carved on bark. Typical bureaucratic virtuous woman's face. German government agencies are also difficult to do and their faces are ugly. There are not many things you can do at once. Why is it so deja vu? This is Germany, which is famous for its "preciseness and seriousness".
Her mouth wriggled in the decree: I want to take the A2 level course, but there are no seats now. I don't know how much longer I have to wait. If you want to study in time, you can reread A 1, and there are still seats available. German women say these things with a straight face. I took the A 1 in China. This German woman is not ignorant. She has shown her my Goethe-Institut examination certificate in advance.
I refuse to emphasize A 1.
The expressionless face is still tense, as if it has not been relaxed or laughed for decades, tightly United and twisted together. The bureaucrat's daughter hung a floral scarf of the same color as her coat around her neck, like a garland. This German girl's face is not as beautiful as a scarf. Tough and unquestionable language is not as soft as the scarf around her neck. In the German woman's office, I only looked at the scarf, but I didn't see the German woman's face.
Wonderful Germany, with abnormal German grammar and blunt German pronunciation, it is not surprising that even a little bad bureaucratic German women appear, and this is the product of its wonderful German, which is their gene. It seems that Germany is either a bureaucrat with a bad attitude, tough language and no sense of service, or a German-style woman.
Then wait for the news. This class has been over a year, and there is no exact class information at present.
To be a German woman, from content to form, from appearance to professionalism, it's not that God is sorry for you, it's not that God doesn't love you, but that you are in bring disgrace to oneself!
In fact, there is also a high-ranking "daughter" among German women-Chancellor Merkel, whose refugee policy deprived Germany of a quiet and peaceful environment.