For most young people nowadays, we find that they all have such characteristics: they can't persist in doing anything, and even like to be eager for success.
In fact, this situation mainly lies in the fact that parents didn't do some exercise when they were young, and as the parents of the younger generation, we must avoid this situation for our children.
Children have no concentration, and it is not easy to succeed in doing things. My child was sent to kindergarten when he was about three years old. At that time, he watched the people around him send their children to kindergarten and followed suit.
Unexpectedly, the child was expelled from school within a week, because other children were reading quietly, and he kept running around the classroom.
The teacher felt that it influenced others and the child was young, so he suggested dropping out of school. At first I thought it might be the child's age, but at last I imagined it might be his inattention.
1, can't sit on the bench
The child seems to have ADHD when others can sit there quietly. I can concentrate on reading, but I am attracted by the scenery or other things outside the window, and I can't show my concentration on something.
2, inner impetuous, eager for success
If they want to accomplish something, they only have three minutes of enthusiasm, and they have never considered focusing on this goal step by step and making continuous progress.
3, can't insist
The so-called inattention is actually that children don't have their own firm confidence in doing anything, they can't stick to it all the time, or even give up halfway.
Just like my child's situation, I believe most treasure mothers will also encounter it. If children really can't concentrate on one thing, how can they succeed when they grow up?
So we should also be clear that it is very important to cultivate children's concentration. What should we do in our daily life?
As parents, how to cultivate children's concentration? 1) Create an environment that children can touch.
No matter what we do, there will always be all kinds of things around us that will disturb our thoughts, so it must be taken into account that when children are doing things, parents will clean up the surroundings, give them an environment to concentrate on their work and let them stay in it. For example, when children do their homework, parents can't brush videos beside them.
2) Focus on one thing with your child.
Sometimes it may be that the process of parents getting along with their children is relatively short, so they are not sure about the children themselves. Imagine, if you want to cultivate your child's own concentration, can parents set an example and do something with their children to let him know the importance of so-called concentration? We also believe that if parents can do it, children will imitate you and become more focused.
3) Choose a suitable picture book
Of course, some parents may not agree with the above points or have no conditions to do it, but in the end, we are talking about choosing a suitable picture book for our children. I hope you can get some understanding.
Now there are many picture books or books that make content according to children's own characteristics. We can find that children like cartoons very much, but just imagine, if there are books similar to cartoons, will children be willing? Do they just concentrate on books, thus forming this reading habit?