Under the guise of "caring about you", she has no scruples and imposes her ideas on the other side, regardless of the feelings of the other side. When her boyfriend doesn't do what she asks, he is aggressive and doesn't look up at all. She said to her boyfriend's face, "How can this bowl of noodles taste in her stomach?" Then I threw the tissue into the noodle soup without mercy. Zhao Ting and her boyfriend, one is self-disciplined and the other is not self-disciplined. They are both very tired together. Zhao Ting doesn't like many of her boyfriend's personal behaviors. She has always been cynical and always wants to change her boyfriend. As for my boyfriend, he can bear it at first, but he has been trying to embarrass himself and do things he doesn't want to do. Even though Zhao Ting has a proud figure and looks like a Chinese odyssey, the emotions he once suppressed will eventually erupt. Zhao Ting didn't think clearly, he should be dull, scolded and despised. He didn't explode or argue. He chose to listen patiently, mainly because his boyfriend loves you dearly. To a certain extent, you "owe him feelings and worldly wisdom."
You don't like each other being fat. You want him to lose weight and keep fit. If he listens to you, it meets your expectations, but in the process, he is very wronged and unhappy. Have you considered his feelings? Even later, he really succeeded in shaping what you expected, but there was a huge negative emotion buried between two people. How do you know if it will break out one day? For example, Zhao Ting caught her boyfriend eating spicy strips and Hong Kong-style milk tea quietly. She was particularly angry and scolded her boyfriend for not understanding her good intentions. My boyfriend, who has been swallowing up, also broke out that "I am a fat man"! There are many such scenes, and I firmly believe that they may be only one step away from separation. Even if we don't separate, we may not be happy after marriage.
Xiao Juan, 27, her predecessor, is a student who is willing to fight and get hurt. During his college years, Xiao Juan was outstanding and beautiful, and he was also a student union cadre. Comparatively speaking, her boyfriend at that time was much worse. At first, she only tried her best to catch up with her because of her thick skin, stubborn face and humorous words. After being together, Xiao Juan is still radiant, much better than her boyfriend. As for the boyfriend, everything goes with her, and she is regarded as a goddess. To the extent of "kneeling on men", she is sent to slavery. Boyfriend is happy, too. In others' eyes, this is also a pair of golden couple. Xiao Juan feels confident that according to the development trend of this situation, they will get married and have children after graduation, and they will be spoiled by their boyfriends all their lives and live a happy life.
But after graduation, my boyfriend went to a large Internet factory and was admitted to a local job in Xiao Juan. Xiao Juan will do so. Earn two years' money before it's too late. Almost all her boyfriends will go back to their hometown, get married and have children. However, only one year later, my boyfriend sent a text message to break up. He said it was serious through their relationship. From love to work, he has always been a humble and obedient party. He doesn't want to be like this in the future. He wants to find a comfortable and suitable connection again. Xiao Juan was shocked. She always thought that her feelings were stable and happy. Poke her heart means that less than three months after separation, a novice appeared in her ex-boyfriend's WeChat circle of friends, and he went to xishuangbanna tourism with his new lover. Here, I would like to advise some young men and women that the love mode of "women are superior to men" or "women are superior to men" cannot stand the test of time.
This way that one side is willing to fight and the other side is willing to suffer is more suitable for short-term love, but it is obviously not suitable for lifelong marriage. After a long time, people who have been paying and investing will be tired, which is not in line with the characteristics of human development. Men and women have completely different psychological states in the three stages of love and marriage. When falling in love, men will be more willing to pay and listen to women in order to pursue women and win their hearts. Women, on the other hand, are addicted to this indulgence, thinking that men should love her if they are good to her, and that the other party is only one person, so it is very easy to be partial and arrogant. But after the correlation is stable, the situation is different. Because men have women, the connection is clear and stable, the sense of belonging is enough, and it is easy to slack off. Men still have to fight for their careers. Feelings are only a small part of his life. Then it is normal for him to have less and less affection for you when he is in love. When a man is old, he will treat his inner demands rationally, and he will not be as desperate to conquer as he was when he was young. When a man is perfect, he wants to change women so that he can be nice to another woman.